Miks mehed armastavad Heartless mesilasemad

See on dating site, ja dating site lemmikloomade armastajad, mitte vähem. So can we talk for just a minute about female dogs? And I mean “emased koerad” kõige ilutsemist mõttes, kui see on seotud mitte kihvad, but their human species counterpart that gives female dogs their bad name. But because this is a SFW site and in an effort to give back to female dogs the respect and love they deserve—let’s talk instead about Heartless Queen Bees (või HQBs) ja mehed, kes neid armastavad, ja mis on neist õppida, et teha oma suhteid paremini.

Ikka ja jälle, Ma olen oma silmaga tunnistajaks nähtusele “tore poiss armastab HQB”. It’s really a marvel to behold—a caring, heasüdamlik, viisakas ja helde mees, kes tundub alati seisundi tahapoole kallutades oma HQB; and he seems to also love every minute of responding to her demands and bearing the brunt of her indiscriminate disdain. But these relationships are also some of the best I’ve seen in terms of longevity; ja nii on ka, Olen tuletada, poolest teatav suhe edu.

Mida me saame, korralikud, läbimõeldud naiste õppida HQBs meelitada ja hoida sellist meest, nad näivad olevat mingit probleemi meelitada ligi ja hoida?

1) HQBs on tugev identiteeditunne

Tugev identiteet Naine

HQBs know who they are and what they want. They know what they bring to the table and they are interesting because their interests are their own and they may be unique from their partner’s interests. It is boring to date yourself, ja HQBs arvasin seda välja.

2) HQBs valdama oma maailma

kamandav naine

HQB tundub valdama tema maailm (kas ta tõesti ei või mitte). This quality provides a subconscious boost to her partner’s ego—if he has some control over making her happy, ja tal on kontroll selle üle “Maailm”, ta on kontrolli “Maailm” by proxy. It’s that whole “Kui A = B ja B = C, Seejärel = C” thing. How does this translate into a useful tip? Decent, thoughtful people like you and me tend to not be very assertive with our actions and communication. Being assertive is much different than being aggressive, mis on põhiline M.O. Teie keskmine HQB ja mida annab talle, et ebaausal, hõre kontrolli “Maailm”. But being more assertive will yield a greater command of your world, without the otherwise negative results of aggression. One example of this is simply to state what you want and why it makes sense from your perspective, sans Alandav, üleoleva viha nii tihti kasutatakse sarnaste taotluste HQBs.

3) Üha populaarsem ja tõestatud, “Mehed Like Challenge”!

Mehed Like A Challenge

Mitu dating artikleid ja raamatuid olete lugenud, et on pühendatud mõned versioon põhiidee, et mehed meeldib olla koos väljakutse, nii et nad on eriline, kui nad suudavad vallutada ütles väljakutse? Kuid, end, will speak of finding the more elusive woman more attractive than the one who is an always-available open book. Sometimes elusiveness manifests as—how should I say—being a little stingy with expressing any kind of positive emotion or feedback (mis on kui HQBs tulevad). Some men can’t resist the challenge of trying to illicit any kind of pleasant response from an HQB and so she becomes an object of great interest.

Kuidas sa (uuesti, nagu korralik, läbimõeldud naine oled) muuda ennast on suuremat väljakutset? This can easily become the disingenuous game-playing that books like “Reeglid” (Fein ja Schneider) kõik, which may not work for everyone and may leave you ill-feeling and confused about what to say and when. Selle asemel, build up your life to be genuinely full and exciting—making you a true challenge to nail down a date with. Not only will it check off that whole “väljakutse” atribuut, et nii ungracefully iseloomustab HQBs (et mehed leiavad nii atraktiivne), kuid teie kuupäev on tunne, et palju rohkem väärtustatud kui olete teinud punkt veeta oma selgelt väärtuslikku aega temaga.

4) No mängud

Naine Küsitlus Mängud

Seal tuleb aeg, kui inimesed enam ei reageeri aim mängud-kas see on tänu neile on vähe küpsem, or the relationship itself having grown beyond its initial flirtation. Perhaps this tip can be at least partially credited with the whole “longevity” anomaly presented by HQB/Nice Guy relationships. HQBs say what they want, and when they want it. There are few games and intangibles in dealing with an HQB, and many men find this refreshing. This ties in elements from a couple of previous tips—in being straightforward with your communication (St. olemine ennast läbisuruv), ja väga selge, mida sa soovid oma partner, kui ta pole juba pakub seda, olete esitatakse väljakutse et ta tõenäoliselt nautida tõhustamise täita, sest sa oled olnud nii selge ja ta ei karda oma jõupingutused on asjata.

Nii, Kind Hearts-võta süda, ja neid näpunäiteid südame-ja äkki saame väita veidi suurem osakaal Nice Guy turg ise!


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