Chibwenzi ZIMENE The wamanyazi, Womangika Munthu

Madeti kungakhale mavuto aliyense koma makamaka ngati mukupita pa chibwenzi ndi zodabwitsa munthu amene inu mukumkondadi kudziwa koma ndinu wamanyazi ndi womangika. Nthawi zambiri chinachake chimene analekerera. Aliyense basi assumes kuti mungathe kupeza olimba mtima kapena "munthu" kapena "mkazi" koma munthu wamanyazi ndi zovuta Ine umboni kuti simungakhale zosavuta.

Iwo ali ambiri kuipa monga sangakhoze kudziwa munthu, anali kwambiri pa m'mphepete kuposa munthu wina adzakhala pa tsiku ndi mwina akumanidwa kugwirizana kuti akanatha mutakhala tiyeni weniweni inu. Kumene kuli phindu kwa izo chifukwa ngati munthu amayikondabe inu ndiye iwo ndi kuyesetsa ndiye inu kuti umandisangalatsadi. Ndipotu tikukhala amazipanga amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri dziko ndi kuti mayendedwe sikumangotanthauza zimachitika pantchito yathu miyoyo. Amamuchititsa phompho mu m'miyoyo yathu kwambiri koma ngati munthu amayikondabe iweyo kanthu liti zimafunika kuti woo inu.

Ine ndilankhula mu chidutswa zimene tingachite bwino mmene timafika pa tsiku koma ine ndine pansi Musanyengedwe, ndipo ine sindikufuna kuika wina aliyense zivute mwina, zimenezi pang'onopang'ono njira imene tifunika ntchito ndi ndithudi sadzakhala wangwiro usiku.

Timavala kufotokoza Inu

Ichi ndi nsonga amene angachite bwino munthu aliyense kapena mkazi zikuchitika tsiku ndi o-wakuti wotentha wamwamuna! Koma chofunika kwambiri pamene ndinu wamanyazi, womangika munthu. Ndipotu timasonyeza amene tili mwa zimene ife kuvala kaya ndi eccentric kapena kuposa demure ndipo ngati mumavutika kulankhula yemwe inu muli kudzera mawu ndiye momwe iwe wavalira chingatithandize kuika kudutsa kwa munthu mukhoza kunena mawu. For example if you dress in quite an eccentric manner it could display without saying anything that you are a Lady Gaga fan or that you are quite spontaneous and fun. Nthawizonse muzikumbukira kuti azivala momwe inu mukuona wekha osati mmene mukuganizira wake wangwiro mkazi kapena munthu kuvala. N'zosavuta kugwa mu msampha. Ndili ndekha. Ngakhale mu gulu la amuna amene ine fancied ine atavala mmene ndikumvera akufuna ine kuvala chifukwa ine ndikufuna kuti ndikatha koma kuopsa kuti ndi kuti ngakhale kuti anthuwo ngati inu iwo kusafuna kapena kusakonda inu inu makamaka ngati mukufuna zotheka moyo wautali izo kufikapo kuti aone zimene mukufuna kuvala chifukwa, ndicho mtundu wa kalembedwe mudzakhala kuvala nawo wanu moyo ubwenzi.

Kutenga chilango Pamene izo zifika

Mbali yaikulu ya anali wamanyazi ndi womangika ndi overthinking ndipo mukumva kwambiri kuti inu akuyenera kuima overthinking zinthu. Koma ngati kuti zinali zosavuta ndiye anthu ingochitani. Overthinking chinachake chimene amakhala anapatsa munthu koma zikhoza kuthetsedwa. Izo si zazing'ono ngati izo zonse kuzimiririka mwakamodzi. Muyenera kuchita izo pang'onopang'ono ndi mfundo za tsiku kutenga chilango ngati izo zifika. Yeserani kuti aganizire za tsiku kwambiri pasadakhale. Mumaganizira ndi zinthu zina monga zoimbaimba, kuwerenga, TV, mafilimu, popita nthawi. Chofunika ndi kungosiya m'maganizo mwanu kwambiri pa tsiku kuti kwambiri makhalidwe anu akudza pa tsiku chifukwa sitinakhale nayo nthawi kuganizira zonse zomwe zingachitike ndi mmene mungayankhire ndi zimene muyenera kufunsa.

Taganizirani Kodi Inu Kodi amamva bwanji ndi zimenezi Mu Zaka Teni

Kuganizira mmene adzamva za chinachake mu zaka khumi ndi zabwino kwambiri njira mumayesto kufunika kwa mkhalidwe. Yesani ndipo ganizirani ngati n'kofunika kwambiri ndi aakulu ngati inu mukuisandutsa kuti akhale. Nenani kuchita kulakwitsa, ndiye? Zidzakhala amadera nkhawa za kwa inu mu zaka khumi pamene mwina adzakhala anakumana ndi munthu wa maloto anu? Ngati munthu sangathe kunyalanyaza ochepa zolakwa ndiye Kodi mukufunadi kukhala nawo? Kuwonjezera iwo adzakhala mantha kwambiri ndipo ayenera ndipanga ochepa zolakwa okha ndi za moyang'anizana awo ndi kuyembekezera iwo kuiwala wanu. Inu simukufuna kukhala ndi munthu amene nthawi zonse tanthauzo inu pa zinthu zomwe chakuipa. Kodi adzakhala ndi moyo wotani kuti akhale Ndipotu?

Izi si zichitike usiku. Mwina ena chibwenzi achilengedwe kumene inu kuti mukhale pamenepo ndipo sanena. Koma zonse ziri za patsogolo. Kulowerera mu ambiri chikhalidwe zinthu ngati mungathe ndipo pa nthawi muzikhulupirira kulankhula adzasintha. Ndipo pamene inu muchita bwino munthu kweneko kabva ngati sadayesana kale pamodzi ndafooka malinga amenewo ndi pamene iye ali moyo wanu zonsezi nkhawa mmene zabwerera ndi mmene kutenga yaitali kupeza munthu chifukwa inu sangapange kuti kulumikizana mu njira ena akuoneka mosavuta kuchita kanthu. Ine ndikukhumba inu nonse mtima yabwino ya mwayi.


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