Tsis txhob dag

Thaum kuv thawj zaug pib Internet dating, Kuv yog ib tug thawj coj marketing rau ib qho ntawm Milwaukee lub loj tshaj plaws kev tsim tuam txab, Kuv tau mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv tag nrho-lub sij hawm, thiab kuv twb ua hauj lwm rau publishing ib phau ntawv paj huam. Thiab tsis tau, Kuv xav, yog vim li cas twb tsis tau ntsib kuv tus neeg tsis tau? Nws yeej tsis dawned rau kuv hais tias kuv vwm, frenetic sij hawm yuav tejzaum nws yuav yog vim li cas.

Kuv mus txog ntawm Internet dating zoo li lwm ua hauj lwm project. Tshuav tsis ntev kuv twb emailing thiab ntsib neeg tshiab hais mav rau ib tug heev heev hauv paus. Ntawm chav kawm, Kuv yeej ib txwm tau ntsib lawv qhov chaw yooj yim thiab ceev, ib tug kasfes khw raws li kuv nyiam qhov chaw. Kuv yuav pop nyob rau hauv, sib tham rau ib teev (uas yog ib txwm kuv tus kheej txoj cai) thiab ces yuav rau kuv txoj kev. Nws yog yuav luag lwm lub rooj sib tham kuv hlwb soj ntsuam tawm kuv puas tau-loj hlob daim ntawv teev cov to-do lub.

Thiab paub tseeb tias, lub teb zaus txiv leej tub yuav gripe vim hais tias kuv yuav tau mus rov teem caij peb hnub… thiab rov teem caij… thiab ces tej zaum, rho. Tab sis hav, Kuv figured, yog hais tias nws tsis tau to taub hais tias kuv yog ib tug tibneeg hu tauj coob tus ntxhais muaj ib lub neej ntawm kuv tus kheej ces nws tsis muaj nqis nws ntsev. Txoj cai?

Nws tsis yog kom txog thaum kuv tau ntsib ib tug txiv neej ntawm email, uas yog me ntsis laus dua tshaj kuv, nrog cov me nyuam thiab ib tug ua lag ua luam nws pib mus txog thiab tau nyuam qhuav txhab. Nws tsis nyuaj ntse thiab nthuav thiab kuv twb intrigued los ntawm nws emails. Thaum kawg lub hnub tuaj thaum peb pom zoo kom tau raws li. Kuv teem ib hnub rau kuv daim ntawv qhia hnub rau tom ntej no lub lim tiam, tab sis raws li lub hnub mus Kuv paub tias tsis muaj txoj kev kuv yuav tsum tau mus ua lub sij hawm thiab hu ua nws mus rho. Nws yog siab dav thiab peb tseem mus nrog lawv tham hauv xov tooj, txhua lub sij hawm kuv yog xav tau nws tua tus kab vim kuv figured kuv yuav tau lub sij hawm mus rau paub nws ib zaug peb tau ntsib. Peb teem lwm hnub thiab kuv tau mus rho uas yog raws li zoo thiab ib lub xeem feeb tswv yim tau tom mus nyob rau hauv kuv lub rooj courtesy of kuv tsis-rau-thov nais.

Kuv txaj muag hais tias kuv rescheduled peb hnub peb ntau lub sij hawm. Ces thaum kawg, thaum kawg ib tug ob peb lub lis piam tom qab kuv tau ntsib nws txoj cai ua ntej Christmas. Kuv tau coj lub hnub tawm hauj lwm tiam sis twb mus rau hauv 'catch up’ on xeem feeb ntaub ntawv. Kuv pom zoo kom tau raws li nws rau ib tug ceev khob kas fes rau kuv txoj kev nyob rau hauv.

Nws yog zoo nraug thiab funny thiab kuv nyiam nws tam sim ntawd. Ces nws hais tias ib yam dab tsi uas ua rau kuv nres nyob rau hauv kuv kev, lub koob nrov nrov screeching tawm lub soundtrack ntawm kuv tibneeg hu tauj coob lub neej.


Kuv muaj ib zaug uas ib phau ntawv kos npe rau ntawm Barnes thiab Noble thiab greeted ntawm no qhib los ntawm ib tug fiftiesh redheaded poj niam. “Yog dab tsi li nrog tag nrho cov txiv neej uas pw hauv internet?”. Muaj ib co tis, thiab ib co npuaj zoo li. Kuv twb tsis nyob rau hauv tag nrho ras los ntawm cov nqe lus nug, vim hais tias yog hais tias kuv twb mus nrog lawv tham nyob rau hauv ib chav tsev ntawm nees nkaum tsib cov txiv neej, lawv yuav undoubtedly nug tib lo lus nug txog cov poj niam.


Kuv plws teb nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem no yog los sim empathize nrog rau lub liars tsis muaj condoning lawv tus cwj pwm. Cia xav hais tias: Yog vim li cas cov neeg pw? 1) Vim hais tias lawv yog insecure thiab 2) Vim hais tias lawv paub hais tias yog hais tias lawv qhia qhov tseeb, lawv yuav tsis txawm tau lub hnub. Zoo nkauj ncaj, txoj cai? Tsis yog rau cov poj niam nyob rau hauv no cov neeg tuaj saib. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, tsis tsuas yog lawv bristle ntawm muab piv rau cov txiv neej lies (phem) rau poj niam lies (tsis yog li ntawd phem), tab sis lawv hais tias nws yog uncivilized rau ib tug txiv neej mus thov kom tau ib tug poj niam lub hnub nyoog tseeb.

Mloog. Kuv tsis tau nres lub lies, tab sis kuv tsis cia siab rau nres lub cov neeg siab phem. Liars foom phem rau liars thiab tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum lawv bitch kuv cocktail tog thiab yog tshwj xeeb yog exhausting.

Thiaj li cia tus muab pov tawm ob peb ntau yam teeb meem thiab sim to taub yog vim li cas lub dag lies.

Yog hais tias koj yog ib tug txiv leej tub 5'5 thiab 80% ntawm luv luv rau cov poj niam yuav tsis txawm tawm mus nrog koj, koj hais tias koj 5'8′ thiab vam tias koj povhaum overcomes lub dag. Nws tsis, tab sis koj cia siab tias nws tsis.

Yog hais tias koj yog ib tug 175 lb tug poj niam, tej zaum koj yuav hu rau koj tus kheej 'ruaj thiab toned'. Yog, 'Ib tug ob peb phaus ntxiv’ los yog txawm 'loj’ yuav ib tug me ntsis xav paub ntau tshaj meej, tab sis koj lo nrog koj piav qhia vim hais tias feem ntau hais mav yuav tsis teb rau qhov tseeb. Thaum koj ua tau raws li, koj sim las mees uas disappointed saib nws muab koj, vim hais tias koj nyob nraum tsawg kawg yog tau txais koj kev ncaj ncees txhaj koob tshuaj tivthaiv, txoj cai?

Thiab leej twg yuav liam ib tug hluas-at-lub plawv 61 xyoo laus tug txiv neej los yog ib tug hluas zog tuaj 44 xyoo laus poj niam rau tweaking qhov tseeb ib tad? Lawv paub hais tias vim lub sij hawm dhau lawv tswj, tsuav tawm ib tug ntau ntawm cov neeg lub radars. Yog li ntawd lawv fib ib tug me ntsis thiab los yog ib tug ntau – nyob twj ywm pom mus rau lwm cov hauv internet daters tawm muaj. Kuv tsis hais tias nws yog txoj cai. Kuv cia li hais tias nws tshwm sim.

Los ntawm qhov xwm heev ntawm no medium thiab ib cov neeg coj los ntawm computer ua ntej lub rooj sib tham thiab ib tug dlej feem pua ​​ntawm lawv yuav tsis muaj siab forthcoming. Nws ua rau kev txiav txim zoo. Yuav ua li cas feem pua ​​ntawm cov peb yog insecure? Yuav ua li cas feem pua ​​ntawm cov peb tsis tau muaj cov kev rau lwm tus neeg’ hlwb ntawv teev? Yuav ua li cas feem pua ​​ntawm cov peb yog ntse txaus paub hais tias ib tug neeg ncaj ncees 63 xyoo laus nyhav dhau heev lawm tus poj niam ua tsis tau raws feem ntau cov txiv neej tus ntawv teev, uas yog raws nraim vim li cas nws posts uas los ntawm daim duab rau xyoo thiab peb caug phaus dhau los?

Kuv taw tes tsis yog hais tias peb yuav tsum puag tus liars nyob rau hauv ib co tsi pab pawg neeg puag, los yog ua tsaug rau lawv rau kom peb nyob hauv peb lub toes. Es, peb yuav tsum sim kom to taub thiab txais qhov tseeb hais tias qhov no tus cwj pwm yuav tshwm sim thiab raws li paub tseeb raws li Ozzy lub yuav foom, los yog J.Lo lub yuav tau sib nrauj. Tau npau taws daws tsis muaj dab tsi thiab tag nrho nws tsis yog ua rau koj lub suab iab thiab irrational, ob cov roj ntsha uas yeej tsis tau leej twg nyob qhov twg.

Tab sis txij thaum peb yuav tsis nres liars, ntawm no yog ib tug ob peb ceev faj kom koj muaj peev xwm coj nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam kom tsis txhob muaj lawv:

1) Nug rau ntau cov duab. Kuv tsis paub yuav ua li cas muaj ntau zaus kuv tau saib lub taub hau txhaj tshuaj uas zoo li Natalie Portman, tsuas mus nrhiav tau hais tias nws yog Natalie Portly nyob rau hauv lub neej tiag tiag, tab sis kuv twb kawm tau kuv zaj lus qhia. Yog hais tias kuv yuav xa ntxiv duab ntawm kuv coj tsis pub dhau lub xyoo tas los, ces yog tsis muaj kev zam txim rau lwm tus neeg tsis muaj lawv zoo li.

2) Xav txog qhov zoo ntawm cov duab. Zaj duab xis thiab cov khaub ncaws zoo txawv tshaj nws puas tau kaum xyoo dhau los. Txawv hairstyles, txawv fashions, txawv xim palette. Yog hais tias ib daim duab zoo li sau hnub tim, tus neeg tej zaum yuav zoo heev yog nkaum ib yam dab tsi.

3) Xav muaj pes tsawg leeg ntawm daim duab. Tiag tiag kaw daim duab thiab tsis muaj lwm yam txhawb cov duab? Ib tug neeg yog tsis txaus siab rau nws / nws lub cev. Tsuas pom ib tug neeg los ntawm lub hauv siab li? Tib yam nkaus li. Hnav tag nrho dub, faus qab cov phooj ywg, los yog obstructed los ntawm ib tug loj Fern? Tus neeg ntawd yog nkaum, nrog zoo yog vim li cas.

4) Xav logically. Koj yeej tsis xav kom kev nyuaj siab lub cev, tog twg los ntawm koj profile los yog nyob rau hauv lub xov tooj, tab sis yog tias ib yam dab tsi tsis ntxiv li, ua ib daim ntawv ntawm nws. Ib tug txiv leej tub uas hu nws tus kheej 'Ripped’ tab sis tsis ua dab tsi kis las yog tsis qhia koj qhov tseeb. Tib nrog tus poj niam uas neeg pab leg ntaubntawv uas nws yog 39 tab sis muaj ob tug grandkids.

Kuv yuav mus rau cov ntaub ntawv thiab hais tias nws yog li cas rau ib tug neeg mus dag txog nws / nws muaj hnub nyoog XWB yog hais tias tus neeg lees paub qhov tseeb tom qab nyob rau hauv lub profile. Dag kom koj tus kheej yuav tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tib neeg lub arbitrarily nqaim nrhiav kev yog ib tug nyob deb quaj los ntawm dag nrog hom phiaj rau dag.

Tau npau taws rau liars kuj d'classe. Kuv twb tham nrog ib tug ob peb hais mav uas twb thiaj li npau taws rau raug dag mus hais tias lawv ua embarrassingly. Ib hais tawm ib tug poj niam uas shaved peb xyoos tawm nws muaj hnub nyoog. Lwm cov muab ib ncig thiab tshuav tus poj niam uas tsis raws li nws daim duab. Rau kuv, qhov no yog ob wrongs poob mus ua ib txoj cai. Lub dag screwed li, thiab yuav tau them vim hais tias nws yuav tsis tau txais ib tug thib ob hnub, tab sis hais tias yog tsis muaj yog vim li cas rau kev txhab rau nws lub neej.

Yog hais tias ib tug neeg dag ntxias koj nrog ib tug yees duab, yog ib tug hauv chav kawm ntawv txoj cai los ntawm tsis tsuas yog paub cai, tab sis tsis dag koj tus kheej. Los ntawm kev qhia qhov tseeb, koj twb ua txhua yam uas leej twg yuav tau ua ntxuav li tag nrho cov nyob hauv internet sib tam scene.


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