5 ʻanuʻu I lanakila launa palapala o ke'ākeʻakeʻa

Couples inevitably halawai me ke kamaʻilio hiccups ma ke ala, ina paha lakou e huli Puhi iho ka launa pū, a hauʻoli makahiki pu. Keia mau missteps ua hiki ole ke kaʻa, ae koi manao hooikaika mai na hoa. Hoomanao ana i ka hahai kōkua e ho'āʻo kōkua maikaʻi i loko o ia mau eventual pāonioni ma:

1. Pale i ka hāmau hana: Na wahine, a me na kanaka elua ua hewa o keia tactic, a ua incredibly pilikia loa a me ka luku. Pani iho, uaʻano nui a paniia aku ko oukou hoa aku, a me ka mea, aole e pono ai kamaʻilio akula i ka helu maoli ma ka lima. E like me ka paakiki e like me ka mea e like me ka mea, hoʻohana i ka oukou mau olelo, e hoike aku i kou manaʻo, a mai makau i loaa i kekahi. no, ka pono ka mea e hele ana i hana pu me oukou i pili pilikia, ole hoʻohana i koʻoukou mau manaʻo, e like me ammunition e ku e ia oe.

2. Mai hana assumptions: I like loa me ka noho malie hana, assumptions ua kekahi laʻana o ka haalele i kou hoapili ia ka manao mai, a ua hoʻi i maikaʻi i kekahi kanaka. Oukou e kuhi ai i kona pōkole pane olelo ia Ka nalowale uku hoopanee, aka, i pono i ka hailona ana i hana. Ina aole oe e noi ae hilinai i panai maluna o oukou wale, oukou e kū ai i ka oiaio, a oukou loa o hiki mai kau oe i no ka mea, he nui hoʻopaʻapaʻa i ka hopena.

3. Compliment maikaʻi hana: Inā manaʻo e like me ko oukou hoapili ia oukou, aole e hoike ana ia oukou e like me ka aloha e like me ma mua, hoao e lawe mai ana ia mea i loko o ka manuahi ala ma manaʻo kōkua. "I maoli aloha aku i ko oukou pali,"a, "I nalo ko oukou kakahiaka nui kikokikona memo,"He na ole-na olelo hooweliweli e examples o hoʻoulu ana i na hana au e makemake. keia ala, oukou kahea aku i kau wahi e ku pono ana i kekahi accusatory 'ōlelo.

4. Ponoi i kou manaʻo: E na kanaka, a me nā wāhine, he elua 'ehaʻeha o, aka lākou kamaʻilioʻana e hoike mau Emotions ma loa naʻano likeʻole. A wahine e hea, a ke kanaka e fume. Na poe i pololei ia 'ehaʻeha pane, aʻo e pili ana i ke kanaka e manaʻo nei ia lakou. Ma kahi o ka hai ana i kou hoa, "Oukou i ko oukou manao naʻaupō kēia,"Oia no ka accusatory keia, wehewehe ana i ko oukou mau manaʻo i loko o ka possessive leo, ae hoomakaukau i ka wehewehe.

ʻo kahi laʻana, "I manaʻo naʻaupō i ka wa ia oe i ka leo anal'ōlelo hoʻomakeʻaka" ua emi argumentative o, "Oukou mau hana iaʻu haha ​​naʻaupō." O ka olelo mua no hoi ko oukou haawi hoapili ia i manawa e wehewehe ana ia ia iho, a ke hoike nei ia ia i ike i ka maoli kumu o ka hoopuka.

5. noho maikaʻi: Eia He toughie, Maopopo iaʻu! It A pela oluolu e loaaʻi ka huhu a i aku nei au ia oukou aole au i olelo na mea. E hana i ko oukou pono e noho maikaʻi, ae hana i manao paa ke kahe healthily. Sure, ua hele na mea e puhi ai i kekahi manawa. A i ka maʻamau o elua kanaka kaʻana like i ko lakou mau ola pu. Wale no e noho hoomanao o na kumu oe pu ma ka kahi mua, a kau i ke kālele ana ma ka malama ana i hoopaa.


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