Na U Dateable?

A lenane le litsela ho tseba u e nyenyane hanyenyane molemo, etsa hore u le "Lotta hanyenyane" ho dateable

Phoso batho ba bangata ba etsa a bona intša bophelo ba e sa ho ba le kakanyo e ntle na ke mang ea ba, ba, ba. It may seem counterintuitive, empa ha u ba ka mafolofolo leka ho fumana le molekane ke e mong oa molemo ka ho fetisisa linako tse ling ho nahana ka le wena le le etsa hore u “letshwao”. Basali ba, ho feta banna ba, ba le tsekamelo ea ho “I Like tsotellehe U ka Thabela”-Syndrome, (mohlomong ka lebaka la a lieha setso lebeletseng hore basali ba ba lokela ho ba tenyetsehang, amorphous batho ba ba a haelloa lithahasello tsa bona), qetellong fella ka e sa khotsofatse 'me rea khotsofala kamano ka molemo ka ho fetisisa; le taba e makatsang, sentse nako nako le bohale ka ho motho e mong ho ba le “a fetola”, ka mpe ka ho fetisisa.

E mong oa ke e ratang ka lipolelo o tsoela ntho e kang ena–joang motho e mong lokela ho tseba le ho u rata, haeba u ha ba tsebe le u rata? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, 'me o go be bonolo go uena le ba hao Right e mong o ho hlokomela mong le e mong tse ling tse le khahloa ke le litsobotsi tse ba a ke ke a fetola ba le lona ka kapa ka le lilemo.

E le Shel Silverstein oa ngola o re a hae a thothokiso, “Masken”:

O ile a ne putsoa letlalo
Me ho joalo le ile a etsa o ile a
O ile a boloka pata
Me ho joalo le ile a etsa o ile a
Ba batlile ka putsoa
Yohle ya bona bophelo ka
Ka nako eo feta go loka ka–
Le ka mohla ne a tseba

Mona ba bang ba litsela tsa ho ho tseba le u rata, e le hore motho e e mong ka, le eena o!

1. Take Yourself Out

Enoa o le akhotsoa ho pota ka tse sa tsoaneng le myriad “ho intša thusa” gurus, libuka, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, ka nako e telele joalokaha e monate le ntho e u thabela–filimi (hang ha mabone theohela, motho ea tsepamisa maikutlo ea lutseng le mong), bolo tai game, kapa mohlomong e nka leeto la matsatsi kae-kae ncha.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

Ba le ba bang ba le nako e? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–le joale le e'o e etsa! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, a boselamose twists 'me o retelehela, le kopana hore batho ba bangata ho u feta ne ba tla ba, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, u tla fumana hore u ha ho hlokahale motho e mong le 'na ho thaba–u ka le thabileng le le ho ikhotsofatsa ka ho ba le morero le khetho ea hao.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, kapa bonyane ka ea phatlalatsa nahana le maikutlo a hore ba u, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “U” hore u ho hlahisa le le ba lefatse, and therefore dates. Mohlomong, ho fetisisa le le ka etsahala hore ebe, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–ena ka 'na ba bontša e le kgwele ya boa ka ba atleha, ferekanya likamano.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, etsa ntho e itseng mecha ka ho feletseng! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, hobane–ha a ntse a tse ka 'hohela matsatsi–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, u tla be u thōko e 'ngoe phihlelo ea bophelo ba e ba thusang hlalosa uena le lithahasello tsa hao, 'me u ka ba le e' ngoe bokgoni le collapse ntlha ba tlisetsa tafoleng.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, u tla ba thaba haholoanyane, ho feta phethahala motho eo le ka u tla ba le hore boholo ho feta ba ithaopela ho le kamano; 'me ka sa le joalo, u tla ba le e ngata monate ho tseba ea lōna hore u tsohle ka.


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