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Wena endilithathileyo uziphose yaye bakulungele ukuqalisa ukhangela ebalulekileyo nezinye online. Yi-umdla, yet intimidating experience. All of a sudden you have an opportunity to see and interact with more singles, ngaphezu kokuba wadibana kunyaka! But wait online dating isn’t anything like meeting people in person and it certainly doesn’t come with a rule book…

Ukuqonda Vocab: One of the first and most confusing steps is dealing with the lingo. These are your first moments of interaction, uhlobo bacinge ukuba ufuna ukuhamba na ehlabathini ukuba ukhethe njani ukuba ukwenza?

Kanye njani "ubomi benene" amagama esiwasebenzisayo ukuchaza uhlobo boqhagamshelwano, ezifana wandincumela, Azifumaneki acacise oko nje yenzeka phakathi kwabantu ababini. Le ngcamango nangoku usebenza iinketho zakho online:

Kanye – Think of this as a smile across from the bar. It could grab someone’s attention. nokuba, oko kungabi njengoko sentsimini ngokungathi waya waza wathi, "Mholo."

iphanyazo uqhwanyazo -i uthunyelwa kanye njengokuba ngokukhawuleza njengoko liyachithwa.

Ncwadi – This is that person you talked to in the line at Starbucks. You felt a spark right away; ewe wadibana nje udlula, kodwa awunako ukulinda ukuba ziyangqubana kubo kwakhona.

kwemiYalezo – This is a text message from “the” person you’ve been waiting to hear from all day. They’re totally into you.

Ukwenza ukhetho malunga ukunxibelelana indlela ukufumanisa uhlobo abasabela ufumana.

Yothuse kwaye bothusa: Ukuba ufuna ukufunda profiles ezimbalwa phambi kokubhala yeyakho, Kulungile.

It’s hard to know what to include in a profile and how much if you’re new to online dating. You don’t want to write a haiku, kodwa awufuni wamzalela abantu iinyembezi kunye iinkcukacha kwibakala 5 yakho ipiyano recital.

– Qinisekisa ukunika iinkcukacha zobuqu, kukho iwaka ngabantu abathanda iimovie 'ofuna ukufumana neqabane ulwaphulo,'Into eyahlukileyo ngokwenene ngawe? (Did you go to pastry school and now work in marketing. mhlawumbi, Kutshanje sowuthathile parasailing?)

– Chaza into oyikhangelayo kwiqabane, ukuba akufuni abantu banokucinga iprofayile yakho ukuqhatha.

Yiba Nesibindi: Kokuba wajoyina ukuthandana online ukuba abe wallflower, ufuna ukufumana umntu!

– Akukho nto uza kuphulukana! What are the chances you will run into this person? Kwiqanda ukuya nanye; musa asikuqwabazeli kubo, ukuba okunene ufuna umyalezo.

Don’t let your inner doubt win. You never know who might be interested in you, unless you give it a try. You didn’t join online dating to sit in the corner and knit did you? If you did, Ndicinga ukuba kwiwebhusayithi engalunganga.

Zama into entsha: Akukho nto iphosakeleyo nokwazi "uhlobo yakho,"Kodwa zama ukuthetha nomntu yahlukile kubudlelwane bakho elidlulileyo.

Xa amawaka iinketho bajonge kuwe ukusuka yakho yegolide ekhompyutheni, there is nothing wrong with testing the waters to learn what you want. mhlawumbi, usiya ngomhla kunye ngumhlekisi kwaye ziphumeze, “I just can’t be with someone who honks their nose for a living.” There is nothing wrong with that, or maybe you learn that’s what you’ve been waiting for all along. You never know what could happen.

Yiba nguwe: njengoko Dr. Seuss wayibeka, “I am who I am and that’s a great thing to be.” If Dr. Seuss wathi, umelwe ukuba ekunene. Kunzima ukuqalisa ulwalamano kunye nomntu xa uzama ukuba uzenze mntu wumbi.

Ewe "hottie8675309" linomtsalane kakhulu, but you can’t find anything in their profile you have in common. You think to yourself, "Kulungile ke igama 'Iidiliya zengqumbo ' njengoko neyona ncwadi. Ndicinga ndafunda ukuba kwisikolo esiphakamileyo. "Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi wena ngomhla nomntu owabhala yePhD ekwenziweni yabo PhD kwi 'Iidiliya yengqumbo. ' Sininqwenelela okuhle ukuba!

 


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