N'chifukwa Chiyani Muyenera Yesani chibwenzi munthu amene si anu Mtundu

Konse nthawi pamene anzanu kapena achibale, ofunitsitsa iwe pa tsiku ndi munthu kudziwa, kufunsa zimene munthu wotani inu kupita?

Pafupifupi aliyense wolakwa izi ponena kuti mtundu wa mtundu kapena zokonda za mnzake.

Ndimamva anthu kulankhula za izi nthawi zonse: "Ine tsiku lokhali luso-mtundu anthu chifukwa ndine wojambula" kapena "Ndimaona kuti tsiku anthu ofanana ntchito m'minda monga ndekha."

Koma bwanji ngati inu moyang'anizana lalikulu nsomba chifukwa sizikugwirizana wanu "yabwino"?

Izi zingachitike mwachilungamo zambiri, makamaka ndi Intaneti chibwenzi. Inu inayake mbiri kuti limagwira diso lako, koma atawerenga awo ziwerengero inu mwamsanga tichoke chifukwa sakhalanso woyenera anu abwino naye mndandanda. Anu mtundu wamtali, akulu amuna koma mbiri limati iye yekha 5'6 "yekha amtengo chidwi thupi kapena mtundu ndi tsitsi, Kum'mawa kwa Ulaya ndi akazi iye ndi watsitsi labulawuni Australian. Kodi sinthawi kulemba munthu kutali chifukwa iwo mwamsanga amaoneka ngati machesi.

N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza muyenera chibwenzi ndi mtundu wa munthu?

Muyenera kukhazikitsa kugwirizana ndi munthu zochokera zofanana, zikhulupiriro ndi zolinga. Ngati inu kuganizira kwambiri kupeza kuti agwirizane malangizo mukufuna kutsatira pamene pachibwenzi, inu mukhoza kukhala sabotaging mungaonane pa zingakhale kumanga lalikulu ubwenzi.

Pamene inu Musalole kuti chibwenzi chanu mtundu, mukhoza kokha kubwereza zakale. Ngati inu madeti yofanana munthu kalelo zaka khumi ndi aliyense wa ubale kuti zinayenda, mwina muyenera kupendanso basi yekha chibwenzi chanu yochezera mtundu. Pamene inu chibwenzi yofanana munthu mobwereza bwereza, ubale kawirikawiri ali yemweyo mapeto zotsatira.

Chibwenzi ndi mtundu akhoza kukhala womasuka ndipo pazikhala. Chibwenzi amene si wako mtundu, munthu wosiyana, angalole inu mwayi kuyesa zinthu zatsopano ndi kupeza moyo watsopano nazo. Mukayamba pachibwenzi amene ali osiyana monga zokonda kuposa nokha, mungathe kuyesa latsopano ntchito mukhoza amasangalala. Chibwenzi kuchokera wosiyana kuposa cholowa chanu kungachititse kuti inu kuona latsopano zakudya ndi zikhalidwe.

Kukhala bwino, Ine ankatanthauza mumayesa chibwenzi anthu omwe ofanana mkati timatsatira kwa inu (monga kudalirika, kukhulupirika kapena opatsa), zotsutsana ndi kusankha ena kuchokera kunja zinthu (monga maonekedwe, mtundu kapena osauka). Muyenera asasiye kutsatira akazi amene amagwira ofanana timatsatira. Ngati mukufuna kukhazikitsa pansi mu zaka zingapo ndi banja, musayambe chibwenzi anthu amene alibe kufuna kutchuka kuyamba banja. Komabe, ngati inu kupeza munthu amene si woyenera wanu yabwino bwenzi thupi, koma inu nawo zolinga zikuluzikulu ndi zikhulupiriro, mwinamwake inu awapatse mpata.

Izi zili choncho, inu konse amene wanu wangwiro machesi angakhale.


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