ka 5 Big ka launa pū hemahema E Women Make

Nei anei oe me ka ino manawa me ka launa pū?

E hana oe he e hele maʻai o nā lā, ae'ōlelo aku i iho o na kanaka online, aka, ia oukou, aole loa he e hana i ka pilina a hālāwai me kou kanaka?

Ina pela he mea paha ia oukou e hana i kekahi a oi o ka '5 Big ka launa pū hewa'. Eia ka 5 Big ka launa pū hewa i na wahine hana, a me ka mea e hana ma.

1. Kokoke ka launa pū Me An papahana

No laila, he nui o koʻu poe wahine nā mea mālama mai hoʻokokoke ka launa pū me ka papahana a ia mea maoli hana ku e ia lakou, a me ko lakou pomaikai me ka launa pū. Lakou e imi mai i ko lakou kanaka, a ina aole lakou i ike ia ia pololei aku la ia ma kekahi o nā kānaka e leka uila iā lākou i ke kanakaʻia hoʻokuʻu a koke i kākauʻia aku ma waho o ka wale o kekahi la, e makaikai i ka pilina (a nele paha) hou. And if they do get to the date stage, ka wahine carries ia papahana i ko lakou la e like me ka pono me ka emi satisfying hualoaʻa.

A kohu mea, counterintuitive e olelo aʻole 'oe i kekahi papahana i ka wa a ka launa pū, mahope iho o na mea a pau, he oiaio ka mea a pau a makou kumu la oia e halawai me "kou kanaka 'pono? Pono Oiaio a aole. Ultimately a me ka loihi o ka manawa oia no ka makemake, hoi oukou a loa hōʻemi ai ko oukou mau manawa o ka noho ana i ua kahua ina oe hoʻokokoke ka launa pū me ka papahana. Ma keia ke kahua ma ka lealea ka mea, oia ka maikai loa Honolulu, ka launa pū no ka mea he mea - he manawa e launa ai, ae lilo a puni lala o ke ku pono ke keka no ke kope, hele, chatting a pela no. E hele mai ma luna o nā kānaka - KAL pono A DATE - aole i ka ahaaina mare ninaninau, pela, e ka hoʻonānea kona wahi, ae hana aku e like me ia. He mea ia he unrealistic viewpoint e manao ai ia oukou ke ike paha ka mea,ʻo ia kou ola hoa mai kekahi hālāwai ma kaʻimi hoʻopunipuni 'okoʻa.

Ina e ike i koʻu kokoke i ka launa pū no ka mea, na wahine a oukou e ike Meu ka launa pū e like me Inc no ka mea, Hoʻihoʻi ino launa lauana. Eia naʻe oi aku mamua o keia ka launa pū mea i manaoia e leʻaleʻa, a me ka malamalama ka naau. Ina oe e hele pu me ka papahana i loaa aku ina ka mea,ʻo kou kanaka e ukuhi i ka tona o ka puʻe ma ka pau pilikia, a me ka mea o ia hoʻi, ka mea aole oe, aole hoi ko oukou la e hiki ia ia ke hoʻonānea ae ana i ka hoao ana. Aole oukou e hiki ke lilo ko oukou pono iho, a aole no hoi e ia i. A ninini i ka papahana, ae hana i ka hou kekahi - e loaa hou, leʻaleʻa, a me ka malamalama-puʻuwai pilikino me ka hou kanaka.

2. Noho alii Men I oiaʻiʻo koke mai

E like me ka mea mua nui kuhihewa, kuhihewa 2 hoi kekahi ala i na wahine pana ia lakou iho iloko o ka wāwae i ka wa ka launa pū. He nui na komohana o na wahine ma keia ke kaiāulu kanaka, a pau i noho alii ia e ka 'kemika' lākou naʻau i ka wa e hele ai i ka lakou mau koho a me na kanaka, a Iʻike i kēia loaa ia lakou iloko o na hana o ka pilikia manawa, a me ka manawa hou. Kemika mālama i lilo i anakahiʻilihune a ina paha he kanaka e lilo i ka maikai hoalawepu ia oe. Ma ka mea pili kemika he pinepine ka heka hoailona no na wahine i ole i ka pilina koho i loko o ka hala. Pinepine o na kanaka maikai ke hele ihola ia e nana, no ka mea, ua ko mākou hopohopo a me ka awkward ma ka la mua a lakou i Paka i ka punch i loko o ka 'Oihana kemika. No ka mea, na wahine attraction ke ulu ma luna o ka manawa me ke kanaka maikai. No laila, e hāʻawi aku i ke kanaka awkward, a noho malie i kekahi wale, ka mea haawi ia ia kekahi mau pōkole nā ​​lā a ike ina ia aole ia i hele mai mai loko mai o kona mau iwi no ka mea, o oukou, ae huli i loko o ka uʻi kanaka, paha i 'ko oukou kanaka'. Don’t worry about whether you can imagine that right now (ike kuhihewa 1).

3. Hoʻokokoke aku ka la Me A Checklist

kuhihewa 3 ua 'ano like ke kuhihewa 1 a like me kaʻino wale i, ina aole loa. I ike au, he nui nā wāhine i ka poʻe kauā 'checklist' o na ano a pau a lakou e makemake (ai ole ia, manao iho la lakou e makemake) i ke kanaka. Aole he mea hewa me ka noho ole ana ma ka mea a kaua e kii nei i loko o koʻoukou maikaʻi hoapili ia hoʻoipoipoʻana, nae e ke komo iloko o ka ike maopopo i ko kakou kahua kaua, no ka mea, kekahi o lākou loa nonsense, a ua ole ana ia oukou i na mea a pau!

Ka papa, he pinepine loa lōʻihi, a hookuu aku la i na mea ma luna o laila i maoli clash me lakou iho! No ka mea, hoohalike ia ke loaa 'mālie, a waiho mai' pono aʻe i 'passionate a me ka hana mikiʻala'. Ano, aole au, aole i ka i ana ia oukou ua hiki ole i na mea a pau ia mau ano iloko o hookahi mea, ua pololei ka mea maʻamau ke kanaka mālama i kekahi o ka poe kekahi. A oia ka mea? No hoi ko makou kahua kaua i kekahi manawa, he mau mea i ka poe no AICIeOEOI, e like me ka 'uhi' ole 'muscles'. E hele mai ma hoʻoipoipoʻana! Aole he mea hewa i loko o ua kino koho aka, ua oukou maoli hele i kou ola hoalawepu, e koho i ike ia he mea ka inika maluna o kona kino? Hana oukou manao i keia, e lawe maiʻoukou i ka maikaʻi pilina no ka mea, i kou ola? He aha e pili ana i na ano a pau maoli mea, e like me honesty, pono, aloha, ikaika (ka manao) a laila?

Kela wahine i ka mea nui iā ia, e hooholo. Eia naʻe manawa a me ka manawa au i ike hou i ka papa hele kiola aku i ka wa a ka wahine hope me kona ola hoapili ia, aʻo ia ka mea ana loa okoa i ke kanaka ia ia i kona papa! A ua hauʻoli. No laila, i koʻu manaʻo - kiola aku i ka papa! ai ole ia,, ina oe e loaa ia, kua ia i lalo i ka i kā mākou i ka pono o ka 5 mea nui ano. E hoʻohana i ia mea e like me he mau alakai NOT ka checklist.

4. E ho'āʻo pohihihi

Pela no oukou eia halawai ka mea a oukou e like me, you are out on a date with him and you feel nervous. A heaha hoi kau e hana? oukou kamailio. Ina he mea kekahi i loko o ke kamailio ana oukou hoopiha ia. Oe paipai wahi e hele aʻe, oe dazzle ia ia, me kaʻao o ka Hawaii ia oukou, ua i, e hoike ana ia ia ko oukou sparkling me a oukou i aku la ia ia iloko o stitches maluna o ko oukou hoʻomākeʻaka. A o ka papa a oukou e kaumaha ai i uku no ko oukou hapalua o ka la, ai paha oe i loaʻa i ka pau bila - pau, he kaikamahine kēia ma hope iho o na mea a pau. A he hana ana NUI! He meaʻakaʻaka ana me oukou, a aia no he pilina, ia oukou ke haha ​​mai ia. aka,, a lailaʻo ia 'aʻole kelepona. He hele anu a me ke kino ma hope o kekahi mau lā. A hele hewa i ka mea?

Pono loa na kanaka makemake e lawe i ke käne kūlana ma loko o ka launa pū, a ina oukou e hana a pau a kekahi o ka poe maluna o oukou, ua lilo e hookuke aku la ia ia mai loko mai o keia pelekikena a, 'o ia hoʻi' oe ua pale ia ia, mai ka huikau emotionally ke kālele 'ana ma o oukou. E na kanaka o ka attraction, a me ka hoʻokô 'Emotions Komo auaneʻi ka wa a lakou i loaa ai e waiho i loko o kekahi ho'āʻo pono. Oe i manao ia oukou e ka onaona, a hoopii naʻe ia e aole no e komo oe i kahi loihi iloko o ka loihi manawa me ka hapanui o na kanaka. Ia ia ke nanea i ka manawa me oe, ia ia ke akaaka ana me oukou, a hiki mai i hiki e i ka lua o ka lā, naʻeʻo ia ka mea paha e pau i hana i ka mea e ae - kekahi 'paʻakikī i' wahine me ka mea ana i ua pono e waiho i loko o nā kākoʻo 'ana o.

He pono e lilo i ka mea alakai i ke kamailio ana, e hoʻokipa akuʻoe, a aaeaaaaony i ka hemo ana. Inā 'oe makemake e trigger i konaʻoi manaʻo e alakai ae e ikaika kupono e hahai. Hoʻonānea, ae hoʻomākaukau i ka makana, a ae nanea ana i ka hoao ana ma.

5. E An Ice kaikamahine

He hau kaikamahine, oia ka Flipʻaoʻao i ho'āʻo pohihihi. Kekahi wahine ike e pili ana i hewa helu 4 a pela lakou i lawe aku i ka kekahi loa, a lilo no hoi aloof a me ou. ʻOiai Ua hiki no ia lakou e hele ana no ka 'mea paakiki ke loaa ka' ae 'kiʻekiʻe waiwai', ina lawe nui loa keia kokoke loa i kahi e hiki ai ke hele aku nei ia oukou, ua uninterested, ou, unfriendly a hiki snobby. It hiki haha ​​iki anu i na kanaka, ae, e haawi aku ka hapanui o na kanaka nani koke me ka hau kaikamahine, koe ka poe i pono hoihoi i loko o ka hana nui loa ia o ka hahai holoholona, a oukou e makemake i kēia 'ano o ke kanaka, e like me ia i ka mea paha e mai hapai ku e oe koke i ka hahai holoholona, ​​he luna, ae neʻe aku i kekahi wahine.

Malaila pono e lilo kekahi koena ma waena o ka waiho mai / hookuu ia alakai a malie, ua hoihoi a me ka hamama. Inā hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa kēia kaulike pono ia oe, e loaa he manawa nui me ka launa pū. I ka papa kuhikuhiE mea, e hoomanao, ua pololei ia oe iho. Loaa maoli ka ikaika i loko o oe ia oe iho, ae e noho ma ko oukou mau ili. Ka launa pū hiki nae e kokua ia oukou i keia!

 

No laila, e hele e kiʻi aku malaila, a maluna o na mea a pau aole e lawe ka launa pū he kino. Oukou i ole i ka mea a ka mea hele ma no ka kekahi mea. Pono ia mea e like me leʻaleʻa 'hoʻomaʻamaʻa' a ia, e hana no oukou.

 


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