4 Soso-kevitra ho Date Voalohany

Voalohany daty dia mety ho hanova ny fiainantsika. Fantatro fa raha miomana ianao ho iray amin'izao fotoana izao, Angamba aho vao nanao ny vavoniny Atsimbadiho, ary ny miala tsiny aho! The best way to enter into a first date is to relax, so forget the whole life-changing aspect. Fa tsy, aoka ny hifantoka amin'ny resaka.

Imbetsaka, isika dia mihevitra ny daty voalohany toy ny asa tafa sy dinika, izay azo antoka fa mametraka fara-tsy toe-po tanteraka mitarika ny fahafinaretana, sy ny fanehoan-kevitra mahazatra indrindra ny asa resadresaka dia nervousness, marina? When we’re nervous, indraindray isika dia manadino ny tena zava-dehibe toy ny fifampiresahana fitaovana ampiasaina: mihaino.

Mety ho toa tsotra, but it’s amazingly sparse in today’s world. We focus so much on preparing our witty remarks or perfect delivery that we neglect to fully tune in to the other person. I’ve heard a lot of great one-liners, ary tiako mampihomehy ry zalahy, Ahoana kosa ny amin'ny lehilahy izay raha ny marina dia mihaino izay lazainao? Tsara, he’s a keeper. If he’s funny, koa, Efa zava-dehibe dia namely ny jackpot.

Ny lehilahy ny vehivavy iray te mihaino, koa! I’m not talking about just hearing the words he says, although that is a critical first step. Actually listen to his words, ny feo, ny vatany teny, and his actions. Women tend to pay attention to these things very well, fa amin'ny daty voalohany, tratry ny ananany izany isika matetika mifantoka amin'ny tenantsika (ny fitafiana, ny volony, sakafo ao amin'ny nifiny, Iza firenena, ary ny lokomena reapplications) fa adinontsika ny hoe nahoana isika no tena misy ianao.

Listening to your date is practically guaranteed to help the conversation flow. Bad listening skills, Nitendry A toetrany? Here’s a formula:

1. Fanontaniana: Raha miresaka momba ny daty adidy na asa tombontsoa manokana izay tsy mahatakatra, na baiko zavatra eny amin'ny sakafo ianao mbola tsy nandre ny, don’t feel silly asking questions. Ask away. People love to explain what they know a lot about, ary ianao Feno ny daty ho manam-pahaizana manokana, whether that’s on car engines or sushi. Who doesn’t want to feel like an expert? We tend to talk so much more about our passions, ka ianao mahazo ny mahafantatra fa olona amin'ny fomba manan-danja.

2. Pause: Allowing your date time to finish his or her thoughts is pretty standard – and can prove difficult when you’re excited or nervous – but taking it one step farther can really provide information. One great way of doing this is taking a sip of water as the person is finishing a thought. It gives people a silence to fill, ary maro ny fotoana hahafantatra bebe kokoa momba azy ireo avy amin'ireo inclusions.

3. Miombona alahelo: Angamba izy vao avy ny mari-pahaizana, or perhaps he’s up for a promotion. Think of how you would feel in that position. You would probably want to talk about your favorite classes, izay tianao hatao any an-tsaha, or the projects you’ve worked on to climb the ladder. Now you have great questions. This is an occasion where selfish thinking can prove very helpful in learning about someone else.

4. Avereno: Raha toa ka miahiahy izany ianao, ary natahotra fa manana broccoli niraikitra tao ny nify, ary vao tsy afaka hifantoka amin'ny tsipiriany momba ny asa raha mbola mahatsapa ho an-jambany ny voalamina tsara ao amin'ny kitapom-bola, at the very least try to pick up on key words. Did he say data entry? Now you can ask questions about what kind of data, Raha izany no zavatra tiany, or if he uses mass amounts of caffeine to survive it. But honestly, hanadino ny voalamina tsara rehefa afaka, ary mangataka aminy fotsiny!

Mazava ho azy, fametrahana fanontaniana mikasika ny daty ny biby(s) is recommended. Not an animal lover? Check, mba miangavy re. I say this in jest (ary ny karazana zava-dehibe.)

Ankafizo ny daty voalohany, mitonia, sy miala voly! Just remember to listen. Your life may in fact change, fa Hey, tsy misy fanerena.


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