Chibwenzi Etiquette

Wanga wamwamuna anzanga ankandinena kuti kamodzi analembedwa pa mtsikana amene anabwera kuledzera loyamba tsiku ndi anayamba kusanza paliponse pa iye! Ngakhale Mwamwayi ine sanaone kuti ine ndikutsimikiza tonse anali madeti kuti anali m'chigwa owopsya, kumene munthu anachita chinthu kwathunthu osayenera ndipo inu ankafuna nthaka kutsegula ndi kumeza inu lonse. Ndipo ine ndine wokongola zedi tonse wathu chilungamo cholowa cha chinathetsedwa pa nthawi yomaliza ngakhalenso mwina pokhala anaimirira. Kuphatikiza ife onse anamva mantha nkhani za woyamba masiku akupita cholakwika. Choncho zimene zatuluka cholakwika ndi zochitika zimenezi ndipo zingatheke bwanji kupeŵa. Iwo onse zidzafika ku tiwiri mawu 'chibwenzi zodyera'.

Kodi chibwenzi zodyera? Chabwino ine ndikuganiza za izo monga ya mumtima malangizo amene kulola chibwenzi zinachitikira kupita bwino ndiponso kukhala yosangalatsa kwa anthu okhudzidwa. N'zoona kuti sitingadziwe kulamulira zimene munthu wina amachita, kotero ife tikhoza kusankha kukhala udindo kwa athu athu makhalidwe, ndipo ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati asankha kuchitira wina bwino ndi ulemu chibwenzi zodyera ndiye tidzakhala kwambiri kosangalatsa ndi manageable zinachitikira chibwenzi tokha. Kuphatikizapo kukhala ndi mndandanda wa khalidwe tokha angathandize anatikoya.

Chibwenzi zodyera zikuphatikizapo zinthu ngati kuitana, kangati inu uthenga mnzake, ngati inu anayankha kuti uthenga uliwonse ndi foni, timings ndi chochedwa kwa masiku, zimene amavala, Kodi inu kukambirana kwanu tsiku, pamene kuti thupi, koma ambiri Chofunika momwe mumasamalira wina ndi momwe mungayembekezere kuchitiridwa. Monga inu mukuziwona izo chimakwirira ndithu osiyanasiyana mbali ndi zina mukhoza pang'ono othetsa ndi zosokoneza. Kuphatikiza mudzapeza kuti anthu onse a maganizo osiyanasiyana kodi ndi ndikolakwika khalidwe pankhani chibwenzi, ndipo chinthu chabwino kuchita ndicho kulenga anu ya malangizo amene ntchito kwa inu, ndipo musapitirire iwo. Mukakhala kwenikweni kupita kunja uko ndi chibwenzi munthu wina mungathe panthawi ina cholowa chanu malangizo nawo ngati inu kusankha, ndi kukambirana kwa onetsetsani kuti onse wosangalala komanso mogwirizana ndi mmene chibwenzi wina ndi mnzake mwachilungamo. Zimenezi zimaphatikizapo okwana kuona mtima ndi enaake kukhwima kwa onse. Ine ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati anthu anachita izi zambiri zambiri kusweka mtima kuti kupewedwa.

Choyamba Komabe, kuona chibwenzi zodyera kwa inu. Pamene ife kuchita zinthu timamva bwino za timayamba kuvomereza wathu komanso ulemu ndi kudzidalira kukula mu uzimu.

Mwachitsanzo mukhoza kusankha kuti ndi aulemu kuti munthu inu madeti kamodzi kudziwa ngati inu sinditi iwo kachiwiri, kapena mungasankhe kuti Sikuti. Ngati ndinu mkazi mungasankhe kuti simungathe kugonana pa tsiku loyamba chifukwa Cholinga inu bwino kudikira mpaka inu mudziwe bwino. Kapena mukhale nawo kwambiri mmene popeza anali akudikira kokacheza kapena za mauthenga kubwezeredwa. Awa onse kugwa pansi 'chibwenzi zodyera'.

Pano pali wokongola muyezo malangizo anthu ambiri kutsatira mbali ya chibwenzi zodyera:

  • Khalani pa nthawi madeti
  • Musaime munthu lomaliza miniti
  • Musakhale kwenikweni atamwa pa tsiku loyamba
  • Musati amathera usiku wonse kulankhula za wanu wakale (yawn)
  • Kuvala chinachake bwino kuti tsiku mukupita pa
  • Kodi sinthawi kuyembekezera kugonana pa tsiku loyamba

Ndipotu anthu ambiri amangomutcha pamwambapa ulemu. Komabe ena pang'ono intricacies pachibwenzi zodyera kuchita zambiri za dera imvi. Choncho nthawi ndikuganiza kwenikweni za m'dera lililonse la chibwenzi ndi kusankha wanu malamulo ndi malangizo kwa aliyense. Inu mukhoza kuzipangitsa kuwatsatira kuti inu simutero tsiku anthu amene kuima inu lomaliza miniti, kapena kuti inu simutero tsiku akazi amene ali kumapeto. Mungasankhe zisathe Mini masiketi pa tsiku ngati ndinu mkazi chifukwa mukufuna kupereka kwambiri apamwamba kwambiri. Njira zofunika kuzitsatazi adzakhala monga wapadera monga muli ndi chinthu chofunika kuti bwino zimene ndi zabwino kwa inu ndi chinthu chovomerezeka kwa inuyo panokha.

Kodi inuyo kwayekha munthu wina chinachake inu sindimakonda? Mumatani pamene munthu aswa wanu malamulo? Monga tanenera kale sitingathe kulamulira mmene winawake khalidwe kapena kuti tikufuna. Motero kwa inu chimene inu muli okonzeka kulandira ndi kumene mudzayandikira mzere. Mwachitsanzo ngati wanu malangizo ndi kuti simukufuna kuti anali kuyembekezera tsiku, ndipo muli munthu amene ali kumapeto, lanu loyamba mpaka kuyitana ndi kuwalola iwo mmene mukumvera za. Mukhoza kuchita zimenezo si mlandu, mosapita m'mbali mwa kungonena nawo mmene mukumvera ndi kuti si chinachake chimene inu mukufuna mu pachibwenzi. Koma nanga bwanji ngati mobwerezabwereza kuwoloka mzere wanu? Chabwino muyenera kuganizira momwe otsimikiza kuti mzere ndi inu. Ngatidi wakulakwirani ndi inu simungakhoze kulekerera khalidwe ndiye kuti munthu chabe sizidzakhala zabwino zoyenera inu. Pambuyo nawo mmene mukumvera ngati iwo kuchita izo inu mwina muyenera izo zipite mosangalala ndi zosinthika anu mfundo nokha, kapena muyenera anawamasula. Umu ndi momwe inu kudalira anthu nokha wako malire.

Taonani kuti waukulu gawo, mu nkhaniyi ine anatchula 'malangizo' osati 'malamulo'. Ichi ndi chifukwa ine ndikuganiza n'kofunika kuti ena kusinthasintha ndi nokha mwa mawu a experimenting ndi kuona zimene akuona bwino kwa inu ndi ndithudi osavomerezedwa. Pamene mukupitiriza ndi kusintha munthu kotero kwambiri mphamvu malingaliro anu za chibwenzi. Nthawizonse khalani wololera, Komabe mukatha zinayenda zabwino kwa inu iliyonse ine zikusonyeza kum'mamatira anu malire ndi chibwenzi zodyera. Pamene tiswa zathu malangizo nthawi zonse akubwerera kuluma ife.

Odala chibwenzi!


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