I WROTE YOU THIS LETTER EVEN THOUGHT WE HAVE NEVER MET. I miss you so much that I can't put it into words, but I am going to try. I'm going to try to explain how much I want to see you, to touch you, to hold you in my arms until the world falls away and there is only the two of us.I miss you so much that it's as if the world has become muted because of your absence. I miss you. I miss you so much that every woman I see looks like you.I see the girl at the checkout counter at the five and dime. She seems to have your eyes. Those bright and shining orbs that dance with a magnificent inner light and shine out on the world.I see a mother running after her child down the aisle of the supermarket. The look on her face is the same look of bemused aggravation I can see on your face as I say something foolish and you call me on it.I hear a woman talking on the phone. Her voice suddenly has become yours; the same inflections and pauses, the same accent and timber, she even has the same laugh. I see a woman standing in the park. The wind is blowing through her hair and the sun is shining on her face. For a split second I think it might be you, then her husband wraps his arms around her shoulders. A touch of sadness passes through me. I wish I was holding you as he is holding her. I miss you so much that if I close my eyes and reach out my hand it's as if I can touch you.I miss you so much that I wrote you this letter even though we have never met.I do not know your name. I do not know your face. I do not know the first thing about you, and yet I still miss you.I know that one day I will meet you. I know that some day I will look upon your face. I know that there will be a day when I will finally take you in my arms and hold you. But until then, I can only say that I miss you. What if...this moment you take, changes all the ones that are remaining? How ? Everyone wants someone who has a sense of humor, is intelligent...because we believe ourselves to have the same traits. That is of course, until we are faced we the challenge of writing this intro...so forgive me if it seems as if I have misplaced both said qualities...staring at a blinkink cursor for a certain lapse of time seems to have had some effect on brain cells I was certain I posessed until a few moments ago. Nonetheless, the few remaining ones should be sufficient to tell you a little about myself and what I am looking for. I'd like to be original, but I fail to see how, when we are fundamentally all looking for the same thing. Someone who is perfect for us. Don't mistake me, no one is perfect. But I still trust in the fact that out there, there is someone whose imperfections are just perfect for me. Whose very faults are charming and only serve to endear that person more to me. I love to laugh at myself and I hope to meet someone who won't mind me teasing her until I get him to quirck an endearing smile at me. Someone who enjoys shared laughter over something trivial that would have meaning to us and not necessarily to others. Someone whose mere presence lightens up my day, no matter what kind of day it was. Someone I can count on and who can be assured he can count on me, no matter what happens. That reassuring presence, that wonderful certainty that whatever the future holds, not one of us will have to face it alone, because we have the blessing of having each other. Told you I couldn't be original...because although we might wish it silently or proclaim it loudly, that's basically what we are all looking for. Sure we all have friends, family a wonderful career, but still, you can't stop yourself from feeling you are missing something...missing someone to share it with. Basically if, as I, you feel you are missing the person with whom you would like to share the moments that make life worth living... I am waiting for you So many people keep asking ...why do I keep trying all the time. I tell them ...Can you think of anything more important? What do we work for? What do we strive for? What do we suffer for? What do we hope for? It's LOVE. To miss it will always be my greatest loss. I want you in my life..my beloved because without you, my life is never complete. I close my eyes and feel your presence with me, though your body is not here, I can feel your soul. It reaches out to me from across miles and miles of land. It calls to me...a longing ache...as if it is waiting for me to merge with it. You are all the special things in my life I have lost...from the simple to the hardest. When you read my words you are moved by them knowing they were written long before you knew me though you feel as if they were written for you, as if they were waiting for you to find them. You have become the first thing I think of when I open my eyes and the last thing I see before I close them. I don't know what you look like, nor do I care. You are everything I love and desire all hidden away from my eyes. I long to hear your voice , to be comfortable to converse with you as easily as I do now on this paper. How we speak in our love making and in our talks the words just flow from my heart and reach out to you. I sit here now not knowing if you will ever read this, but then I immediately think, how could I not share with you what I am feeling? How could I not share these things with you? How do I continue to reach out and grasp what I cannot have? But I will continue to love you as long as you'll let me...and when you feel it is time for me to go, then I will...I will look back and remember every word written, every word spoken and every touch that was made, and I will not forget... . If you respond, I will sent you a long detail email, be prepared! I DO NOT believe in chemistry. I believe in commitment and choice when it comes to love. PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME. I JUMP INTO RELATIONSHIP One great thing about life is that it's a process and each day holds the possibilities for new chances and unexplored opportunities.Each of us is offered powerful moments when life invites us, or force us to stop and pay attention to who we are, where we are , how we arrived here, and where we need to go next.This is your moment. We are in different locations, in two different times. I am writing this at one moment, and you are reading it later. but somehow, in this mysterious now, we met and our own alchemy take place. The mystical poet Hafiz writes: "Between your eyes and this page, I am standing" Do you feel me? The road to finding love can be long and arduous one. It can be fraught with wrong turns, dangerous potholes, and circuitous rountes that sometimes feel as if they're leading you nowhere. But the very fact that you've been drawn to me indicates that you are seriously searching for a change in your life. Am I not right? You are now being presented with an extraodinary opportunity. You are standing at the fork in the road. One path leads to more of the same (which most of you will take). It's a safer journey, in many respect, but usually only leads to an all-too-familiar disappointment. The other path leads to freedom frm the past and the very real possibility of love in the future. it is the unknown road. From the vantage, it may seem some what intimidating and frightening. For this reason, it is the path less often tranversed. No matter how disappointed you've been in the past, no matter how weary and resigned you've become, I know that you can now choose a path that will enable you to find and welcome me. For truly, there is someone for everyone. Take heart and be not discourage. Love belongs to all of us If you like to take things slow, I am definitely not the one for you, as I JUMP into relationships (I WON'T CHANGE MY MIND ON THIS) Yes, I know that this eliminates most women, but I am not looking for most women. I believe and feel strongly that it is well worth the wait for that one-in-a-million encounter. I will be rude and nasty with you if you waste my time because most people will respond with the intention of taking it slow. I rather get no email than emails from losers. I rather not go out on any dates than to sit across from someone and just fake it. What i want is a online connection that will spill over into real life and you click. The email and phone conversation will make us feel so connected that our first date will be a easy. There is no getting-to-know-each-other awkardness because we already done that online. I am not looking to date, or met for a coffee date or even chemisty date. I want to get into a serious relationship, and as such am not interested in players, CURIOSITY SEEKERS or WORKAHOLICS. If, however, you are serious and are longing for a normal, committed, drama-free relationship and eventual marriage, I would love to hear from you so PLEASE LEAVE YOUR NUMBER BECAUSE I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A IM, EMAIL OR CYBER-RELATIONSHIP. PLEASE BE IN NYC AND LOWER LONG ISLAND AREA. PLEASE NO ONE LINER. NO ENCOURAGMENT OR COMMENTS OF ANY KIND. THANK YOU.

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I am a man seeking a woman age 18 to 35

Once upon a time, I thought that work and career were the "hard" parts of life to figure out, and that the personal side of things would fall neatly and more or less automatically into place. Oops. This assumption has left me with a great career, along with my family and all the friends I've gathered along the way. Which is kind of a lot to have already, if you think about it. But, being a selfish glutton, now I want the rest of the perfect life. Living in NY, having a great job, friends and family, AND BEING IN LOVE. The right life is just not right anymore without love. In the process of living, there often comes at time when we suddenly look around at where we've ended up in our lives and it looks nothing like what w expected it to. We remember mapping out where we wanted to go with our relationships, our work and our accomplishment, but insteads, we inexplicably find ourselves in places and circumstances that bear no resemblance to where we hoped to be. We feel like a stranger in a strange land, except that this strange land is the life we are leading. Somehow, we've gotten lost on the way to happiness. Perhaps in site of our effort to make our hopes and dreams come true, we have end up in a very different reality.You wanted to be in a good relationship and marriage but have been prevented by circumstances beyond my control from achieving it. I want to be living one kind of life, but feel trapped in another. Time passes. We are busy working, loving, living as best as we can....trying to forget. All of us have appointment with destiny....something good is waiting us in a place we didn't expect to find. Your might think like me that life is heading in the wrong direction...with no map to guide you toward what you are looking for...a relationship, a career break...and you feel lost and disheartened. Then, in the space of one moment, you and I will be guided to an encounter that would changes our lives. By going where we didn't intend to go, we ended up where we were intended to. Take right now for example....you didn't intend to be here, but you are and you found me .Each of us is offered powerful moments when life invites us, or force us to stop and pay attention to who we are, where we are , how we arrived here, and where we need to go next. Sometimes these moments of awakening manifest as the coming to a crossroads on our path, when we are presented with a choice to trun this way or that..Turning point can be quiet..almost invisible and therefore hard to predict. But today....you are at your turning point in your life. Will you take a risk to love again and met your soulmate. I think we all know that when you fall in love, the emptiness kind of drift away...because you find something to live for. Each other. We are in different locations, in two different times. I am writing this at one moment, and you are reading it later. but somehow, in this mysterious now, we met and our own alchemy take place. The mystical poet Hafiz writes: "Between your eyes and this page, I am standing" Do you feel me? Will you trust me? You must be thinking that you stumble on me by accident? No, everything happens for a reason, fate has takes hold and leads us in the right direction. It led you to me. I want to share myself with you. Yes I have been hurt. I am sure youre past disappointments and hurt as well and still do. We will erase the pain for each other. Then I have my fears. Will I be what you want? What you need? What you've dreamed of? In your eyes will I be perfect? Will you think me the most beautiful man you've ever seen? Will you love my body? Will you be willing to make the drive to the city from wherever you are? Would you make the drive one hundred times if you knew this was what you wanted? Or will you fool yourself into being the woman who is in love with the "beautiful stranger? I can't wait for the day when I'm on my way to meet you. I long for that excitement. I can't wait until I get my first glimpse of the real you, and hug you for the first of many times in your life. Everyday I wish for you as I have so much to tell you. It seem that everyone looking for the "BEST", the tallest, richest, handsome. I am looking for the "RIGHT" person. The "right" person is the person who will bring the best out of you. You see, I am looking for the experience of being with the right person. A sense of belonging, acceptance. Woman who look great are a dime a dozen--its the woman who helps me feel, the one who give me the experience I want is the one who I am willing to take a leap with. I realized that the things I really enjoy, the things that give me the most pleasure and make life worth living, are all things I already have. A walk in the park, some quality time with family and friends. An hour in the sun, No woman can give these things to me or take them away, so there's no reason to act as though the world will come to an end if that random conversation with a woman that doesn't develop into a relationship but a major obstacle for finding a partner is that I'm not interested in dating either. I can't imagine cycling through women after women. It seems pretty brutal on the face of it. And it takes a large toll on my mind, body and spirit. The motto is: AVOID the PAIN. Most people love checklist consist of physically attributes that doesn't go to the core of a person's character. The beautiful blond may have a terrible problem with anger. A person can look like a movie star, but is she reliable and caring. The key question I ask myself is in the presence of this special person is do I like myself more? The smartest women knows that she always wants to be remembered for who she is, not how she looks. What i want is a online connection that will spill over into real life. The email, phone conversation will make us feel so connected that our first date will be a easy. There is no letting -to-know-each-other awkardness because we already done that online. Maybe you won't fall in love with me at first sight, but give me a minute. I might sneak up on you if you are not careful. PLEASE NO COMMENT OR ENCOURAGEMENT....ONLY SERIOUS RESPONDS.

TO YOU I close my eyes and feel your presence with me, though your body is not here, I can feel your soul. It reaches out to me from across miles and miles of land. It calls to me...a longing ache...as if it is waiting for me to merge with it. You are all the special things in my life I have lost...from the simple to the hardest...you feel a void in my heart that has been missing for such a long time I had forgotten what it felt like to have it complete. When you read my wordsyou are moved by them knowing they were written long before you knew me though you feel as if they were written for you, as if they were waiting for you to find them. You have become the first thing I think of when I open my eyes and the last thing I see before I close them. I don't know what you look like, nor do I care. You are everything I love and desire all hidden away from my eyes. A mist in my life that covers me protecting me and sheltering me from pain and cruelty. I never wish to leave the protective covering of your presence, to feel you surrounding me with love and with beauty. I had planned on writing a story for us, a story of love that was so deep it would stand the test of time and it would end with our love triumphing over all obstacles placed in our paths. But I cannot because a story has an ending and I don't want this feeling to ever end. I long to hear your voice , to be comfortable to converse with you as easily as I do now on this paper. How we speak in our love making and in our talks the words just flow from my heart and reach out to you. I sit here now not knowing if I'll you will ever read this, but then I immediately think, how could I not share with you what I am feeling? How could I not share these things with you? How could I make such a decision that would not allow you to know what you have done to me? But how do I? How do I continue to reach out and grasp what I cannot have? But I will ......I will continue to love you as long as you'll let me, I'll continue to hold you as long as you'll let me. I'll continue to want you as long as you'll let me...and when you feel it is time for me to go, then I will...I will look back and remember every word written, every word spoken and every touch that was made, and I will not forget.... From me