Nahea outou e ite Ko koe I roto i te aroha?

Mahara ahau ki te wā tuatahi i hinga ahau i roto i te aroha. Na whakaaro ahau te pono pea ko e matau ana koe i te reira i roto i tou ngakau tonu. E mohio ana koe ki te rerekētanga i waenganui i aua pehanga katoa me ongo kaha koutou i hoki te tangata, me te ara ite koe e pā ana ki tenei tangata kotahi. I roto i te mea e, me pehea e mohio ana koe whewhe ki raro, ki te torutoru take i whakarārangitia e ahau i raro.

Whakaraeraetanga

A, no te aroha e koe te tangata e koe i tou whakaraerae rawa. Hiahia ana koe ki te pai ia ratou, maongo ia ratou, kia hari ratou. Mea atu ngaro ratou i to ratou putea mo te tauira ko koe te tuatahi titiro hoki reira. A ehara i te mea i roto i taua ara o 'Aue, i ngaro te tangata rawakore ratou putea.’ Ko te nui atu hohonu atu e. E kore e taea e koe te mau i tetahi mea kino e tupu ra ki a ratou. He ratou pai rawa o te tangata mo te tetahi kino ki te hoko ki a ratou. E kore e ratou tika tetahi kino ki te hoko ki a ratou. Kua whakatuwheratia ratou e koe ki runga ki te mau mana'o i whakaaro koutou kihai i te tīariari, a te reira atu whakamiharo atu ake ake i taea e koutou i whakaaro ai. Ki te waiata rite ratou koe tīmata whiwhi. E kore koe e matau, tika ai te mea i te tīmatanga o te whakahaere. A, ki te mea, whaiāipo, na te mea. Ko te koa te tiki koe i te ara ongo'i koe e pā ana ki a ratou hira ake tetahi o te tukino ia (ranei wairangi e tata ana!) e mana'o koutou no te mea kahore e taea e koutou i a ratou. Na fele kua whakaraerae me te ngaro i roto i te mea katoa e pā ana ki a ratou he pea te ara matua hiahia mohio koe, e te ite e, e hoatu ki a koe ake o koutou moe katoa ki te ki a ratou. Whakaaro ahau e te paha e founga e ahau i mohio no te mea au rawa hao, me te mea whakamutunga e hiahia ana ahau ki te kia here iho taitamariki, engari ki te hiahia ia i hinaaro i ahau hoki, a hinaaro ia ki te noho iho mohio ahau i te wa e pai ai ahau mo ia e mohio ana ahau ki e kore e meatia e ahau mo nga tangata katoa.

Korero Mō auau

Ko te tetahi fifi teie no te mahi koe i tenei e pā ana ki te iwi i a koe pehanga i runga i rawa engari ko te reira i te take i roto i i roto i te aroha rawa. Ko te tika e te reira i roto i te tua ki ētahi atu āhuatanga i runga i tenei rārangi, ina koe i roto i te aroha rite te ātete ki i anga nga. Te haamana'o nei au korero i te rota ki toku tuahine e pā ana ki te taata i ahau i roto i te aroha ki. Kihai i korerotia e ahau ki a ia, engari i mohio ia. Ia uru i ia tau i muri i te mea e kore ahau i taea e tutaki-ake e pā ana ki te pehea faahiahia ko ia, me pehea rorirori ko ia, me pehea ahua ko ia, me pehea hiahia ngā ia i ahau, te tetahi whakamā, i roto i te kōrero.

Kua Neke atu i te hari e ratou i rō koe Attention

Ae, Ka taea e te tiki e koe rawa hari i te tahi taata rerehua whakaatu koe i tetahi ahua o te whakarongo, engari ka aroha koutou te tangata te mea nui atu i taua. Mana'o te reira i te bit rite ki te hononga. I roto i to ratou ora korero ratou ki a koutou! Nei tangi te bit pouri, engari he mea maori, ka aroha koutou te tangata no te mea e kite e koe a ratou rite tino wahi e kore ai koe e kite koe rite haohaoa. A, no ka whakahua ana e ratou tou ingoa, he rite te tangi ki te himene. Ka rite ki te mea tino whakamiharo kua tonu koutou rongo. A, no ka mea ahau hononga taea e te mea he hononga whaiāipo taea, engari ki te mea, whaiāipo, Ka taea e te mea he hononga auhoaraa. Ko te mea ki te kore ratou e aroha koutou hoki ko engari aroha koe ki a ratou e hiahia ana tonu koe ia ratou i roto i to outou oraraa i roto i te tahi mau aravihi, e te reira tuwhera ki te tautohetohe ranei e riro e te āhuatanga hauora i roto i te ao nei, engari te reira tino e founga te kare te tangata i te mahi tākaro.

A te hiahia

He he hiahia hohonu ki te hei i roto i to ratou ropu, me ka whakaaro koutou e kore ai e kite koe ia ratou i ano ki reira he tenei e ongo kau roto. He mea fakamamahi tino. Na he torutoru inu, ki te whai koe i, riro te reira kino. Tīmata koe karanga. Na koutou kihai pea e ite rite taua i runga i te kuru. Ko te te kore haere i te mana'o kau o kahore ia ratou i roto i to outou oraraa, a kia rite ki to outou ora mana'o ki te kia tino, kahore ratou. Ka rite ki te mea he hawhe te ora. Nga mea katoa e kore e mahu'inga te whakatutuki koe. Ko whiwhi koutou i roto i taua. Ko te he huarahi roa, engari e haere mai ai koutou i roto i te tahi atu taha.


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