Zašto Men Love Heartless Queen Bees

Ovo je prvo mjesto, i prvo mjesto za ljubitelje kućne ljubimce, ni manje ni više. So can we talk for just a minute about female dogs? And I mean “ženski psi” u većini eufemistički smislu, jer se ne odnosi na očnjake, but their human species counterpart that gives female dogs their bad name. But because this is a SFW site and in an effort to give back to female dogs the respect and love they deserve—let’s talk instead about Heartless Queen Bees (ili HQBs) i ljudi koji ih vole, i šta je naučiti od njih da naše odnose bolje.

Opet vremena i vremenske, Ja sam bio svjedok iz prve ruke na fenomen “fin momak voli HQB”. It’s really a marvel to behold—a caring, dobrodušan, ljubazno i ​​velikodušan čovjek koji čini da uvijek bude u položaju trudi za svoje HQB; and he seems to also love every minute of responding to her demands and bearing the brunt of her indiscriminate disdain. But these relationships are also some of the best I’ve seen in terms of longevity; i isto tako, Ja sam zaključio, u smislu neki stepen odnosa uspjeha.

Dakle, ono što možemo, kao pristojan, promišljen žene uče od HQBs privući i zadržati vrsta ljudi koji se čini da nemam problema privlačenje i zadržavanje?

1) HQBs imaju jak osjećaj identiteta

Strong Identity Woman

HQBs know who they are and what they want. They know what they bring to the table and they are interesting because their interests are their own and they may be unique from their partner’s interests. It is boring to date yourself, i HQBs da su shvatili ovo.

2) HQBs imaju komandu svog svijeta

Commanding Woman

Izgleda kao da ima komandu HQB svijeta oko sebe (da li je ona zaista ili ne). This quality provides a subconscious boost to her partner’s ego—if he has some control over making her happy, a ona ima kontrolu nad “The World”, on ima kontrolu nad “The World” by proxy. It’s that whole “ako je A = B i B = C, A onda = C” thing. How does this translate into a useful tip? Decent, thoughtful people like you and me tend to not be very assertive with our actions and communication. Being assertive is much different than being aggressive, što je osnovni M.O. Vaše prosječne HQB i je ono što joj daje da je nezakonito stečene, tanana kontrola “The World”. But being more assertive will yield a greater command of your world, without the otherwise negative results of aggression. One example of this is simply to state what you want and why it makes sense from your perspective, sans je ponižavajući, snishodljivo ljutnju tako često koristi u izradi sličnih zahtjeva HQBs.

3) The ikada-popularan i dokazano, “Ljudi kao izazov”!

Ljudi kao izazov

Koliko dating članaka i knjiga da li ste pročitali koji su posvećeni neke verzije od osnovnih ideja da muškarci vole da se predstaviti sa izazovom, tako da oni osjećaju ekstra specijalnih kada su u stanju da osvoji rekao je izazov? Ali, sebe, will speak of finding the more elusive woman more attractive than the one who is an always-available open book. Sometimes elusiveness manifests as—how should I say—being a little stingy with expressing any kind of positive emotion or feedback (što je gdje dolazi u HQBs). Some men can’t resist the challenge of trying to illicit any kind of pleasant response from an HQB and so she becomes an object of great interest.

Kako ti (opet, kao pristojan, promišljen žena ste) predaš u što veći izazov? This can easily become the disingenuous game-playing that books like “Pravila” (Fein i Schneider) sve, which may not work for everyone and may leave you ill-feeling and confused about what to say and when. Umjesto toga, build up your life to be genuinely full and exciting—making you a true challenge to nail down a date with. Not only will it check off that whole “biti izazov” atribut tako ungracefully karakteriše HQBs (da muškarci naći toliko privlačno), ali vaš datum će osjećaju da mnogo više vrijednosti kada ste napravili trenutku provesti jasno dragocjeno vrijeme s njim.

4) No igre

Woman igre pogađanja

Dolazi vrijeme kada su ljudi prestati da se odaziva na igre pogađanja-da li je to na osnovu kojih je malo zreliji, or the relationship itself having grown beyond its initial flirtation. Perhaps this tip can be at least partially credited with the whole “longevity” anomaly presented by HQB/Nice Guy relationships. HQBs say what they want, and when they want it. There are few games and intangibles in dealing with an HQB, and many men find this refreshing. This ties in elements from a couple of previous tips—in being straightforward with your communication (I.E. budući samopouzdan), i vrlo jasan ono što želite od vašeg partnera, ako on već nije pružanja ga, ste predstavili a izazov da će vjerojatno uživati ​​pojačava se upoznati, jer si bio toliko jasan i on će se bojati njegov trud će biti uzalud.

Tako, Kind Hearts-take srca, i ove savjete za srce i možda možemo tvrditi malo veći udio u Nice Guy tržištu za sebe!


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