Zašto muškarci vole Heartless matica

Ovo je dating site, i dating site za ljubitelje kućne ljubimce, ne manje. So can we talk for just a minute about female dogs? And I mean “ženski psi” U većini eufemistički smislu, kao što se ne odnosi na pasa, but their human species counterpart that gives female dogs their bad name. But because this is a SFW site and in an effort to give back to female dogs the respect and love they deserve—let’s talk instead about Heartless Queen Bees (ili HQBs) i ljudi koji ih vole, a ono što se može naučiti od njih napraviti svoje vlastite odnose i bolje.

Opet vrijeme i vrijeme, Ja sam bio svjedok iz prve ruke o fenomenu “lijep momak voli HQB”. It’s really a marvel to behold—a caring, ljubazan, uljudan i plemenit čovjek koji čini da uvijek bude u položaju savijanje unatrag za njegovu HQB; and he seems to also love every minute of responding to her demands and bearing the brunt of her indiscriminate disdain. But these relationships are also some of the best I’ve seen in terms of longevity; i tako, Ja sam zaključio, u smislu nekog stupnja odnosa uspjeha.

Dakle, ono što možemo, kao pristojan, zamišljen žene naučiti iz HQBs privući i zadržati vrste muškaraca koje se čini da nemaju problema privlačenja i zadržavanja?

1) HQBs imaju snažan osjećaj identiteta

Jaka žena identiteta

HQBs know who they are and what they want. They know what they bring to the table and they are interesting because their interests are their own and they may be unique from their partner’s interests. It is boring to date yourself, i HQBs su shvatili ovo.

2) HQBs ima zapovjedništvo nad njihovom svijetu

zapovjednik Žena

HQB čini da vladaju svijetom oko sebe (je li ona doista ili ne). This quality provides a subconscious boost to her partner’s ego—if he has some control over making her happy, i ona ima kontrolu nad “Svijet”, on ima kontrolu nad “Svijet” by proxy. It’s that whole “ako A = B i B = C, zatim = C” thing. How does this translate into a useful tip? Decent, thoughtful people like you and me tend to not be very assertive with our actions and communication. Being assertive is much different than being aggressive, što je osnovni M.O. od prosječnog HQB i ono što joj daje da loše dobivši, slab nadzor “Svijet”. But being more assertive will yield a greater command of your world, without the otherwise negative results of aggression. One example of this is simply to state what you want and why it makes sense from your perspective, sans ponižavajuće, snishodljiv bijes tako često koriste u izradi slične zahtjeve HQBs.

3) Uvijek popularna i dokazano, “Muškarci kao izazov”!

Muškarci kao izazov

Koliko Dating članaka i knjiga si pročitao da su posvećeni nekoj verziji osnovne ideje da muškarci vole biti predstavljen s izazovom, tako osjećaju posebnu kada su u mogućnosti osvojiti rekao izazov? Ali, sebe, will speak of finding the more elusive woman more attractive than the one who is an always-available open book. Sometimes elusiveness manifests as—how should I say—being a little stingy with expressing any kind of positive emotion or feedback (što je gdje HQBs doći). Some men can’t resist the challenge of trying to illicit any kind of pleasant response from an HQB and so she becomes an object of great interest.

Kako vam je činiti (opet, kao pristojan, promišljena žena si) se pretvoriti u biti više izazov? This can easily become the disingenuous game-playing that books like “Pravila” (Fein i Schneider) sve, which may not work for everyone and may leave you ill-feeling and confused about what to say and when. Umjesto, build up your life to be genuinely full and exciting—making you a true challenge to nail down a date with. Not only will it check off that whole “biti izazov” atribut koji tako ungracefully obilježava HQBs (da muškarci naći tako atraktivno), ali vaš datum će osjetiti da je mnogo više cijeni kad ste napravili točku potrošiti svoje dragocjeno vrijeme jasno s njim.

4) Nema igre

Woman nagađanje igre

Tu dolazi vrijeme kada ljudi prestanu reagirati na nagađanje igre-je li to na temelju kojih je malo zreliji, or the relationship itself having grown beyond its initial flirtation. Perhaps this tip can be at least partially credited with the whole “longevity” anomaly presented by HQB/Nice Guy relationships. HQBs say what they want, and when they want it. There are few games and intangibles in dealing with an HQB, and many men find this refreshing. This ties in elements from a couple of previous tips—in being straightforward with your communication (I. E. biće deklarativan), i vrlo jasno ono što želite od svog partnera ako ga ne već to pruža, ste predstavili izazov da će vjerojatno uživati ​​ubrzanje u susret, jer ste bili toliko jasan i da se neće bojati svoje napore će biti uzalud.

Tako, Ljubazni Hearts-take srce, i ove savjete za srce-i možda možemo tvrditi malo veći udio na tržištu lijep momak za sebe!


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