5 Zikhulupiriro Zabodza Zokhudza chibwenzi kuti aliyense akuganiza oona

Kuyambira sitcoms kuti chikondi comedies kuti nkhani mabwenzi, ife tonse tikudziwa ena konsekonse-anavomereza zokhudza chibwenzi. Komabe, monga sayansi ambiri a “choonadi” akulakwitsa. Choncho muzindikira zochepa za chibwenzi kuposa inu ndinaganiza munachita, mpaka pano.

Bodza #1: Opanga masewera kusungulumwa anamwali.
Kudzera Hollywood, ife tonse tikudziwa “nerdy Gamer sanayambe akhuya boob” stereotype. Koposa, tikamva mawu Gamer, timakonda kuganiza kwambiri wochepa thupi kapena mafuta munthu amene chibwenzi tichipeza Xbox chats kunachitika kholo lawo chapansi. Malinga ndi sayansi, awa nerdy opanga masewera ena amakhala kupita kokacheza kuposa sanali opanga masewera. Zambiri, ndi kukula Masewero msika kuwonjezera pa kuwuka mu oswerera angapo masewera, Masewero kwenikweni kukhala otchuka ayezi ichidachi. Komanso, tiyeni musaiwale za pakompyuta kumene anthu anakumana nafunsirana.

Bodza #2: Online chibwenzi si njira yomalizira, koma zimakhala amakopa otayika.
Mwatsoka, chifukwa wosimidwa malonda khama kuwonjezera onama Mbiri, Intaneti chibwenzi walowa zoipa rap kwa zaka. Childs, m'maganizo mwathu iwo anadza monga otsiriza dzenje pofuna kupeza moyo wanu kapena mkazi; Komabe, awa maganizo akulakwitsa. Pakhala posachedwapa maphunziro amene asonyeza kuti wina zisanu pachibwenzi malo Intaneti kupeza moyo wawo naye pa Intaneti. Komanso, 94% anthu amene analenga chibwenzi pa Intaneti adzapita pa tsiku lachiwiri, amene ali kuposa kuchuluka kwa anthu amene kukumana offline. N'chifukwa chiyani zimenezi zili? Chifukwa Intaneti chibwenzi ndi kudzera pa kompyuta, anthu amangolankhula wachilungamo ndi upfront ngati ali “kuyankhula kwa kompyuta”. Ukaganizira, kodi litulukira wanu guts munthu inu anakumana ku kapamwamba? Chinthu chachikulu chifukwa Intaneti tsiku ndi loti kudzikonda opatsa ndipo ayamba wotchuka. Mwayi kuti mukapeza munthu amene wanu womwewo zokonda kwambiri.

Bodza #3: Mu ubale, akazi kukhudzika ndi anthu n'zomveka.
Ife tonse aona zambiri mafilimu ndipo ikusonyeza kuti mlandu akazi akuphulikira kulira pa mnyamata kapena mofufuza ubale wawowo pamene munthu akuoneka ngati sakudziŵa ndi suave pamene nthawizonse kupambana mkazi mtima. Science limanena kuti amuna kwambiri maganizo anakhudzidwa ndi ubwenzi sewero kusiyana ndi akazi, iwo basi satchula izo. Akazi ambiri amakonda kukhala ndi kugwirizana kwambiri achibale ndiponso anzawo n'cholinga zambiri kuwalimbikitsa makamaka pankhani munthu vuto. Anyamata amakonda basi zakukhosi anzawo kupanga nkhondo chofunika kwambiri pa iwo.

Bodza #4: Feminism amapha chibwenzi.
Ndi stereotype kuti feminists ali paokha akazi amene safuna ubwenzi kapena munthu kuti amalize iwo strung mu mibadwo yambiri, ndi cholakwika kwenikweni. Women amene amadziona feminists ndi zambiri mu heterosexual ubwenzi. Anthu amene ali m'banja ndi womenyera ufulu amayi anenapo kuti kugonana moyo chosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa anthu amene sali. Choncho pamene feminists ali ambiri amaziona ngati flannel, mannish akazi kuti kwenikweni sizili choncho.

Bodza #5: Mabanja amene amakhala limodzi asanakwatirane okonzeka.
Society wasamuka kuchoka chakuti mwamuna ndi mkazi kutenga malo pamodzi wamoyo mu uchimo. Koma masiku ano zimakhala bwino. Zikuoneka zomveka kukakhala ndi wanu kwambiri zina musanasankhe malamulo kudzipereka zimene kukathera ku kusudzulana. Tiyeni uku, mungapeze ngati Mr. Pomwe alidi Mr. Pomwe. Malinga ndi sayansi, mabanja omwe ankakhala limodzi asanakwatirane kapena chinkhoswe ndi apamwamba kusudzulana kugunda pansi m'banja wokhutira. Mabanja amene amagwira nyumba pamaso chinkhoswe kwambiri wathedwa ngati izo kuyesa ubwenzi wawo. Ngati mukuona ngati amayesa mnzanuyo ndiye mwayi ali simuli ndi ufulu wina. Chinthu china chimene kubwera mu sewero ndi chiphunzitso cha yothetsa. Banja, masiku ano, kuchitira moyo pamodzi sitepe ina mu chibwenzi ndondomeko. Atangotuluka kuyamba moyo pamodzi, iwo amaona kuti zosatheka kuti awononge monga ndalama ndi maganizo iwo akhazikika.

Ndipo apo inu muli, tsopano inu mukudziwa zambiri zokhudza chibwenzi.


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