Siz Dateable olasizmi?

Yo'llar ro'yxati bir oz yaxshiroq o'zingizni bilish uchun, Agar "bir lotta bit" ko'proq dateable qilish

ko'p odamlar o'z dating hayotida qilmoq xato bir yaxshi fikr ega emas, ular, o'zlari, bor. It may seem counterintuitive, lekin siz faol sherik topish uchun harakat qachon eng yaxshi marta bir o'zingiz haqida o'ylash uchun va nima sizni qiladi “kana”. Ayollar, erkaklarga nisbatan ko'proq, moyil “Men siz kabi qat'iy nazar kabi”-Sindrom (ehtimol tufayli ayollar moslashuvchan bo'lishi kerak, deb madaniy taxminlar giderilememiş uchun, o'z manfaatlarini yo'q amorf bo'lganlar), pirovardida eng yaxshi bir qoniqarsiz va unfulfilling munosabatlar natijasida; va kutilmagan hodisalar, ega bo'lgan boshqa shaxs vaqt va g'azabini isrof “o'zgardi”, eng yomon da.

Mening sevimli matallari biri bu kabi bir narsa ketadi–Birovning taxmin qilinadi qanday bilaman va seni sevaman uchun, Bilasizmi va sizni yaxshi ko'rmaydilar agar? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, va siz va o'ng One, bir-biriga tan olish va kompaniya bilan o'zgartirish emasmiz fazilatlari yoki yillar bilan tortilishi uchun oson qiladi.

Shel Silverstein she'rida yozadi sifatida, “Niqoblar”:

U ko'k teri edi
Va shuning uchun u qilgan
U yashirinib saqlab
Va Shuning uchun u qilgan
Ular ko'k uchun tintuv
Orqali ularning butun hayoti
Keyin o'ng tomonidan o'tdi–
Va hech qachon tanigan emasman

Bu erda bilish uchun ba'zi yo'llari va seni sevaman, boshqa kimdir jon deb shunday, ham!

1. Take Yourself Out

Bu bir turli va sanoqsiz tomonidan atrofida go'yo chayqalib yuradi etiladi “o'z-o'zini yordam” Gurus, kitoblar, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, modomiki u qiziqarli va biror narsa siz bahramand sifatida–bir film (chiroqlar pastga borish bir marta, hech kim kim yolg'iz o'tirgan qaratilgan), bir to'p o'yinni, yoki, ehtimol, bir kun safar yangi joyga.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

Ba'zi bepul vaqt bor? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–va keyin uni, albatta, borish! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, sehrli burilish va frazeologik, va sizlardan ko'ra, ko'pchilik odamlar, bor edi, deb majlis, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, Agar baxtli bo'lishi uchun birga birovni hojat yo'q, deb siz kashf qiladi–Agar siz qarorlar bilan maqsadli bo'lish baxtli va ko'ngilchan bo'lishi mumkin.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, yoki hech bo'lmaganda jamoatchilik haqida tasavvur va o'zingizni taassurot, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “Siz” Agar dunyoga taqdim etiladi, deb, and therefore dates. Balki, va eng munosib, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–bu muvaffaqiyatsiz bir mag'lubiyatga sifatida namoyon bo'lishi mumkin, chalkash munosabatlar.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, butunlay yangi bir narsa, albatta,! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, chunki–bu kunlari, jalb mumkin–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, siz o'zingiz va manfaatlarini aniqlash yordam beradi yana bir hayot tajribasi uziq bo'ladi, va siz jadvalga olib boshqa san'at va suhbat nuqtasi bo'lishi mumkin.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, Agar baxtli bo'ladi, ko'proq kishi bajardi va siz munosabatlarga taklif qilish ancha ko'p bo'ladi; va shu bilan birga, Agar siz hamma haqida siz bilish uchun kulgili bir poda bor olaman.


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