A Art Of yi barkwanci

Yi barkwanci ya fi abin da kawai fun yana da muhimman hakkokin. Mu duka rayuwa a matsayin jinsin ya dogara da mutum dangane. Idan muka tsaya yi barkwanci, fadowa cikin soyayya, da haifuwa mu so nan da sannu bace. Amma ko da yake yanayin da ya bai mu da dukan zama dole sassa muna bukatar mu ceci kanmu daga nau'i nau'i, ba kowa ya san yadda za a amfani da su zuwa ga mafi kyau amfani. Wannan shi ne musamman gaskiya a lõkacin da ta je yi barkwanci.

Charlene, mai sarrafa tare da babban tufafi sarkar, kuma Kira, mai aikin gyaran juyoji, isa a rare kulob na dare Galapagos farkon isa ya sa tebur a tsakiyar aikin, tare da mai girma view of mashayan da dance bene. M nan da nan cikin taron mutane yawo a kuma wurin da ya cika up. Biyu mata suna fashionably ado da kama su ne a nan. Kamar yadda Charlene yayi Magana da Kira, ta yin sikanin cikin dakin da fiddles tare da wasu sako-sako da strands ta gashi. Kowane kamar wata minti ta wiggles ta jiki da kuma, daga lokaci zuwa lokaci, yana sanya ta magincirõri a kan tebur da yana ta kai a hannun ta, pouting da kuma yin idanu a namiji masu yiwuwa a bar. Charlene tunani da ta ke kasancewa sexy, amma ta ba. Da ta ke yin abin mai yawa mutane, biyu namiji da mace, yi idan sun fita a kan prowl: Ta ke m kasancewa sexy da kasancewa cute. A gaskiya, ta ayyuka ne kawai yin ta kama m kuma na yaro, ba a kashe m makamashi.
Tsammani, a wannan bangaren, dubi saran kuma hada. Mafi yawan lokaci sai ta zaune zare jiki, ta kai saukar da kullum don haka dan kadan, kuma yana biya da hankali ga Charlene. Lokaci-lokaci, kamar yadda ta sips ta sha, idanunta zai sa'a a kan saman da gilashi kuma ta za sannu a hankali sha a cikin dakin. A gaskiya, idan ka duba a hankali, Kira alama da za a aiki a rabin gudun Charlene. Ta dubi m, kuma amintacce kuma ana bada kashe girma-up jima'i makamashi.

Yanzu Kira ya hange Harvey, wani Guy ta kwanan nan ya ga a wata ƙungiya amma ba yadda ya kamata ya gana. Ta so kasance kusa isa cewa maraice zuwa overhear shi magana ne game tafiyarta a Bahamas, kuma ya yi tunani ya kasance m da kuma ban sha'awa (Kira na son tafiyarta). Kuma yanzu a nan shi ne da kamar wata sauran mutane, jingina kan layi. Kira rike da shi a cikin ta na gefe gani da jira a gare shi ya juya a cikin ta shugabanci.
Da zaran ya aikata, Kira kirga zuwa uku, uzuri kanta, samun tashi daga tebur, kuma saunters wajen mataki har zuwa baranda, dama da Harvey da abokansa, kwatangwalo mugun wayo yake swaying, shugaban dan kadan sauka. (Dalilin da ya sa saukar da kai? Domin mun mutane suna neman su yi zama mafi sha'awar da coyness fiye da brashness.) Sa'an nan Kira gaban kafa ta manufa ga wani m lokacin lamba. Ya ga ta. Na biyu ta san Harvey ya lura da ita, ta dubi baya coyly. Amma kafin Harvey yana da lokaci zuwa amsa, Kira ganinki a gare shi a sake, wannan lokacin rufe idanunta abada sabõda haka dan kadan kamar yadda ta yayi wani ambato wani murmushi. Harvey samun saƙon.

Wa'adin-janye yau da kullum ne sosai zuciyar yi barkwanci. Ana amfani da su haifar da arousal.

Abin da kuka kawai lura shi ne abin da masana kimiyya kiran wa'adin-janye yau da kullum a kan wani ɓangare na Kira da kuma amsa arousal a kan wani ɓangare na Harvey. Idan ya zo daidai saukar zuwa gare shi, samar da tashin hankali shi ne duk game da tashin hankali da kuma saki, ko kana magana ne game da ban tsoro fina-finai, abin nadi coasters, ko mutum jima'i. Wa'adin-janye yau da kullum da cewa Kira amfani a kan Harvey ne sosai zuciyar yi barkwanci. Ana amfani da mata da maza ya halicci arousal, da tsauri ne daidai abin da ya ce shi ne: bada hankali, to, shan shi bãya, to, ba shi kuma tashin hankali, release, tashin hankali; ido lamba, duba bãya, ido lamba. Daya look ba dole ba ne ya nufin wani abu, amma Kira sauntered a cikin wani m hanya, ya ba Harvey na biyu look, da kuma murmushi da ta kai dan kadan saukar da zuwa bayar da shawarar coyness. Duk wannan ƙara da cewa har zuwa wani biyu, babu kuskure siginar ban sha'awa. Maza da mata a duk faɗin duniya amfani da wannan asali na yau da kullum, dogara ne a kan mace ta saunter ko wani mutum ta swagger, tare da ido lamba kuma wani murmushi, don sigina da janye sha'awa cikin wani mutum.

Don haka Kira ya tacitly miƙa wani gayyatar da kuma lokacin daga baya Harvey amsa. Da ya zo sama da mataki da baranda, inda ya iya fili ga Kira neman saukar a dance bene a kasa. Ya dubi ta a ido, murmushi, kuma ya gabatar da kansa. “Wani abin sha?” Harvey ya tambaye.

“Mun gode, amma . . .” Kira murmushi da kuma amsoshin, “Ina nan tare da abokin kuma muna bikin ta gabatarwa, don haka sai na gaske ya kamata dawo da ita.”
“Da kyau,” Harvey amsoshin, “Kana iya kira ni in yi tasbĩhi da kai. A gaskiya, Ina yi farin ciki in saya shampen. Yana da kyau ko da yaushe a yi real uzuri saya bubbly.” Ya grins.

Ko da yake Kira ya sani cewa Charlene zai damu ba idan Harvey ya koma da su, in ji ta, “Shi ya kyauta sosai daga gare ku, amma mun yi muku wa'adi da kanmu da 'yan mata’ dare fita. Ka sani, cim a kan na sirri kaya.” Ta gaskiya a ta kai, neman sama a gare shi a takaicce, to ganinki bãya.
Harvey ya tambaye, “Ta yaya game da gobe sai lokaci guda, wannan wuri, ko lokaci guda, daban-daban wuri, ko . . . ?”

Kira dariya. “Yi haƙuri, Ba na free gobe. Kuma idan kun ba ni lambar, Zan kira ka bayan da na kalli ta jadawalin. Na tabbata za mu iya yi wani abu a wani matsayi.”
Gaskiya ne, Kira ya sani cewa Charlene zai damu ba idan ta kashe a bit more lokaci tare da Harvey. Hakazalika, ta ke ba cẽwa aiki da wadannan dare duk ta shirya shi ne wanki. Abin da Kira yake yi shi ne ta yin amfani da duniya gane manufa da scarcity zama wani ɓangare na ta yi barkwanci dabarun.

A Ƙa'ida na scarcity:

Yadda Za Ka Sa Ka More m
A matsayin general mulki, mutane so fiye na abin da za su iya ba su da, don haka da hanya mai sauƙi don ƙara ka desirability a lõkacin da yi barkwanci ne don amfani da manufa na scarcity. Da ra'ayin ne ya ba da alama cewa kai rare kuma a bukatar.
A, mutane (har ma kamfanoni) amfani da wannan ploy a duk tsawon lokacin, amma mu dauki ga yana da haka instinctual da muka taba dakatar fadowa domin ita. Alal misali, kowa da kowa ya san cewa yana da notoriously wuya a samu ajiyar wurare a cikin mafi kyau gidajen cin abinci, amma shi ke Ba dole ba ne, domin duk Tables suna gaske kama sama. Hakazalika, fashion zanen kaya suna na musamman game da inda su Lines suna kasuwanci, da babban price tags bauta wa ware mafi buyers. A lokacin da rediyo, talabijin, kuma bugu tallace-tallace bombard mu da kalamai kamar “Duk da yake kayayyaki na karshe,” “Iyakance biyu da abokin ciniki,” “Limited edition,” da kuma “Bayar da kyau kawai har Lahadi,” suna aiki da qa'ida ta scarcity.
Aiki da Ƙa'ida na scarcity

Ta yaya za shan amfani da wannan manufa taimako yi wani ya fada cikin soyayya da ke? Da upping ka “darajar” a farkon matakai na dangantaka, yin ku ze rare, m, da darajar da bi.


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