Lau Common pili pilikia a

Ke aloha no ia he mea hiki ole mea! ItʻO ke kumu o makou i lilo ka hapalua o ko makou mau ola e ho'āʻo ana e loaʻa i ka mea. Aka, i ka wa a makou e hana ai, oia wale no ka hapalua o ka moʻolelo. Ua hoohiki makou ia makou pilikia ma ke ala, ma kekahi pili, e loaa aka he aoao e ho'āʻo e hoʻonā ai i keia mau mea a pau pū e like me na kumuhana a makou alo. E hoomanao i ma ka pau ana o ka la, o oe no ka hui, a ina he mea ole keia mau pilikia, ua maʻai ka mea a oukou i kahi hookahi, alaila, oukou anei iaʻu kekahi mea kūikawā. Kaua e paa ma luna o ia mea. Eia eha na pilikia, oia ka poe kanaka he maka ma ka nohoʻana, a pehea e hiki hoʻonā ia lakou.

kamaʻilio

Palapala paha ka mea, he pono ole pilina pilikia he. Ka mea, no ka nui o nā helu i ka mea e ole ai ka haohao ana iloko o ka pilina ma kahiʻelua kānaka ma luna o ka hookahi 'aoʻao like i ka mea o ka poe kanaka e noho ana ole. Palapala o ke'ākeʻakeʻa pale aku kakou, mai pale wahi, i hiki mai ka noho ko Salisbury mau a oi aku luna 'mamua o lakou maoli, ua. Inā 'oe, a me kou hoapili loaa i keia mau o ke'ākeʻakeʻa ola i loko o kou pili i ke ala, e hoʻokokoke i keia mea, me ka hamama, pono a me ka 'ole-judgmental naau. Nui o ke ahi a ua huiia me ka ai i ka wahie ma keia mau wahi, i hiki mai i ka nele o kaʻike ma waena o elua kanaka, a nolaila, e hoopai ana no ia mea me ka hoʻolohe aku i ko lākouʻaoʻao o ka moʻolelo. E ho'āʻo i ka noho ilalo, a kamailio, o anakuhi, o anakuhi.

Ka Nohona Pili i nā mea

Ina he mea liʻiliʻi i na mea e like me kahi e hele aku, kahi e ai ai, a pela aku … a ko Salisbury mau kumuhana e like me kahi e noho ai, ina paha i ai ole ia, e noho pu paha e mare, ina paha e loaa keiki ole, aole nele okoa na mea he nui launa pilikia. A he mea e hana ma kekahiʻaoʻao, a me kekahi no ka hiki ke noho nei makou, he hookahi ka wa a makou i noho pu me ia kūikawā kanaka iloko o ko kakou ola makou, ua malie kanaka me ko kakou mau manaʻo 'ana a me ka kuka ana i ka kakou e ike nei i ko kakou mau ola huli aku. Keia ke kumu no friction no ka kakou e ike nei ia lakou e like me ka lawe ana aku i ka mea a kakou e makemake ai, ina malama iloko o kakou kamaʻilioʻana e keakea ana ia lakou no keia. He aha oukou e pono ai e hana, ua kamailio hou aka ia oukou hoi pono e nānā i ka mea a lākou e makemake, e.g. he hailona no ka poe i makemake e mare manao e mare, ua oi, a oi aku mamua o pono e noho pu i kahi i kekahi kanaka i manao ai e noho pu ai lakou e ike i na mea e like me ia kanaka. Ma kekahi olelo, oukou makemakeʻokoʻa mea, aole “maikai” mea, a me ka mea e pono ai e hoʻomanaʻo ai ole ia poʻe kānaka a pau ia oukou, ua hoʻokuʻu loa 'ia ai' ole i alo aku o ke ala a lakou manao he pono. Compromise oia no hoi kiʻaneʻi. Oukou hemahema e pono ai keia iloko o kekahi pilina. Wale hōʻoia 'ia' o ka like dala o compromising hana i kela mea keia mea o ko oukou mau wahi.

kala

Dala, oia ke kumu o na hewa e like me ko lakou olelo, a ma ka pili ma ia mea e lilo i ka make e malama kekahi i ke ano. Makou noho ana ma recessional wa a me na hana 'Aʻole i loaʻa pinepine. People noho 'īnea nei, a me ia mea e hiki ai i kekahi ke kanana nei i kou pili i ka mea maoli wale. He aha oukou pono e hana ka mea paipai kekahi i kekahi, hoike kekahi i kekahi ia oukou manaoio iloko o kekahi i kekahi, a hui ia oukou ke hele mai ai mai loko mai o kekahiʻaoʻao no ka mea, e ho'ōlaʻoukou makemake. Aka, iloko o ia manawa nō arguing me ka mea a oukou aloha loa i loko o ke ao nei, aole ana e hoʻoponopono i kekahi mea. Ina mea ia e wale no i na mea he miliona manawa ino.

ka lama & kaumaha

He mau mea paʻakikī aʻe no kekahi e ike i ka mea e hana aku i ka wa a lakou e kiai ana i ko lakou hoa ma ia despairing maʻamau. Life hiki nui no kela mea keia mea ma naʻano likeʻole, a me kekahi poe kanaka Makuakane maikai mamua o na mea e ae. He aha oukou pono e hana ka mea e ma laila no lakou, hoike aku ia oukou i ka manaoio iloko o lakou e huki ma, a mai'ōlelo olelo i ka piko o kou poo ka mea e hana ia mau mea a hiki loa aku i lalo mamua o ko lakou poe ua.


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