Chibwenzi ndi Wamng'ono mkazi 5 Easy Mapazi

The Funso
“Ndikufunafuna mng'ono mkazi koma amayi ambiri ndikufuna chibwenzi wina pafupi msinkhu wawo. Ndingatani?” – Zidakhwa

Today funso ndi yochokera kwa Owerenga amene akufuna kukhala mosaonetsera; timutche iye Bill. Werengani funsolo kachiwiri. Taonani mmene Bill kale kuti mng'ono wake amafuna sadzakhala chidwi munthu msinkhu wake. Izi zokha kukwaniritsa chikhulupiriro chimene pafupifupi sanalonjeze kuti akwaniritsidwa. Ngati inu mukukhulupirira pansi kuti inu kulephera, UDZAKHALADI.

Weniweniwo yankho.

Mwachidule, inde, mukhoza mwamtheradi kupeza mkazi wamng'ono ndiko kulondola kwa inu. Inu basi ayenera kuika chandamale, kanthu, ndipo kuthamanga mpikisanowu.

Kodi mungatani anayamba m'njira yoyenera?

Choyamba, tione pansi mkati ndi kulingalira ndendende chifukwa mukufuna kukumana mng'ono mkazi. Ndiyeno ganizirani zimene mkazi wangwiro udzakhalire. Fotokozani iye zambiri zomwe ndi zotheka inu akhoza. Ndiye, kulemba pa pepala. Lembani iye m'badwo, maonekedwe, makhalidwe, monga zokonda, amakonda ndi zimene sakonda, ndi zina. Mukakhala kuti anafotokoza mkazi wangwiro inu mwatsatanetsatane, pindani mmwamba kuti pepala kulinyamula ndi inu 1 Mlungu.

Yerekezani kuti inuyo kale naye. Mutani? Kodi mukulankhula za? Kodi upita? Akumvera ndi kulowa mu mtima wa icho — Kodi mumamva ali naye? Zonsezi zingaoneke zopusa, koma kodi mukudziwa kuti ndi chabe kulemba zimene mukufuna, inu mwayi wanu chotenga izo ndi 80%!

Tangoganizani wina kwa miniti…

“Mwambo wa kulemba chinachake pansi ndi sitepe loyamba kupanga izo zikuchitika.”

– Lee Iacocca

Social stigmas ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani mumam'konda?

Simunga. Yathu anthu mwadzaza chikhalidwe stigmas. Ife tiri otanganidwa kukhala nkhawa “ena angaganize” kuti ife ndife mantha kuchita zathu maloto. Inde, anthu ambiri amakonda pochitika chiweruzo ena, koma ndizo kusankha kwawo ndi ufulu wawo. Chifukwa izo ndi zazikulu nkhani tsiku lina, koma kwenikweni kosafunika kuno. Palibe wina angathe kudziwa zomwe ziri zolondola inu, choncho chifukwa kumvetsera iwo?

Munthu wanzeru alewa,

“Kodi munthu aliyense akuganiza za inu sizikukukhudzani”.

Kodi n'zoona kuti azimayi ambiri ndikufuna wina pafupi msinkhu wawo?
Izi kwathunthu zabodza! Dziwani, aliyense wa ife ali osiyana ndi wapadera n'zosiyana ndi zosowa. Cholinga chanu ndi limodzi mudziyang'ana kwambiri kupeza mkazi wangwiro kwa inu. M'nyengo.

5 zophweka nsonga kukopa ndi chibwenzi atsikana.

Atsikana nthawi zambiri anakopeka ndi makhalidwe kukhwima (ngati awo abambo), ndalama ndi apamwamba osauka, umuna, utsogoleri maluso, chidaliro, ndi modekha, kotero ndikofunika kuti kuika iliyonse ya makhalidwe amenewa muli nacho.

1) Mudzisunge.

Pamene akulu anyamata naye wamng'ono mkazi kawirikawiri wamanjenje ndi kuyamba kuchita kwenikweni lodabwitsa. Usachite zimenezi — ingokhalani nokha.

2) Kulisunga kuwala ndi osangalatsa.

Ankasewera. Sangalalani. Kunyoza wake. Iye sanaiwale zimene ziri ngati kusewera ndi goof kuzungulira. Iwo kodi ena bwino kukumbukira kuti kutenga moyo kwambiri. Khalani pang'ono wamisala ndipo asankhe zinthu achinyamata anyamata ambiri sangakwanitse kuchita. Chitani zomwezo. Sangalala.

3) Kukhala mtsogoleri. Kukhala munthu.

Wamng'ono akazi ayenera kufunafuna wina kuti azitsogolera. Iwo ali ndi mwayi wochepa m'moyo ndipo ayenera kufunafuna wina kuwasonyeza chimene chiri kunja uko. Anu tsiku ndi zina zolinga pasadakhale, koma kukhala tcheru ndi kufunsa maganizo a zolinga kuti inu mwapanga kale. (Iye akhoza kukhala matupi awo sagwirizana ndi chotchedwa sushi). Kukhala munthu, koma kulemekeza maganizo ake. Kutsegula zitseko, akuyenda kunja kwa zithetsedwe, ndi kukokera panja mipando ndi njira ina chachikulu kwambiri atsikana.

4) Kodi zinthu ngati “perv”.

Ambiri okongola atsikana kuti anagundidwa ndi ena opuwala, wosokonezeka akulu munthu. Musati muyesere kusamukira ku Mosakhalitsa kapena iye ndikuganiza inu mwangokhala “perv” kuyang'ana kulowa iye mathalauza. Pamene wanu yekha pamodzi, ndi bwino zokopera, koma tiyeni ake kuchita inu zowonjezera. Apo ayi mwina awawopsyeze ake.

5) Kumupatsa ena danga.

Atsikana N'kutheka nditangowuka kunja kholo lawo nyumba ndi ndondomeko kwambiri moyo ndi ziro ufulu. Ngati iye anakopeka inu, si chifukwa inu kachiwiri analengera padoko chilengedwe kuti angochoka… ndi chifukwa akuimira chinachake chosiyana. Kumupatsa ena danga. Kukhala munthu kuti iye nthawizonse analota za, ndiyeno kuthamangitsa wake. Iye kuti adze kwa inu.


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