O E Dateable?

O se lisi o auala e iloa ia te oe lava e sili atu teisi, faia ia te outou "a si lotta" sili dateable

O le mea sese tele o tagata e faia io latou olaga i tafaoga faamasani e le i ai o se manatu lelei o ai i latou, i latou lava, e. It may seem counterintuitive, ae pe a outou le malosi e taumafai e saili se soa o se tasi o le mea sili taimi e taulai atu ai i luga o oe lava ma mea e te “ligoligo”. tamaitai, sili atu nai lo tagata, e matele i le “Ou te Fiafia Po te Fia”-maʻi (atonu ona faaumiumi faamoemoega faaleaganuu e tatau tamaitai ina ia le mafai ona fetuutuunai, tagata amorphous leai latou lava mea e fiafia i), iu lava ina oo atu ai i se sootaga lē faamalieina ma unfulfilling i sili; ma e faateia, maumau le taimi ma le ita i le isi tagata o lo “suia”, i sili ona leaga.

O se tasi o loʻu fiafia i upu e alu i se mea e pei o lenei–le auala e se isi manatu e iloa ma alofa ia te oe, pe afai e te le iloa ma alofa ia te oe? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, ma e faigofie mo oe ma lou Saʻo e iloa ai le tasi le isi ma ia tosina atu i uiga e le alu i le suia ma lou kamupani po o le tausaga.

A o tusia Shel Silverstein i lana solo i, “ufimata”:

Sa paʻu lanu moana
Ma o lea na ia faia
Sa ia tausia ai natia
Ma o lea sa ia
Latou saili mo lanu moana
O latou olaga atoa e ala i
Ona mavae mea saʻo e ala–
Ma te leʻi iloa

O nisi nei o auala e iloa ma alofa ia te oe, ina ia se isi tagata e mafai ona, foʻi!

1. Take Yourself Out

ua felafoaiina se tasi lenei o loo siomia ai e eseese ma anoanoai “lava le fesoasoani” gurus, tusi, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, i le umi e pei ona o le fiafia ma se mea e fiafia–se ata tifaga (faʻatasi moli alu ifo, ua taulai atu e leai se tasi i luga o loo nofo na), se taaloga, po o se mea fou atonu se malaga aso.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

Tuu atu se taimi saoloto? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–alu lea ma faia! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, feliuaia ma feauauai faataulāitu, ma sauniga o le tele o isi tagata nai lo ia te oe le a, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, o le a outou iloa ai e te le manaomia se tasi i luga ina ia fiafia–e mafai ona e maua ai le fiafia ma le manatu faapito e ala i le faamoemoega ma lou filifiliga.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, po o le itiiti ifo e uiga i le lautele mafaufau ma lagona o oe lava, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “oe” o loo e tuuina atu i le lalolagi, and therefore dates. Atonu, ma foliga, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–e mafai ona faaali mai o lenei mea o se manoa o le faamanuiaina, sootaga fenumiai.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, faia se mea fou atoatoa! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, auā–ao e mafai ona tosina aso–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, ae ua mamao ese se isi aafiaga le olaga e fesoasoani faamatala oe ma lou fiafia i, ma e mafai ona i ai se isi tomai ma talanoaga taimi e aumai i le laulau.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, o le a outou a fiafia, sili faataunuuina tagata ma o le ae maua lena tele atu mea ua ofo atu e se sootaga; ma i le taimi nei, o le a outou maua le tele o le fiafia i le iloa o le OE o oe o le uiga atoa.


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