Are You Dateable?

A papa inoa o na aoao e loaa ai e ike ia oe iho i kona wahi maikai, ana ia oe. "i lotta iki" oi dateable

Ke kuhihewa nui kānaka i loko o ko lākou ka launa pū ola kakou, aole e loaa i ka manaʻo pono o ka poe a lakou, iho, ua. A kohu mea, counterintuitive, aka, i ka wa a oukou e Imi ho'āʻo ana e loaa he hoalawepu, oia kekahi o ka poe maikai manawa, e kālele ana ma luna iho, a me ka mea a oukou e hoonoho “tick”. na wahine, oi aku mamua o na kanaka, ua prone i “I Like ka mea You Like”-Syndrome (paha ma muli o ke kaliʻana moʻomeheu 'upu' i, ua manao na wahine, e lilo i ka'ōlewa, amorphous poʻe nele i ko lakou mau pono), ultimately kūpono ma loko o ka pilina unsatisfactory a Kekūhaupiʻo i maikaʻi loa; a me keʻano pāhaʻohaʻo, hoomaunauna aku ai i ka manawa, a me ka inaina ma ka kekahi mea nona “hoʻololi”, maʻino.

Kekahi o koʻu punahele mau olelo hele aku i kekahi mea e like me keia–pehea la i kekahi manao e ike, ae aloha oe, ina aole oe i ike, ae aloha oe? Investing i ka ike oe iho e leie aku ia oukou e ike i ka mea pono a oukou e lawe ai i ka papaʻaina, a hana ia mea maʻalahi no ka mea, o oukou, a me ko oukou Maikaʻi hanakimi e ike kekahi i kekahi, ae ae o Laielohelohe i ano a pau, aole e hele e loli me kou lehulehu a me na makahiki.

E like me Shel Silverstein kākau i loko o kona poem, “ea paha”:

Ua he uliuli ili
A pela ia i hana ai
He malama ia huna
A pēlā lākou i hana ia
Lakou i huli no ka mea, he uliuli
Ko lakou a pau ke ola ma
A laila, hele pololei ma–
A i ike

Eia ua mau aoao kekahi i loaa i ike, ae aloha oe, no ia mea, KoʻOlau e ae e hiki, oi aku!

1. Lawe iho aku ai

O keia mea la i alealeia a puni e likeʻole a me ka Ia kini “ka hoʻoponopono kokua” gurus, puke, a me na wahine ka pūʻulu. People pele manao e pili ana ia mea i loko o nā hua'ōlelo o ke awakea, ka mea e hiki ai e hōʻaʻa, ae awkward ina oukou i ole, ninau ma lehulehu wale imua o. A he mea e hiki ke lilo i nui outing, e like me ka loihi e like me ka mea, he leʻaleʻa, a me kekahi mea o oukou malu–he Kino (koke na kukui e iho, 'Aʻohe mea i hoʻomōhala i ka mea e noho wale no), he poepoe me, ole paha i ka la huakai aloha hou.

2. He aha kou makemake e hana nei?

I kekahi me manawa? Hooki no ka mea, hoʻokahi minuke a blatantly ninau aku oe i ka mea e hoolilo ia oukou pomaikai pono ia manawa, a malaila–a laila e hele e hana ia mea! 'O kēia kekahi o nā mea noonoo ole pono a me na aoao i ka leo mai loko mai o ka leo o ke ola a me ka hoomaunauna aku ai i ka manawa ma ka i omo ai iloko o Facebook a kīwī hooki. He mea no hoi wehe oe i na mea he nui loa aku moʻolelo kaulele, ke kilokilo Kai a me na ana e haʻalele i, a me ka halawai ana he nui hou aku ka poʻe ma mua oʻoukou e loaa, thoughtlessly a unconsciously pepehi manawa. Ma ke kaʻina, oukou e hoike ia oukou, aole hemahema kekahi ma e hauʻoli–oe e hiki e hauʻoli, a me indulgent e hiki i kona purposeful me ko oukou koho.

3. E noi aku i kou mau hoaaloha

'O kēiaʻano o ka Anoanoaaiii o ka Popular Facebook ha awina e noi ana kanaka e kākau manaʻo i ke kia, me ka'ōlelo i wehewehe i ka pelaha. Aka, no ke aʻo ana iho, ai ole ia, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa e pili ana i ka lehulehu i noonoo ai, a meʻia o oe, ka ninau i kou mau hoaaloha pehea la e hōʻike mai lakou ia oukou. Keia e kōkua mai i ka mālamalama i ka “oe” ia oe e ka hōʻike ana i ke ao nei, a nolaila, e ka Lā. malia paha, a loa, keia 'ākau a me ka mea a oukou e manaoio no oukouʻano iho. Aka, ina oukou i kaʻikeʻole ike e like me heʻokoʻa ano mamua o oukou i ike i ka mea oiaio e pili ana ia oe–keia e hoike ana 'e like me ka moku ana o ka nele, hookahuli ai i kona piko a.

4. E ho'āʻo New Mau

'O kēiaʻano o ke ku pono o #2. Ma kahi o ka hana maikaʻi oe iho i kekahi mea a oukou i ike ia oukou e like me hana, hana i kekahi mea ihola hou! Loa lio, he lio mua? E huli i ka poʻe a pau e kaumaha ana i mama Trail holo. I makemake ole e Uwao hana i kekahi mea e hooweliweli aku i na kuko aku o oukou, no ka mea,–oiai ka mea e,ʻo nā lā–kou makaʻu i distract mai i hiki ke 'ai i ka hou ka hoao ana. I ka pau ana o ka la, oe e ka mea, ua kaʻawale kekahi ola ka hoao ana i kōkua hoakaka ia oukou, a me ko oukou mau pono, a oukou i kekahi ke akamai, a me kamailio wahi e lawe i ka papaʻaina.

Me ka paulele pono o ka iho, he uʻi. Ma ka mahiai i kou manaʻo iho, oukou, e lilo ia i oi aku ka pomaikai, hou ko kanaka a oukou e ai nui aku e kaumaha aku ai i ka pilina; a ma ia manawa, oe e loaa i ka puu o ka leʻaleʻa noho e ike i ka au ia oukou, e na mea a pau e pili ana i.


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