Teiti he Tamaiti Woman i roto i 5 Easy Hipanga

Ko te Pātai
“Rapu ana ahau mo te wahine teina engari e hiahia ana te nuinga o nga wahine ki te rā te tangata a tawhio noa ratou ake tau. Eaha te ahau e nehenehe e rave i?” – Anonymous

Ko te pātai o teie mahana i tetahi o tatou kaipānui nei hiahia ki te noho ingoamuna; ka karanga matou ki a ia Bill. A tai'o ano te pātai. A hi'o nahea te Bill kua whakaaro e kore e waiho te wahine teina rapu ana ia hiahia i roto i te te tangata i tona tau. Tenei ko te whakapono fakahoko whaiaro tata nei i whai ki te haere mai e parau mau. Ki te whakapono koe hohonu iho e e haere koe ki te kore, reira e koe.

Ko te whakahoki tūturu.

I roto i te poto, ae, tino taea e kitea e koe i te wahine teina e te tika mo a koutou. Me tika koe ki te whakatakoto ia koutou ūnga, tangohia mahi, a ka noho i te akoranga.

Nahea e nehenehe ai e koe tīmata i roto i te aronga tika?

Tuatahi, tango i te titiro ki raro i roto hohonu, ka feruri i rite aha e hiahia ana koe ki te whakatau i te wahine teina. Na ka whakaaro e pā ana ki aha kia e tenei wahine tino rite. Te whakaahua ia ia i roto i rite nui taipitopito rite koe taea kēne. Na, tuhituhi i te reira iho ki runga ki te wahi o te pepa. Hiki ia tau, ahua tinana, pükenga, runaruna, hingoa totonú, aha. Kia whakaahuatia koutou te wahine tino mo koutou i roto i te nui taipitopito, korukoru ake i taua wahi o te pepa, me te kawe i te reira ki a koutou mo te 1 wiki.

A feruri na e, e kua koutou ki a ia. He aha e meatia e koe? He aha e kōrero koe e pā ana ki? Hea e haere e koe? Tino ite i te reira, ka whiwhi ki te kare ā-o te reira — Kia pehea te e ite outou i te taime e koe ki a ia? Tangi heahea ai katoa o tenei, engari e mohio ana koe e ma te ohie e tuhituhi iho te mea e hiahia ana koe, faarahi i koe a koutou te tūpono whiwhi i te reira na roto i te 80%!

Whakaaro noa e pā ana ki taua tetahi mo te meneti…

“Ko te ako o te tuhi te tahi mea iho ko te taahiraa matamua ki te tupu i te reira.”

– Lee Iacocca

Stigmas Social me aha e tiaki koe?

E kore koe e rave. Ko tonu i te stigmas hapori tatou hapori. Kei ohipa te āwangawanga e pā ana ki tatou “he aha ētahi atu ka whakaaro” e tatou kei wehi ki te whai i to tatou iho moe tatou. Ae, he maha nga iwi e aroha ki te haere te whakawa i runga i ētahi atu, engari e te ratou whiriwhiri me to ratou tika. He aha ratou i te mea he kaupapa nui mo tetahi atu ra, engari te mea tino e kore e nui i konei. Kahore he tangata e atu taea mohio he aha te mea tika hoki koe pea, na he aha rongo ki a ratou?

Kotahi ka mea te tangata whakaaro nui,

“He aha tētahi atu whakaaro e pā ana ki a koutou, ko tetahi o koutou mahi”.

He pono e te nuinga o nga wahine hiahia te tangata a tawhio noa ratou ake tau?
Ko te tino puremu tenei! Fact he, tata'itahi o tatou he rerekē, me te ahurei hinaaro, me ngā matea. Kia tau whāinga, me te arotahi kotahi te kimi i te wahine tino mo koutou. Wā.

5 ngāwari tohutohu mō te kukume me te teiti wahine teina.

E maha nga wahine e Si'í ngā ki ngā āhuatanga, ano he paari (rite to ratou Teti), moni atu me te mana pāpori teitei, tamatane, aravihi kaiārahi, te māia, me te marino, na te mea nui hoki ki a koutou arotahi ki runga i ēnei o enei mau huru riro koe.

1) Kia koe.

A, no te whakatutuki i takatu pakeke te wahine teina pinepine ratou te tiki io, me te tīmata ki te ohipa tino tipua. Kaua e mahi i tenei e — kia tika koe.

2) Kia mau te marama i te reira me te pārekareka.

Kia ngahau. Kia ngahau. Aa ra ia. Kihai i ia wareware he aha te reira rite ki te tākaro me te goof a tawhio noa. Ka rave i te reira a koutou etahi pai ki te mahara e kore e ki te tango i te ora na tino. Kia te haurangi iti, me te whakaputa hoki nga mea e takatu teina e kore e taea e te tikanga utu ki te mahi. Haere i mua. Kia pai koe.

3) Kia te rangatira. Kia te tangata.

Wahine taitamariki e rapu pea mo ha taha ki te tango i te ārahi. To ratou iti iteraa i roto i te ora, me te e rapu pea mo ha taha ki te whakaatu ia ratou te mea te atu i reira. Hanga koutou rā me ētahi atu mahere i mua o te wā, engari kia tairongo, me te ui ki tona whakaaro o nga mahere e kua hanga e koe. (Kia ia pāwera ki te hūhi). Kia te tangata, otiia faatura i tona whakaaro. Puaki tatau, haere ana i runga i te waho o te aukati, me te toia i ngā tūru he ara tetahi ki te hanga i te ongo nui i runga i nga wahine teina.

4) Kaua e ngāue rite te “perv”.

Kua nuinga o ātaahua taitamariki wahine patua i runga i te taha etahi kopa, parori pakeke taata. Kaua e tamata i te neke i roto i te rawa hohoro ranei ka whakaaro ia kei te tika koe “perv” titiro ki te tiki ki a ia tarau. A, no te koutou anake tahi, te reira OK ki te ohovale, engari kia whaia ia koutou mo te tetahi atu. Kore kia whakawehi atu ia ia ia ki a koe.

5) Hoatu ki a ia etahi wāhi.

Kua wahine taitamariki pea tika whiwhi i roto i te whare o to ratou matua ki te ora rawa te hanganga, me te kore e tau'atāiná. Ki te ngā ngā ia ki a koutou, e kore te mea no te e koe anō-te waihanga i te taiao ta'ota'o e ia tika mahue… te reira no te mea koutou tohu te tahi mea rerekē. Hoatu ki a ia etahi wāhi. Kia te tangata e ngā moe tonu ia e pā ana ki, a kahore e ka whai ia ia. Kia haere mai ia ki a koutou.


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