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:: Just How This Model Works

Actually the full though is "This is just how this model works."


My friend Dr. Belle says that to me when I am frustrated with someone - frustrated with myself. It always makes me smile and brings my feet with my heart back down to ground.


This week I'll be interviewed on the Jaci Rae Show - Woo Hoo! How will I prepare? I'll make up my inspiration topic index cards. When we go on air I'll pull a card or maybe Jaci will ask a question or say something that inspires a new card ... is this how I think a professional speaker works? No Way!


My speaker buddies have notes - organized talks - they flip the pages - pages that don't make a sound. I tried that. When I know what I am supposed to talk about I get overrun by my perfectionism and I'm a mess by the time I need to talk because ...


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that's just how this model works.


I enjoy roller coasters. Actually, no I don't. I enjoy being with my Love on roller coasters because he is having such a good time. He laughs all the time - it is so cute! That's what I enjoy. What I do is close my eyes after the first plunge. I cannot ride a roller coaster with my eyes open or arms held up or any of those cool things because ...


that's just how this model works.


I am changing vs. stuck in how my model works. My new focus is to not argue with friends - actually a specific friend comes to mind. When she says things that are incredibly stupid - wrong - off base ^&#! - I now respond, "You could be right."


It's hard. I've done it three times so far. You know something is difficult if you can remember how many times you've done it .


It is important to accept ourselves and others. Life is more livable and Loveable if we can flow with how this model works. Life is expansive when we can teach an old dog new tricks like being kind instead of being right. Besides, maybe she is right.


How does your model work?


Love on! Viveca


©2005 Viveca Stone
Viveca Stone is the author of two ebooks 88 MONEY Tips, Tools & Techniques & 88 HOURS Love Advice & Romance Talk. She also hosts Get Ready for Love! Radio. Please visit her website at www.GetReadyForLove.com

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