Romance, He mana'o ranei tetahi mea ki matou E?

Ki te titiro koe ki runga ki te kupu 'romance' i roto i te papakupu kua whakarārangitia te reira rite e rua he noun, me te kupumahi! Na te aha rite he romance?

Ahau e taea e mahara hoki ki te wa ka whakamahia e ahau ki te tino uaua i roto i te whanaungatanga i aroha, Ko ahau ki te ex ngā, i te tamata ia tatou ki te 'whakaora' to tatou auraa e mate, na faaoti matou e, e farii tatou i te 'te po rā' i ia wiki. Kahore he mea he ki taua whakaaro, i roto i te meka he 'te po rā' wiki ko te tahi mea e te faaitoito mātātoa ahau toku kiritaki ki te mahi, Heoi he aha mahara ahau e pā ana ki tenei hononga ngā ko e kihai i mahu'inga'a e founga maha rā tatou i haere i runga i, te romance e kore hoki ka haere mai! Ke to tatou mau mana'o i. A na hanga ana e ia tino kore rerekētanga te aha kia tonu te tini noho matou puta noa i te tepu i ia te tahi i roto i te horopaki o whaiāipo, i reira ko tonu kahore he maumahara hoki matou i roto i tenei āhuatanga ngā.

Na, faahoho'a tenei e kore e taea e koutou e faahepo romance.

E whakaatu ana te reira e taea te mahi tahi e koe nga mea, e e kōrero iwi maha ki te rite 'whaiāipo', Engari, ki te kahore e reira te mau mana'o i muri i te mau ohipa na te reira tino e kore e ite tino aroha i te katoa, i roto i te meka e taea e ite i te reira rite kukume niho. Kia koe tonu e noho ana ki te ha taha i teiti koe i runga i te kai i roto i a te reira e kore e tika i ite tika? I akaaka Kōrerorero me te tuke, ranei pea reira ko te mānukanuka me te mana'o kino i roto i te rangi. A, no te ko te take tenei e kore e mahu'inga'a e founga whaiāipo kei te mahi koutou i te tautuhinga i te mahi ranei, e kore e rite ki noa ake ki te 'romance'. I te Flipside ano e taea te whakaaro e ahau o taime i mea ai ahau i nga mea ki te kore te aroha i katoa i tika, rite e haere ana i roto i te vari i roto i to tatou mau wellies i roto i te ua, a heoi te reira tonu ongo'i whaiāipo, no te mea o te mau mana'o, me te hononga faaite i ahau ki taua tangata.

Kia pehea te e pā ana ki te hunga faaipoipo nei e kite ngatahi koutou i roto i te hunga e kua āta i te tautohe - me pehea whaiāipo ka to ratou ahiahi e? Pea i taea te ora i te reira, ki te i te tahi mea whaiāipo i whawhati i te huka tio tetahi o ratou, a nā ano te mau mana'o here. I roto i te meka e kore e mea ratou e nehenehe e sex hanga-ake, kia wera? (Tūtohu haere ahau hoki toku kiritaki wahine mō ngā hononga i reira ki te aroha me te he rite te ngākau, nui atu i te wera me te makariri).

Ka rite ki te wahine e taea e ahau te rarā i mo te meka e ka haere te tangata i te huarahi roa ki te o te tahi mea whaiāipo hoki tona wahine, te nui te reira maioha, ara, ki te pea i anake teiti i te wahine i mea te tangata ka mea, a heoi kihai ia tino e pā ana ki ia, whänui korero tatou wahine mauruuru tohu aroha. Heoi ara i roto i tenei tauira i te i runga i te tihi, Ka taea e hiahiatia tohu aroha e fiemālie rawa, na kei hea te rārangi?

Eaha te romance te auraa ki a koutou? He mea tika i roto i te katoa ngā āhuatanga, me te ki te kahore he aha e kore e? Taea te whakamahi i te reira ki te whakaora me te hanga i te whanaungatanga ranei ki te whakakā i te aroha te weriweri, me te? E ngā pātai ki te ui enei.

Ko te tino i te tautohe o te rua taha. Fakatāutaha ahau parau atu e, romance he ongo, e taea te kawea mai i runga i te taha i te mahi he raupapa o ngā mahi ranei. Hei tauira, ki te mahere taku tahu, he rā pai mo tatou, a ka haere ia ki te kaha ki te hopu i ahau i roto i, whakaatu ranei ia ki runga i te kāinga ki te paihere nui o te puawai hoki ahau, Ka tīmata i te whakautu whaiāipo roto o ahau tenei. Ka ite e ahau he ara tetahi, a ka e ahau faaite i taua ki a ia. Ka mauruuru e ahau i mea ai ia te mea, a ka meinga e te reira ahau e ite pai, me te malimali. Tenei, i roto i te tahuri, ka meinga ia e ite pai.

Heoi he aha te mea tino pārekareka ki ahau ko e tatou i te wahine i te aravihi no te hanga mana'o aroha no tatou iho katoa e tatou! Eaha te ahau te tikanga e tenei, ko e taimi te wahine ako ki te tika 'e' i roto i a ia maeneene, pūngao vahine, Ka taea e ia ite whaiāipo, ara, ki te kahore he tangata hakari. Ka taea e tēnei ongo te tutuki te whakamahi i te pati wera, kānara, ki te mirimiri aromatherapy, whakakakahuria i roto i te kakahu ataahua, me te i roto i te maha atu ara. Na e tenei hanga te tangata hira? Kaua e, rawa ki te anga ke, Mana'o nei au e, no te e taea fakamolū te wahine, me te wheako ongo whaiāipo, tenei iriti i te wāhi mo te ki a ia mauruuru ia te tangata, ina e ia te tahi mea e tānaki ki tenei ongo.

Ki te matau ana koe ki toku huarahi ki te teití ka mohio koutou e whakapono ahau i roto i te huru tane, me te wahine tūranga pūngao i roto i te hononga, na mo te wahine wahine kihai ahau i pai kia whakaaro 'te mahi' mea whaiāipo mo tona tangata, heoi whiwhi ki te wāhi whaiāipo o 'mana'o' me 'te', a ka te faaiteraa e ki e taea tona tangata e ataahua. Te reira au hoki ki tona hiahia ki te kia tautāne, me te pai i tona wahine i te raveraa i te mau mea no te ia e hanga ia oaoa. Ki te mea ko koe tetahi wahine, a e hiahia ana koe ake maumahara i roto i to outou auraa tūtohu ahau te tamata tenei. A, ki te mea ko te tangata koe, e hiahia ana koe ki te 'riro' i te wahine e teiti koe, kawea mai ranei i te weriweri hoki ki te hononga kei tēnei wā i roto ia koutou, Ahau fokotu'u 'te mahi' te tahi whaiāipo mo ia, ki te wairua pono o te maumahara i muri i te mahi!

Kia ngahau.

Julie.


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