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To je dating site, in dating site za ljubitelje hišnih, nič majn. So can we talk for just a minute about female dogs? And I mean “psi ženski” v najbolj Eufemistički smislu, saj ne nanaša na psih, but their human species counterpart that gives female dogs their bad name. But because this is a SFW site and in an effort to give back to female dogs the respect and love they deserve—let’s talk instead about Heartless Queen Bees (ali HQBs) in možje, da jih imam, in kaj je, da se učijo od njih, da bi naše odnose bolje.

Znova in znova, Bil sem iz prve roke priča fenomenu “prijazen fant rad HQB”. It’s really a marvel to behold—a caring, dobrosrčni, vljuden in radodaren človek, ki se zdi, da je vedno v položaju upogibanjem nazaj za njegovo HQB; and he seems to also love every minute of responding to her demands and bearing the brunt of her indiscriminate disdain. But these relationships are also some of the best I’ve seen in terms of longevity; in tako tudi, Sem sklepal, v zvezi z določeno stopnjo odnosov uspeha.

Torej, kaj lahko, kot dostojno, premišljen ženske učijo od HQBs pritegniti in obdržati vrsto moških, ki se zdi, da nimajo težav privabljanje?

1) HQBs imajo močan občutek identitete

Močna Identity Ženska

HQBs know who they are and what they want. They know what they bring to the table and they are interesting because their interests are their own and they may be unique from their partner’s interests. It is boring to date yourself, in so HQBs to pogruntal.

2) HQBs imajo ukaz njihovega sveta

načelnik Ženska

HQB zdi, da je ukaz o svetu okoli sebe (ali je res ali ne,). This quality provides a subconscious boost to her partner’s ego—if he has some control over making her happy, in ima nadzor nad “Svetovna”, ima nadzor nad “Svetovna” by proxy. It’s that whole “če je A = B in B = C, Nato = C” thing. How does this translate into a useful tip? Decent, thoughtful people like you and me tend to not be very assertive with our actions and communication. Being assertive is much different than being aggressive, ki je temeljni M.O. vaše povprečne HQB in je tisto, kar ji daje, da slabo gotten-, neizrazito nadzor “Svetovna”. But being more assertive will yield a greater command of your world, without the otherwise negative results of aggression. One example of this is simply to state what you want and why it makes sense from your perspective, sans ponižujoči, podcenjevalnem jeza tako pogosto zaposleni v izdelavo podobne zahteve po HQBs.

3) Vedno priljubljena in dokazano, “Men Like a Challenge”!

Men Like A Challenge

Koliko dating članki in knjige ste prebrali, da je namenjen za neke različice osnovno idejo, da moški radi predstavili z izzivom, tako da se počutijo zelo poseben, če so sposobni osvojiti omenjeno izziv? Vendar, sami, will speak of finding the more elusive woman more attractive than the one who is an always-available open book. Sometimes elusiveness manifests as—how should I say—being a little stingy with expressing any kind of positive emotion or feedback (ki je, če pridejo v HQBs). Some men can’t resist the challenge of trying to illicit any kind of pleasant response from an HQB and so she becomes an object of great interest.

Kako vam je (spet, kot dostojno, premišljen ženska ste) sami vključite v čemer več izziv? This can easily become the disingenuous game-playing that books like “Pravila” (Fein in Schneider) vse, which may not work for everyone and may leave you ill-feeling and confused about what to say and when. Namesto, build up your life to be genuinely full and exciting—making you a true challenge to nail down a date with. Not only will it check off that whole “izziv” atribut, ki tako ungracefully opisujejo HQBs (da ljudje najdejo tako privlačna), vendar bo vaš dan počutili, da je veliko bolj pomemben, ko ste naredili točko, da bi porabili svoj dragoceni čas jasno z njim.

4) Ni igre

Ženska ugibati igre

Pride čas, ko se ljudje prenehali odzivati ​​na ugibati igre-ali je to zaradi njiju malo bolj zrel, or the relationship itself having grown beyond its initial flirtation. Perhaps this tip can be at least partially credited with the whole “longevity” anomaly presented by HQB/Nice Guy relationships. HQBs say what they want, and when they want it. There are few games and intangibles in dealing with an HQB, and many men find this refreshing. This ties in elements from a couple of previous tips—in being straightforward with your communication (To se pravi,. pri čemer je samozavesten), in zelo jasno, s tem, kar si želite od vašega partnerja, če je on že ne, da ji zagotavlja, ki ste jih predstavili Izziv da bo verjetno uživali pospešitvi izpolniti, ker ste bili tako jasni in ne bo strah, njegova prizadevanja bodo zaman.

Torej, Kind Hearts-take srce, in ti nasveti za srčno-in morda lahko rečemo, malo večji delež trga prijazen fant za nas!


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