Ị Dateable?

A ndepụta ụzọ iji mara onwe gị ntakịrị mma, eme ka ị "a lotta bit" ihe dateable

The ndudue ọtụtụ ndị na-eme ha na mkpakọrịta nwoke na nwaanyị ndụ na-adịghị na-enwe ezi echiche nke ndị ha, onwe ha, na-. It may seem counterintuitive, ma mgbe ị na-arụsi ọrụ ike na-agbalị ịchọta onye bụ otu n'ime ndị kasị mma ugboro-elekwasị anya na gị na ihe na-eme ka ị na- “akọrọ”. Women, ihe karịrị ndị ikom, na-ewekarị “Na-amasị m ọ bụla Akpama”-Ọrịa (ma eleghị anya, n'ihi na egbu omenala na-atụ anya na ndị inyom na-azọrọ na na-na-agbanwe, amorphous ndị kọrọ ọdịmma nke onwe ha), n'ikpeazụ n'ihi na unsatisfactory na unfulfilling mmekọrịta na mma; na ịtụnanya, egbughị oge na iwe iwe mgbe onye nke ọzọ na-enwe “gbanwere”, ke kasị njọ.

Otu n'ime ndị kasị amasị m okwu na-aga ihe dị ka–otú a onye ọzọ kwesŽrŽ mara ma hụ na i, ma ọ bụrụ na ị na-amaghị na ahụ gị n'anya? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, na-eme ka ọ dịkwuo mfe n'ihi na gị na Right One ịmata onye ọ bụla ọzọ na inwe mmasị n'ebe àgwà na-adịghị aga ịgbanwe na gị ụlọ ọrụ ma ọ bụ na afọ.

Dị ka Shel Silverstein-ede ya uri, “Masks”:

O nwere-acha anụnụ anụnụ akpụkpọ
Otú ahụkwa ka o
O mere ka o zoro
Otú ahụkwa ka o
Ha Chọrọ-acha anụnụ anụnụ
Ha dum ndụ site
Mgbe ahụ gafere ezi site–
Na mgbe maara

Lee ụzọ ụfọdụ na-esi mara ma hụ na ị, nke mere na onye ọzọ nwere ike, kwa!

1. Take Yourself Out

Nke a na-ebugharị gburugburu dị iche iche na myriad “enyemaka onwe onye” gurus, akwụkwọ, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, dị ka ogologo oge dị ka ọ bụ ihe ntụrụndụ na ihe ị na-enwe–a nkiri (Ozugbo ọkụ gbadaa, dịghị onye na-lekwasịrị anya onye na-ọdụ naanị), a bọl egwuregwu, ma ọ bụ ma eleghị anya, a ụbọchị njem ebe ọhụrụ.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

Nwere ụfọdụ free oge? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–na ahụ na-aga na-eme ya! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, kpokọtara twists na odomo, na-ezute na ọtụtụ ndị ọzọ karịa gị ga-, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, ị ga-achọpụta na unu adịghị mkpa onye tinyere-enwe obi ụtọ–i nwere ike inwe obi ụtọ na-emere site nzube gị na nhọrọ.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, ma ọ bụ na ọ dịghị ihe ọzọ banyere ọha na eze iche na echiche nke onwe gị, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “Ị” nke i na-na ụwa, and therefore dates. Enwere Ike, na yikarịrị, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–nke a nwere ike ndinyene dị ka a eriri nke ọma, mgbagwoju anya mmekọrịta.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, na-eme ihe ọhụrụ kpamkpam! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, n'ihi na–mgbe na pụrụ ịdọta ụbọchị–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, ị ga-dịpụrụ adịpụ ọzọ ahụmahụ ná ndụ na-enyere aka kọwaa gị na ọdịmma, na ị nwere ike ọzọ nkà na mkparịta ụka na-arụtụ aka na-eme ka table.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, ị ga-enwe obi ụtọ a, ọzọ mezuru onye na ị ga-enwe na ọtụtụ ihe ndị ọzọ na-enye na-a mmekọrịta; na dịgodị, ị nwere otutu fun ịmara unu na unu bụ ndị niile banyere.


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