Ka launa pū i ka Pehea Woman ma 5 like me ke kapuai hookahi

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“I au e imi i wahine, he kaikaina aka, loa wahine makemake e la ka mea ma ko lakou mau makahiki. He aha e hiki ai I hana?” – Anonymous

I kēia lā ka ninau, ua mai kekahi o ko mākou poʻe heluhelu i makemake e noho Anonymous; makou e kapa aku ia ia Bila Kanawai. Heluhelu hou mai ka ninau. E nānā i pehea Bill ka mea, ua hoomaopopoia e na kaikaina wahine ia i makemake e ole e hoihoi i loko o kekahi o kona mau makahiki. Keia mea he iho hooko ana manaoio i virtually ua hoʻohiki e hele oiaio. Ina e manaoio hohonu ilalo ia makou e hele ana i ole, a lailaʻoukou e makemake ai.

Ka maoli pane.

O ka pokole, ʻae, oe hiki loa i loaa i kekahi wahine pokii i ka pono no ia oe. Oe wale Pono e kau aku i ko oukou pale, e hana, a noho i ka papa.

Pehea la e hiki ai ia oukou ka hoʻomaka 'ana ma o ka olelo akau?

Ka mua, aku e ike hohonu ilalo maloko, ae pohihihi aku oukou makemake e like no ke aha la i kekahi wahine kaikaina, e halawai pu me. A laila noonoo i ka mea o keia wahine hemolele e like me. Kakau ia i like me ka au mamuli e like me oukou e hiki ke. A laila,, kakau no lakou ia ia maluna o ka apana o ka pepa. Papa inoa o kona mau makahiki, physical helehelena, laʻelaʻe 'kāna moʻolelo, hana hoʻonanea, Likes a me na makemakeʻole i nā, a pela aku. Kokeʻoukou, ua hōʻike i ka wahine hemolele no oe i ka nui loa au mamuli, pa i ka apana o ka pepa, a lawe aku ia mea me oukou, no ka mea, 1 pule.

Manao wale ia oe, ua ano me ia. He aha e oe e hana? He aha e oukou olelo hooholo no ke? Kahi e oe e hele? Maoli haha ​​ia mea, ae komo i loko o ka loka o ia mea — i ka wa e noho pu me ia, e Pehea 'oe haha? A pau o keia e hookani i hawawa,, aka la oukou i ike ai ma ka palapala wale iho i ka mea a oukou i makemake, oe hoomahuahua i kou manawa o ka noho ia ma 80%!

Wale manaʻo e pili ana ia mea, no ka manawa…

“I ka hoʻoponoponoʻana o ke kākau 'ana i kekahi mea ilalo, oia ka mua koe ma ana ia mea hiki mai.”

– Lee Iacocca

Social stigmas, a no ke aha la oukou e mālama?

Oukou e hana, aole. ua piha i ka mea lawelawe stigmas ka lehulehu. Kakou makou i'ō i ua hopohopo nei i “i ka mea a kekahi e manao” ia makou kākou makau e alualu i ko kakou mau moeʻuhane. ʻAe, na kanaka makemake i kekahi, ka hoopono ma na mea e ae, aka, i ka lakou i waeʻia, a me ko lakou pono. No ke aha la lakou e hana ia mea, he nui kumuhana no kekahi la, aka, ua maoli, aole nui maʻaneʻi. No ka mea'ē aʻe e hiki paha ike i ka mea ia manawa, no ka mea, ia oe, pela no ke aha hoolohe mai i ka lakou?

A akamai kanaka hookahi la,

“He aha kekahi manaʻo e pili ana oukou i ka mea o ko oukou hana”.

He mea oiaio, ua nui na wahine makemake kekahi a puni o ko lakou mau makahiki?
'O kēia loa untrue! mea, ua, kela a me keia o kakou, ua okoa a me nā hana makemake a me na mea e pono ai. Ko oukou pahuhopu a me hoʻokahi pulakaumaka e loaa i ka wahine hemolele no oe. manawa.

5 oluolu paha no ka mea, kaikaina wahine Kaʻahumanu, a me ka launa pū.

Kaikaina na wahine, ua pinepine o Laielohelohe i kāna moʻolelo e like me maturity (e like me ko lakou Daddy), hou i ke kālā, a kiekie ae nohona kūlana, masculinity, alakaʻi abilities, ka wiwo ole, a me ka composure, pela he nui no oukou, e kālele ana ma ka whichever o kāna moʻolelo ka oukou e komo ai.

1) ʻo ʻoe iho nō.

I ka wa kaikuaʻana kā halawai ai me kekahi wahine kaikaina lakou pinepine aku e ko mākou hopohopo, a olalo e hana maoli weird. Mai hana i keia — wale e ia oe iho.

2) Malama ia ka malamalama a me ka leʻaleʻa.

e playful. I leʻaleʻa kāu. keiki hoʻohenehene 'ia. Kona mālamaʻole poina mea ua like me ka pāʻani, ae goof a puni. It e hana oukou i kekahi mea maikai, e hoomanao, aole e lawe i ke ola i seriously. E iki Kamehameha, a hōʻalo i na mea i kaikaina kā ano laulā, e hiki e kūʻai i hana. Hele i mua. nanea ia oe iho.

3) E ka luna. E ke kanaka.

Kaikaina na wahine a pau loa e imi i ka mea e lawe i ke alakai. Lakou i emi hana i loko o ke ola, a ua loa imi i mea e hōʻike aku iā lākou i Ka aku malaila. I ko oukou la, a me na manao mamua o ka manawa, aka, e ikepili koʻikoʻi, ae noi aku i kona manao o na kuka a pau au i hana ai mamua. (Lilo ai ia allergic i ka Sushi). He kanaka, akā, mahalo i kona manao. wehe ae pani, e hele ana maluna o ka waho o ka alaplpa, a huki aku noho hoi kekahi ala e hana i ka nuiʻia ma luna o pokii wahine.

4) Mai hana e like me ka “perv”.

Most uʻi opiopio na wahine, ua pa ia e kekahi poe oopa, hoʻokahuli i ka poʻe kanaka. Mai ho'āʻo e neʻe i ka nui koke ai ole ia e manao oe wale i “perv” nana e komo mai iloko o kona mau kuko. I ka oukou wale pu, he OK e flirt, aka, e kona hahai iāʻoukou no ka mea i koe aku. Ole ia oe e hoʻomakaʻu iā ia aku.

5) E hāʻawi mai iā ia i kekahi mau la,.

Kaikaina wahine i paha pono loaʻa mai ka hale o ko lākou makua kāne no, me he 'ole ola, a me' Aʻohe ku okoa ana. Ina ua Ka o Laielohelohe ia oe, ka mea, aole no oukou i huli hou-e pili ana i ka kńnaka 'ia i kona pono i koe… ua no oukou ho i kekahi meaʻokoʻa. E hāʻawi mai iā ia i kekahi mau la,. E ke kanaka ka mea āna Ka mau moe no, a laila e alualu ia ia. E ia ia e hele io oukou la.


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