Tsib lub neej Cov tshooj lus kawm ntawm Nej cov miv thiab kev sib raug zoo

Thaum kuv thawj zaug tau ntsib kuv tus hluas nraug, Christopher, tsib lub xyoos dhau los, Kuv tau tsuas yog ib tug khub ntawm tiaj khau - scuffed khau looj plab hlaub los ntawm tsev kawm qib siab. Xav rov qab rau kuv undergraduate kev, Kuv tsis ntseeg kuv txawm coj qhws lawv 10 lub sij hawm, raws li high heels nqa feem ntau ntawm kuv mus mus thiab los ntawm cov chav kawm ntawv tshwj tsis yog tias ib nti ntawm cov dej khov loj lub tsev kawm ntawv, uas taw tes kuv tso siab rau ib tug npoo. zoo, Kuv embellished rau tom kawg (dog dig.) Ib tug girly ntxhais nyob rau hauv txhua txoj kev, Kuv tsis paub tias yuav ua li cas ua Sweatpants zoo nkauj los yog siab qhia kuv lub ntsej muag tsis muaj ib tug pleev daim npog qhov ncauj, thiab kuv yeej tsis twb paub no hloov. Tab sis nws puas tau, thiab kuv vam tias nws ua rau lwm tus poj niam, raws li zoo.

Tsis tau hais tias muaj ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog pleev thiab stilettos - txaus siab rau lawv! Cia li tsis yog nyob ntawm seb lawv. Thaum kuv saib cov phau ntawv Magazine thiab cov qhov barrage ntawm xov xwm lwm peb, Kuv tsis tau xav yog vim li cas thiaj li muaj ntau cov poj niam yog rau thawv hauv av nyob rau hauv lub cog qoob loo department. Kuv qhia rau koj li nram qab no uas kuv twb kawm tau los ntawm kuv feline khub thiab cov ncaj-shooting txiv neej nyob rau hauv kuv lub neej:

1. Puag koj ib leeg khij vaj lug kub: Nyob rau ib lub ntawm kuv cov thawj lub caij ntuj sov hnub nrog Chris, Kuv txhawj txog yuav ua li cas daj ntseg kuv tau saib thiab resorted mus rau nws tus kheej-uas luam tawv tsiaj. Thaum kuv hais tias kuv daj ntseg, Kuv txhais li cas Kuv alabaster bordering translucent, yog li no quick-fix coj mus rau tsis muaj dab tsi tab sis streaks ntawm txiv kab ntxwv thiab kev khuv xim. thaum nws (txhob txwm) mas yog hais tias kuv tau muab tso rau hauv nws tus kheej-Tanner, Kuv tuaj huv (tab sis tsis yog nyob rau hauv lub literal siab, raws li hais tias muab kev koom tes ib lub lim tiam ntawm exfoliation.) Nws nug kuv hais tias yog vim li cas kuv yuav ua li cas hais tias xav kuv muaj ib tug zoo nkauj thiab tsis tshua muaj cov laus tawv nqaij. Kuv yeej tsis tau hnov ​​leej twg xa mus rau kuv daim tawv nqaij uas txoj kev, thiab kuv xav li ntawd ua dag rau sim hloov ib yam dab tsi tshwj xeeb nrog ib yam khoom uas hnov ​​tsw nws yog xim hlau thiab sab laug kuv pajamas thiab dawb dresses muddied.

Peb cov neeg koom tes xav kom peb zoo li peb tus kheej, thiab peb yuav tsum xav, raws li zoo. Nws yog zoo ib yam li muaj ib tug sib tam profile Diam duab uas zoo tsis muaj dab tsi zoo li koj, photoshopped yav tag los qhov point ntawm paub. Peb tag nrho cov cim, thiab cov neeg tej yam uas ua rau peb txawv kuj ua rau peb sawv tawm los ntawm cov neeg coob coob. Nrhiav tus cog qoob loo los qhia koj tiag tiag cim thiab tsis ntshaw leej twg li lwm leej lwm tus '.

Raws li rau miv, tib tuas muaj tseeb. Ib tug calico yog tsis muaj ntau beautifully cim tshaj ib tug Tabby - nws yog tag nrho cov nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus beholder.

2. Ua tsis tau lub cev txaj muag: Ob tug kuv miv yog me me, ob yog nruab nrab build, thiab ob yog loj. Lawv tsis paub tias qhov no. Kuv biggest miv jumps rau lub miv ib nrab nws loj thiab xav yog vim li cas lawv tsis zoo siab lub wrestling ua si hnub. Yog hais tias tsuas cov poj niam yuav tsum tsis txhob hauv lub cev-bashing peb ob raug kev txomnyeem thiab oddly pab txhawb. Peb tuaj nyob rau hauv tag nrho cov hom ntawm cov duab thiab ntau thiab tsawg, thiab tsis tau kuv hnov ​​li ntawd, muaj ntau yam ntawm kuv cov phooj ywg mus rau hauv thiab nyob txog dab tsi lub cev flaws. Cov ntaus tswv yim ces ua ke nrog kev ntshai txog yuav ua li cas cov txiv neej saib lawv lub cev nyob rau hauv sib piv mus rau Victoria lub zais qauv. Uas zoo ntawm nws tus kheej-tham ua rau yus kwvyees peb ua txog tsis tsuas yog peb tus kheej lub cev, tab sis lub cev nyob rau hauv general. Kuv txaj muag thaum kuv hnov ​​quotes zoo li, "Tiag tiag cov poj niam muaj curvy." Poj niam zoo nkauj tuaj nyob rau hauv ib tug array ntawm cov duab, thiaj li cia tus puag txawm daim duab pom peb nyob rau hauv peb zoo daim ntawv. Cov txiv neej tsis xav hnov ​​peb muab nkawd cais peb lub cev, thiab peb tag nrho-dhau-feem ntau muab tso rau lawv nyob rau hauv tej qhov chaw lawv muaj peev xwm tsis yeej, tsis muaj teeb meem lawv cov lus teb. Kate Upton, Kate Winslet, thiab Kate Moss yog tag nrho cov txawv ua, tab sis yog tsis tag nrho lawv universally tswv zoo nkauj?

Rau lub sij hawm ntev, Kuv yuav tsis hais tias kuv ob txhais ceg tsis lo-nyias, li ntawd, xav txog tej yam kuv surprise thaum Chris hais rau kuv tias nws hlub kuv ob txhais ceg thiab pom zoo hais tias kuv hnav ntau luv thiab cov tiab luv. Cov neeg yuav nyiam koj lub cev thiab yuam tsis tau koj reshape nws. Nco ntsoov tias.

3. Txaus siab rau cov zaub mov: Ah, lub thrill ntawm khoom. Thaum kuv co uas lub hnab ntawm enticement, tag nrho rau ntawm kuv miv them rau pem hauv ntej ntawm kuv txhais ko taw. Lawv hlub cov zaub mov mus rau kis twg nws yog ib qho kev tshwm sim. Leej twg yuav liam lawv? Ib yam li cov poj niam, Kuv waged tsov rog nrog cov zaub mov raws li kuv raug kev txom nyem saum toj no-sau tseg lub cev kev txaj muag tsis xis txig svelte nyob rau hauv ib tug bikini. Kuv luj tsib phaus ntau tam sim no tshaj thaum Chris thiab kuv xub tau ntsib, tab sis nyob rau hauv pauv rau cov uas, Kuv twb muab qhia ntau ntau pizza nrog nws thaum lub sij hawm rau hnub Friday yav hmo ntuj TV binges. Kuv yuav tsis pauv cov rau tej nab npawb ntawm cov teev. Kuv nyob deb swm nrog kuv lub cev ntawm 31 tshaj kuv puas tau nyob rau hauv kuv cov tub ntxhais hluas.

Noj noj qab nyob zoo yog ib tug zoo tshaj plaws, thiab kuv yog ib tug ruaj believer nyob rau hauv kev noj kev saib xyuas ntawm oneself (saib hauv qab no.) Enjoying lub neej thiab tag nrho nws cov flavors, tab sis yog, yog ib tug zoo nkauj zoo tshaj plaws, raws li zoo. Tsis txhob xav ntau rau koj calorie kom tsawg tias koj tsis nco qab ntawm enjoying cov mov noj - thiab qhov kev sib tham uas nrog nws.

4. Saib xyuas ntawm koj tus kheej: Thaum kuv miv yog nkees, lawv pw tsaug zog. (Lawv nyob nraum tag nrho kiag li sab sab, los ntawm txoj kev.) Thaum lwm miv ntshai lawv los yog invades tus neeg qhov chaw, lawv tsis muaj kam nyob rau hauv voicing disdain. Yog li ntawd feem ntau, peb kev nyuaj siab tshaj hais lus peb minds, los yog peb cia ib tug neeg ua zoo rau peb nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas peb yuav tsis kho lwm tus neeg. Miv, thiab cov txiv neej rau qhov teeb meem, muaj ib tug ib txwm mus hiss thiab tau txais nws tshaj nrog, yog li tsiv nrog lawv lub neej thiab tsis tuav resentment los yog bitterness. Lawv feem ntau tsis muab tej yam li ntawd, tus kheej, thiab lawv paub tias nws yog zoo dua cia koj yeej muaj tseeb txoj kev xav qhia tshaj mus nqa nyob rau hauv ib qho kev coj thiab tshuab tom qab.

Lub siab dawb paug tseem ceeb heev nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo, thiab txoj cai khub yuav hlub koj txawm tias thaum koj nyob nraum tsawg tshaj li loveable mus rau lub ntiaj teb sab nraum. Yog hais tias koj tsis tau suab li koj xav, ces yuav ua li cas yuav koj tus khub muab rau koj?

Qhov no yog xws li ib tug nyuaj, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov neeg ntawm peb cov uas siv zog rau agreeableness. Yog hais tias nws yog ib yam kev pab, try to think of wording things in a way that you would not take offense at if they were said to you. That way, you’re saying what you think without having to lose sleep over the issue. The more you do this, the more naturally it will come to you. In my home, hissing thiab purring yog ob ntau nrov, thiab nkawd ob leeg qhia ib hom ntawm kev hwm: rau lwm tus neeg thiab peb tus kheej.

5. Muaj nyob rau hauv lub caij: I’m always amazed at how my cats watch birds with a focus similar to how Chris plays video games. The old adage of stopping to smell the roses is famous for a reason – which brings me back to high heels.

Kuv qub khau sau tau ib co gorgeous xim thiab strappy embellishments, thiab kuv tseem muaj ib tug heev ob peb officers tos nyob rau hauv kuv txee dai khaub ncaws rau hauv txoj cai ib pab tub rog, or at least for this polar vortex to lose its grip. When Chris and I went on our first trip together to Las Vegas, Kuv tau ntim txog tsib officers, imagining txom sequins thiab feathers (Thaj, nyob rau hauv kuv lub taub hau, Vegas no yog hnav khaub ncaws zoo li ib tug showgirl.) How many of those pairs did I end up wearing? Zero. Es tsis txhob, kuv Target Sandals yeej lub pob zeb sawb uas lub lim tiam, and I remember feeling so thankful I had them. Countless girls struggled around us in platform shoes, crippled by peep-toe torture. I sincerely wanted to offer them a bench and some band-aids, paub hais tias kuv thaum ntxov twenties tus kheej yuav tau kev txom nyem alongside lawv.

Kuv miv yuav tsis nco tawm on nas-saib xwb ces lawv yuav tus lawv plaub rov qab nyob rau hauv qhov chaw, thiab kuv yeej tsis yuav tau khaws cia mus nrog Chris tau kuv lov Sandals nrog ib tug 4 inch lift. Oftentimes, qhov zoo tshaj plaws vacations cia siab rau paub tab paub xav khau thiab kev siv nyiaj teev ua suab tsis muaj dab tsi.

Lub neej yog tag nrho hais txog loj hlob, and relationships can help us better understand ourselves as we stumble and succeed. Likewise, kev sib raug zoo yuav pab tau los ntawm kev ntseeg tus kheej, lub luag hauj lwm ncaj ncees, and indulging in some treats now and then. Hopefully, peb nrhiav tau ib tug zoo nqi koj tshuav ntawm hisses thiab (feem ntau) purrs raws txoj kev.


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