Chibwenzi – Kodi Sabotaging Nokha?

"Ine ndimadana naye pachibwenzi" ndi ndemanga ndikumva anga akazi makasitomala kaŵirikaŵiri. Izi maganizo kwa chibwenzi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu kuti akazi osakwatiwa kukhala 'Anapitirizabe' ndi limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali. Ambiri mwa akazi ine inadza wanga wotsogolera kuchita njira chibwenzi ndi kwathunthu yolakwika maganizo anapereka, kutanthauza kuti njira ankayandikira chibwenzi kwenikweni sabotages mpata chokumanako moyo okondedwa awo.

Koma maganizo ndi kwathunthu n'zomveka. Ife tonse kumeneko, 'Kukakamiza' tokha kuti pa masewera, kusainira kwa Intaneti chibwenzi Intaneti, trawling mwa mauthenga amene nthawi zina khungu kukwawa, Nthawi zambiri kwa amuna okwatira ndi wina undesirables, ndipo kenako kupereka munthu mwayi chifukwa iye amayang'ana zabwino. Making kukhudzana, kucheza pambuyo ndi patsogolo, mwina kuyambira kupeza kukulowa chidwi - akuoneka zabwino, iye ndithu cadidi m'zithunzi ndipo pali yotsimikizika kugwirizana. Kotero inu kukonza msonkhano. Ndinu wamanjenje, mumathera zambiri nthawi ndi mphamvu kukonzekera, mumadzifunsa ngati akupanga kulakwitsa, koma inu khama, kukokera pa chikhotho, kupita chisanu ndi kupita kulikonse (nthawi zambiri maola ochepa ngakhale) kukakumana wanu tsiku. Mukumvera anasangalala tsopano, Ndipotu iye akanakhoza kukhala 'amene'.

Ndiyeno inu kumuona! Mtima wanu akutsikira chifukwa iye amayang'ana kanthu monga zithunzi, Ndipotu iye ndi 'Shrek' kuposa 'Becks'. Iye awiri mainchesi lalifupi kwambiri kuposa iye anati iye anali, ndi zithunzi anali mwachionekere anatenga zaka zingapo zapitazo kuweruza ndi owonjezera kulemera ndi osiyana alibe tsitsi! Koma inu ofooka mtima 'amayesetsa' kumupatsa mpata, Ine ndikutanthauza inu ndinachokera kuno! Pali za mochuluka nyese ngati mukufuna kumva ndi soggy kabichi ndi inu nthawi yomweyo kuyamba akukonzekera kuthawa kwanu. Koma simufuna kukhala mwano chotero inu kukhala mwa mozunzika ola womangika, aulemu nkhani za kanthu mochuluka, ndipo nthawi zonse mwangoyamba kuyabwa kuti achoke. Kugwirizana kuti anali kumeneko Intaneti ndi poti kuonedwa ndi inu momveka onse maganizo omangika. Pamene inu kuchoka mu mvula inu mukudabwa chifukwa inu anakhala nthawi, ndalama komanso khama inu mnzake tsiku ndi inu tikubwerera kwathu kumverera anakhumudwa kwambiri ndi mwamphamvu mizu pokhulupirira kuti basi si iliyonse yabwino amuna kunja uko kwa inu! N'zosadabwitsa akazi kwanidwa.

Chibwenzi ndingathere zokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo n'zosavuta kuti demotivated. Iwo amamva kukhetsa ngakhalenso mtima wrenching kupita pa chingwe ya zipatso ndi anthu amene mukuona kuti palibe mphanvu ndi, ndipo chiyembekezo chako chokumanako bwenzi kumugwetsera mobwerezabwereza. Pali chiopsezo Mukupanikizika Chifukwa cha Ntchito pamene mukuchita zambiri chibwenzi ndi akazi ena akhoza kwambiri amakayikira ngakhalenso jaded. Izi sinditi kuthandiza vuto konse chifukwa pamene iye ali wopanikizika, limodzi mkazi mosavuta kuphonya iye Mr Ufulu palimodzi pamene iye anabwera motsatira.

Kodi inu mukudziwa kuti amayi ambiri satero kwenikweni zapamwamba munthu kenako kupita pa kukwatiwa pamene woyamba kukumana naye? Chidwi! Kafukufuku wa posachedwapa ku The Daily News pafupifupi padziko 22% okwatirana kukumana mwa ntchito. Imeneyi si ngozi – Chifukwa chakuti kukopa amaloledwa kumanga mwachibadwa, popita nthawi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri ndi zambiri munthu kuti sibwenzi anapatsidwa mwayi mukadakhala naye pa Intaneti, chinachake kukumbukira pamene inu sifting mwa machesi.

Kotero chiyani ndiye chosintha zimenezi maganizo za chibwenzi?

Chabwino Ndipotu losavuta kusintha kosangalatsa angandikhululukire ndi zonse zofunika kusintha lonse zinachitikira chibwenzi nokha kuti atha kuyambitsa mosangalala, ndipo ukhoza kuitana kwanu munthu imakwera mwansanga. Ngati amai akhoza kuyamba kuonera chibwenzi monga 'zosangalatsa mchitidwe'Iwo adzakhala zambiri kupambana, ndi iwo adzakhala ndi njira zambiri. Choncho zimene ndendende 'zosangalatsa mchitidwe'Amatanthauza?

Izi TOP MUNGACHITE angakuuzeni mmene ntchito 'kusangalala kuchita ' njira bwino.

1. Kusiya charo.

Musaganize kuti ndi angathe moyo okondedwa, m'malo monga kupezeka mu kamphindi ndi watsopano ndi chidwi iye. Ndi chabe tsiku – palibe lonjezo la ubwenzi kapena ukwati - izo zangokhala khofi, kapena miyendo kapena chirichonse chimene mukuchita pamodzi. Phindu apa ndi ziwiri, Choyamba kudzatenga zonse kuthamanga kutali, moti mungathe onse asangalale, ndipo adzamvera kuti. Ambiri anthu abwino ndi amanjenje pa poyamba tsiku ndi musati zikuchitika pa amayesetsa, Komabe izi zidzathandiza kuti munthuyo amasuke. Kachiwiri inu mufika amachita kucheza anthu amene iwe, kutanthauza kuti kudzidalira akupita, ndipo pamene 'anu man' limasonyeza mmwamba ndinu woyenera chifukwa mwakhala 'masoka'.

2. Kusunga masiku koyamba kakafupi.

Savomereza chakudya masiku yoyamba ochepa masiku chifukwa motalika yocheza ndi munthu simukudziwa. Ola limodzi nthawi zambiri yocheza loyamba angapo misonkhano. Short ndi impactful ndi chimene ife pano. Izi zingathandize kuletsa Mukupanikizika Chifukwa cha Ntchito kwambiri pamene muli pachibwenzi anthu angapo nthawi imodzi pachiyambi.

3. Musati kulankhula Intaneti ndi anthu amene amakhala kutali kwambiri kuchokera kwa inu.

Izi amapulumutsa ndi mphamvu zambiri ndi mavuto. Ndi ulamuliro tsiku lokhali anthu wamba kwa inu (mwa ola limodzi kuyenda mtunda pamwamba). Ambiri Intaneti malo ndi mbali mungapezeko yeretsani anu zotsatira yekha monga anthu mkati mtunda wina. Kumbukirani inu musati muzindikira wina kufikira nawo ku munthu, kotero amakonda kugwirizana Intaneti kuti palibe mukakumana maso ndi maso. Inenso amalimbikitsa munthu woyendayenda kwa mkazi madeti.

4. Asangalale ndi kusangalala ndi tsiku. Sangalalani!

Chenjerani – zimenezi sizikutanthauza kumwa mowa truckload! Ngakhale ndichita kumvetsa chifukwa chake anthu ngati kumwa madzi tsiku loyamba ndi bwino kupewa palimodzi kapena asasiye chimodzi loyamba tsiku kotero kuti inu mukhoza kukhala bwino kwenikweni mutu ndi kuona mmene mukumvera pa chaka, popanda mowa kupereka zinthu duwa kulocha. M'malo yesani kupeza kumvetsa kuti iye, aliyense ali chinthu!

5. Kumupatsa mwayi.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti iye afika lachiwiri tsiku pompempha wina, malinga inu otetezeka naye. Inu Kumupatsa mwayi ngakhale simungathe anakopeka naye. Inde KWAMBIRI! Izi ndi mbali yofunika kwambiri kwa ndondomekoyi, makamaka kwa amayi omwe ali ndi chitsanzo cha zoipa ubale ndi kunyamula anthu amene si zabwino kwa iwo.

6. Tiyeni iye kutsogolera

Zonsezi ndi mbali ya wanga chonse njira akazi amene akufunafuna wosangalala ubwenzi. Kuti adzachite ndi munthu kupempha yachiwiri deti, ngati pali mmodzi. Inenso ochirikiza kuti amalipira chifukwa chimathandiza kukhazikitsa ubale wamphamvu molondola, ngakhale Ine ndikuzindikira kuti izi ndi maganizo kwa anthu ena. Madona mukufuna kuti romanticized pomwe?

7. Amachita kuona mtima za mmene akumvereramo.

Pamene muli pa madeti ndi anthu mupangidze ndimwe ndipo inu mukuti mmene mukumvera, ngakhale ngati zovuta kutero poyamba. Choncho ngati mukuona wotopetsa / mantha / anangotsika / chidwi / kusangalala mungathe kuonetsera kuti. Osati mu njira bitchy, womasuka ndi woona mtima njira. Izi terrifies akazi ena, ndipo inu kudabwa kuona mmene abambo ambiri muzigwira awo stride ndi kuzindikira kuona mtima. Kuphatikiza izo njira yopezera weniweni, woonamtima kulankhulana, ndipo iye mayankho omwe ndi golide mwayi kwa iye kusintha ndi kupita apo nyama yake kwa inu (ngati iye akuganiza Ndinu ofunika izo – mukugawana).

8. Aulemu, chidwi ndi aulemu.

Inu amaganiza iye anu abwino munthu koma iye anabwera kwa inu ndipo kuchitira inu kuti tsiku, ndipo lidziwe kuyamikira.

 

Chibwenzi imeneyi osati kukuthandizani kuti muzisangalala kwambiri, koma kumathandizanso kuti muzikhala 'ubwenzi minofu' chifukwa udzapeza kuchita kukhala wekha (wamphamvu, chosalimba mkazi) kuzungulira amuna enieni. Ndipo pamene mukuchita zonse ako munthu kusonyeza pamene inu m'pang'ono izo!

Awa pamwamba nsonga pachibwenzi komanso kuona mmene chibwenzi zinachitikira kwathunthu amasintha.


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