Dab tuag tseeb txog Niaj hnub nimno yos

Wb fim nws, peb tsis nyob rau hauv qhov zoo ol’ hnub twg txoj kev hlub thaum xub thawj pom muab rau hauv courtship uas coj mus rau ib tug zoo siab, ntev sib yuav. Nrog rau cov txaav ntawm technology, ntshai kev cog lus, thiab lub siab tus nqi ntawm kev plees kev yi, niaj hnub tam yog tsis yooj yim. Thiab rau cov neeg yug los nyob rau hauv lub xyoo pua 20th lig, peb tshwj xeeb tshaj yog paub yog vim li cas nyuaj dating yuav ua tau.
The person who cares less has all the power in the relationship and no one wants to be the one who has more interest because that is just too vulnerable. Because we do not want to appear too eager, peb yuav siv sij hawm teev los yog tej zaum hnub rau cov ntawv nyeem rov qab. Cov puas siab puas ntsws kev ua si yog tsis muaj kev lom zem rau leej twg.

Hu xov tooj yog ib tug tuag art daim ntawv. Feem ntau cov kev sib txuas lus nta tshwm sim los ntawm cov lus ntawv nyeem uas yog tus tshaj plaws tsis zoo li neeg hauv daim ntawv ntawm kev sib txuas lus.

Npaj ua ntej thiab teem hnub nyhav yeej tsis tshwm sim. Ua tsaug rau social media, lwm yam romantic txaus siab, thiab cov phooj ywg, hnub zoo li yuav ntau spur ntawm lub caij tshaj thoughtfully npaj tawm.

Nqe lus zoo li “cia ntsawj txias heev” thiab “xav mus dai tawm” yog code rau “cia nqai li”. Thiab thaum lub sij hawm feem ntau tas ntshai tau cov lus, lawv yog oftentimes nrov tshaj plaws txoj kev uas yuav caw ib tug neeg los yog siv lub sij hawm hnub no.

Ib txhia neeg yog tsis nrhiav ib tug kev sib raug zoo, lawv cia li xav kom nqai li. Tu siab, feem ntau ntawm cov sij hawm qhov no yog tsis hais kom txog rau thaum tom qab lub fact. Nta, ua siab ncaj yog heev tsis tshua muaj siv.

Muaj coob tus neeg yog ntshai ntawm kev cog lus uas ua rau yus “peb nyob nraum cia li tham” kev sib raug zoo. Tsis tsuas li no plooj kab, cov kev sib raug zoo yuav tsis kawg. Cov daim ntawv lo-free kev sib raug zoo oftentimes xaus nrog ib tug neeg coj tsis ncaj, tiam sis txij thaum lub kev sib raug zoo yog tsis official ces tus coj tsis ncaj “yeej tsis tshwm sim”.

Kev tawm yog tag nrho ntawm kev ntxias thiab kev cib fim yuam kev. Private lus thiab hloov maj mam sib tawb thiaj xws li liking ib daim duab yeej yuav tsub kom qhov uas yuav muaj rau coj tsis ncaj. Kev tawm kuj qhia tau hais tias kev xaiv saib leej twg yog tawm muaj, nws yog tsis yog ib txoj kev nyob twj ywm nyob rau hauv kov nrog tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg. Social Media kuj yog siv qhia txoj kev xav. Txheej xwm tshiab thiab muab tso rau duab txog kev hlub, thaum lub sij hawm tsis hais txog koj ncaj qha, yog tus tshiab uas qhia txog sawv daws yuav’ muaj tseeb txoj kev xav.

Tu siab, nta nws yog nyuaj heev kom pom lwm tus neeg kiag li unfiltered. Feem ntau, cov neeg uas ntshai yuav txoj thiab muab tso rau lawv tus kheej tawm muaj txawm nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo. Qhov no notion ntawm raug ntshai yog vim hais tias lawv tsis xav kom yuav tsum tau tus cwj pwm li raws li ib yam nkaus thiab muaj, dhau kev txhawj xeeb, dhau dorky, heev zoo, heev kev ruaj ntseg, tsis funny txaus, thiab lwm yam. Yuav ua li cas peb txhua tus yuav tsum tau paub yog hais tias thaum koj nrhiav tau tus neeg, lawv yuav puag txhua yam ntawm koj.

Ntsig, txhua tus neeg uas koj tau txais romantic nrog yuav yog mus ua koj lub neej tus khub los yog nws thiaj li koj yuav ua txhaum li – both of these realities are terrifying. While modern dating is not the easiest, nws yog tsim nyog nws nyob rau hauv lub kawg. Rau thaum peb ua tau pom tias ib tug neeg tshwj xeeb, peb yuav tsum nco ntsoov lawv tag nrho cov xav paub ntau tshaj li cov lus rau nrhiav kev hlub tiag tiag yog yeej ib txwm muaj nqis.


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