Teití – Kei te Sabotaging koe?

"Kino ahau teiti" Ko te kōrero rongo ahau i toku kiritaki wahine katoa pinepine rawa. Tēnei huru kino ki teití ko e tetahi o nga take matua e taea wahine kotahi noho 'raru', me te kotahi hoki na roa. Te nuinga o nga wahine i haere mai ahau puta noa i roto i toku huarahi mahi tohutohu teiti ki tino i te huinga whakaaro he, te tikanga e te ara whakatata ratou teiti mau sabotages ratou tūponotanga o te whakaminenga ratou hoa ora.

Na ano ko te tino mārama tenei huru. Kua katoa i reira tatou, 'Akina' tatou ki te tiki i roto i te kēmu, te takiuru ki runga ki te pae teití ipurangi, ria ana i roto i ngā karere e te tahi mau taime hanga i te ngokingoki kiri, pinepine rawa i te tangata whai hoa me ētahi atu undesirables, a te mutunga hoatu te tangata he tupono no te titiro ia nehenehe. Kaupapa whakapā, kōrerorero whakamuri a whakamua, pea noa timata ki te tiki i te kōpura o te oaoa - te mea ia nehenehe, te ia pai rawa titiro i roto i te pikitia, me i reira ko te hononga tino. Na whakarite e koe he hui. He ioio koe, noho rota o te wā, me te pūngao whiwhi rite koe, fifili koe te mea e hanga e koe he hape, engari kia koe i te kaha, wahia i runga i to koutou koti, haere i roto i ki te matao, ka haere ki nga wahi (tino pinepine i te tahi haora noa) ki te whakatau ia koutou rā. E mana'o koe fiefia i teie nei, i muri i te katoa i taea e ia hei 'te kotahi'.

Na ka kite koutou i a ia! Makaka tou ngakau no te titiro ia tetahi rite ana pikitia, roto i te meka ko ia atu 'Shrek' atu 'Becks'. Ko ia e rua inihi poto atu ia ka mea ko ia, a i mārama tangohia aua pikitia e rave rahi matahiti i ma'iri a'e te whakawa i te taimaha anō me te kore motuhake o te makawe! Heoi koe ngonge whakatau ki 'piro' ki te hoatu ki a ia he tupono noa, Te tikanga e ahau i haere mai koe i te ara katoa i konei! He pā ana ki rite nui aukumetanga rite koe e ite ki te kāpeti pōharuharu, me te tīmata tonu koutou whakamahere tou mawhiti. Otiia e kore koe e hiahia ki te kia ware kia noho koe i roto i te haora te oto o te tuke, whakahaere huatau e pā ana ki tetahi mea nui, me te wa katoa e kaikā noa koe ki te tiki atu. Ko te hononga i te reira te ipurangi, ko te wahi ki te kitea, he mārama koe rua ongo'i fiemālie. I waiho e koe i roto i te ua miharo koe he aha pau koe i te wa, moni me te kaha ki te haere mai i runga i tetahi atu rā, me te upoko koe ka whakama ongo'i home me te ara pūmau atu mau i roto i te whakapono, e reira e kore tetahi tangata tika kei roto i reira tika mo a koutou! Ngā kahore wahine miharo whangai te reira kia ake.

Teití taea kia matekiri a he mea ohie ki te tiki demotivated. Ka taea e ite te reira riringi a tae noa ngakau raveraa paari ki te haere i runga i te string o ngā rā ki te tangata e ite koe kahore mura ki, a ka whai koutou tūmanako o te whakaminenga taia ano, a ano he hoa. He he mōrearea o te burnout, ina mahi koe i te rota o te teití, a ka taea e te tahi mau wahine riro rawa manuki, me te ara Koirā. E kore e haere ana tēnei ki te āwhina i tō āhuatanga i te katoa, no te i te ia i roto i tenei aratau, Ka taea e te wahine kotahi te mahue ngāwari ia Mr Right rawa, no ka tae mai ia e haere.

I mohio koe e te nuinga o nga wahine mahi e kore e mau rerehua te tangata e muri ratou haere i runga i ki te marena, no ratou i te tuatahi te whakatau ia ia? Interesting! He ako tata i roto i te Daily News tata e a tawhio noa 22% o faaipoipo te whakatau ia i roto i te mahi. Kahore he aituā tenei – Ko reira no te mea e whakaaetia te attraction ki te hanga fakanatula, i runga i te wā. A i roto i te nuinga o te wā ko te maha ia te tangata e kore koutou e kua hoatu e te whai wāhi ki te ki te i tutaki koe ia online, te tahi mea ki te mau i roto i te ngakau kia rite ki e Tātarihia koutou i roto i o koutou ngā taurite.

Na te aha ki te mahi ka ki te huri i tenei e ongo kino e pā ana ki teití?

Well i roto i te meka i te neke ohie i roto i te tirohanga, ko te hiahiatia katoa e ki taui i hoki koe i te wheako katoa o te teití kia mau e taea te tīmata koe oaoa i te reira, a Ka taea e koe hohoro atu karanga i roto i to koutou tangata nui. Ki te taea e tīmata wahine mātakitaki teití rite 'fun mahi'Ka whai ratou he rota atu angitu, a ka pārekareka hoki ratou te tukanga he rota atu. Na te mea rite mahi 'fun mahi'Te tikanga o?

Ēnei TOHUTOHU TOP e korero ki a koe ki te whakamahi i te 'mahi ngahau ' huarahi mō te angitu.

1. Maturuturu te kaupapa.

Kaua e whakaaro ki a ia kia rite ki te hoa te ora pea, hei utu mo tika kia hakari i roto i tenei taime ki tenei tangata hou, me te kia pākiki e pā ana ki ia. Ko te he rā tika – kahore he kupu whakaari o te autaatiraa o te faaipoiporaa e aore - te reira i te kawhe tika, ranei te haere nga mea katoa e te mahi tahi koutou ranei. E, kino nga hua i konei, tuatahi ka tangohia e te reira i te pēhanga katoa atu kia taea e koe rua wātea, a ka ite ia e. He tailiili i runga i te rā tuatahi te nuinga o nga tangata pai, ka e kore tapaea ratou i to ratou pai, Heoi ka tauturu i tenei maka ia ia e noho humarie ana. Tuarua tiki koe ki te mahi he a tawhio noa te tangata nei i rite ia koutou, te tikanga koutou kiritau-whaiaro haere ake e, a ka 'tou tangata' e whakaatu ake e rite ki a ia ki a koe, no te mea kua riro koe 'i te taiao'.

2. Kia mau ki ngā rā tuatahi poto rawa.

Kaua e whakaae ki ngā rā hakari mo te rā torutoru tuatahi no te mea he ratou roa rawa ki te noho ki te ha taha kahore koutou e mohio ki. He haora ia wa he nui ki te noho i runga i te tokorua tuatahi o ngā hui. Poto me te päpätanga ko te mea e haere tatou ki konei. Ka tenei āwhina ki te ārai burnout rawa ia e teiti koe e rave rahi te iwi i te kotahi i te timatanga.

3. Kaua e te kōrero ipurangi ki te iwi e noho ana i tawhiti rawa atu i a koutou.

Whakaora i te rota o te pūngao, me te oto tenei. A ani i te ture ki te iwi rā anake te hunga e rohe ki a koutou (i roto i tihi tawhiti haere o te haora). Te nuinga o ngā pae ipurangi i te āhuatanga i reira ka taea e koe te whakamahine i to outou hua rapu ki anake ngā iwi i roto i te tawhiti tetahi. Kaua e maharatia e mohio mau koe ha taha tae noa ki te whakatau ia ratou ki a koe i roto i te tangata, na reira he maha he online hononga e tika e kore e he ki reira, ina te whakatau ia koe kanohi ki te kanohi. Ano taunaki ahau te tangata e haere ana ki te wahine hoki ngā rā.

4. Whakangā ka pārekareka ki te rā. Kia FUN!

Kia tupato – e kore tenei te tikanga o inu he truckload o te waipiro! Ahakoa te mahi ahau mahino aha ki te iwi, ano he inu i runga i te rā tuatahi he pai te whakamanawanui i rawa ranei piri ki noa tetahi i runga i te rā tuatahi tino kia taea ahu mārama noho koutou, ka kite i te ite ia koutou i runga i tenei rā, kahore he waipiro e hoatu nga mea i te kauruku rosy. Kite Engari, ki te taea e kitea e koe i roto i tetahi mea ngā pā ana ki ia, katoa he te tahi mea!

5. Hoatu he tupono ia.

Tenei te tikanga e riro ia ia he rā tuarua ki te inoia tetahi, whakaratohia e ongo'i koe haumaru ki a ia. E hoatu e koe ki a ia tenei tupono ara ki te e kore e ongo'i ngā koe ki a ia. Ae tino! Ko te wāhanga nui o te hātepe tenei, rawa hoki nga wahine nei i te tauira o te whanaungatanga i kino me te tangata kato e kore e pai mo te hunga e.

6. Kia ki a ia arahi

Ko te wāhanga katoa o toku huarahi whānui mo te wahine nei e te rapu i te hononga oaoa tenei. Na e te tikanga, ka waiho e ia i te kotahi ki te ui mo te rā tuarua, ki te mea he he ki te kia kotahi. Taunaki hoki ahau e utu ia no te āwhina whakaturia tenei ake te hononga hihiri tika, ahakoa ite e ahau he i tautohetia ki etahi iwi tenei. E hiahia ana koe ki te kotiro kia romanticized tika?

7. E faahoho'a faitotonú oti e pā ana ki te pehea e ongo'i koe.

A, no te kei i runga i nga koe ngā rā ki enei tangata e pono koe, ka mea eaha to outou mana'o ia koutou, ara, ki te he rorirori tenei ki te rave i te reira i te tuatahi. Na, ki te ite koe hōhā / io / tahuri atu / hiahia / oaoa taea e koe te faaite i taua. Ehara i roto i te ara bitchy, i roto i te ara tuwhera, me te pono. Raruraru etahi wahine tenei, a ka miharo koe i pehea ka tangohia e te reira i te tangata te nuinga i roto i to ratou hikoi, me mauruuru te parau ti'a. Plus iriti i te reira i te ara mo te mau, kōrero pono, a ka homai ki a ia urupare i te he faingamālie koura mo ia ki te whakarite me te taahi ake tana kēmu mo koutou (ki te whakaaro ia e koe, e rite i te reira – e ko koe).

8. Kia ngawari, hiahia me te huatau.

E kore e whakaaro e koe te he ia koutou te tangata pai, engari kua whakakitea e ia ki runga mo koutou, e te meatanga ki a koutou ki te rā, me e tika mauruuru.

 

E kore e teiti tenei ara anake te tauturu ki te oaoa i a koutou i te reira atu, engari e tauturu ano e koe ki te hanga i tou 'uaua hononga' no te mea ka whiwhi koe ki te mahi he koe (he kaha, wahine vahine) a tawhio noa te tangata tūturu. A, ia ratou e mahi i tenei ki a koutou katoa, i tou tangata e whakaatu ake i te titau e koe te iti rawa i te reira!

A pee i teie mau tohutohu runga mo te teití, me te kite, e tou wheako dating rawa liliu.


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