Katz ngomhla Dogs : A Commonsense IsiKhokelo Uqeqesho Ukuphila Dogs

Ntombikayise umbuzo abanini inja kuba kufuneka ucele kuqala, mhlawumbi yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kubomi nabani kunye nenja:

Ngoba?

Izigqibo ezininzi kakhulu malunga nobomi bethu nezinja badla kwenziwa phambi kokuba yoyigodusa enye. Ukuzuza inja Melika ethande
elula. Unako Trawl online, ukufumana lokumilisa, okanye athathe enye njana ezinye itakane lunikezela ngaphandle esuphamakethi (Bendingayi cebise). nina
usenokufumana uqiniso ngeli ukuhamba okanye ukuqhuba. Abanye abantu bafuna izinja ngezizathu ezibonakalayo engxondorheni-nzima: ukhuseleko, lokuzingela, unyango, search-kwaye-nokuhlangula. Kodwa abaninzi kuthi, ndithi iisayikholojisti behaviorists, alunazinjongo ezintsokothileyo ezengqondo.

KUTHENI NDIFUNA Inja?

Abantu ingxaki kakhulu ziye yokuqhagamshelana omnye nomnye, kokukhona bajike izinja (kunye nezinye izilwanyana) ukuzalisa ezinye izithuba. Kubonakala ukuba kufuneka ukumthanda kuthandwa ngeendlela gingxi, ecocekileyo, yaye bathembeke.

Contemporary Melika na, ngeendlela ezininzi, hlulweyo, uluntu exhunyiweyo. iintsapho zethu sandiswa baye bafudukela; sasidla awuyazi abamelwane bethu; abaninzi bethu kumngxuma ukuya ebusuku, egumbini kwenye uhlobo screen okanye omnye. Uqhawulo eziqhelekileyo. Umsebenzi iye iyahlozinga, lingacaci ezininzi, badla ezingemnandi. Abantu abaninzi kubonakala ukufumana kulula ukuphila kunye nokunxibelelana nezinja ngaphezu omnye nomnye, kwaye ngoko ke imixokelelwane phakathi kwabantu izinja ngcembe lisanda ngakumbi.

Kodwa oku kubudlelwane kwezi ntlobo zimbini yenye eve. izinja ezininzi busetyenziswa kakuhle ngabantu’ uncamathiselo nzulu, kodwa izinja akakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ezifanayo. Yinto imfuno zabantu ukuba sele ekuyo enkulu Canine thandana.

Abantu baye bagqiba ukuzisa izinja kungena kwiziko kubomi babo. Kuba bonke lokokuxambulisana malunga namalungelo ezilwanyana, izinja angenabani. Ke musani ukwenza izigqibo yabathengi. Bacinge ixhomekeke kuthi yonke into ezizidingayo ukuze ziphile. Abakwazi ukuthetha umva; baya kuba izimvo malunga bume zabo okanye amakamva.

Nangona izinja baye banceda waza wasebenza abantu kumawaka eminyaka, nto kuphela amashumi eminyaka ukuba sele ubonwa njengento ngaphandle (mhlawumbi ngaphezu) izilwanyana. Pet-zimali ya ezithandwayo phakathi lezityebi enamandla kumaxesha, iinowuthsi ethicist isilwanyana James Serpell kwi Izilwanyana encwadini and Human Society: Ukutshintsha Perspectives, kodwa ayizange ifumane intlonipho ngokubanzi de ngenkulungwane elinesixhenxe kwexesha, lixesha ihlombe ekhulayo zenzululwazi kunye nembali yemvelo nenkxalabo okwandileyo izilwanyana’ ntle. Ukusukela ngoko, ulwalamano lwethu izinja ubhinq kakhulu. Thina abantu abangenakuze kufutshane kwenye iintlobo. Sichitha amashumi ezigidi zeerandi kukhathalelo lwabo, ukondla, kwakunye okuzonwabisa; abanike amagama abantu; athethe kubo ukuba siqonde ukuba; Ndiyakholwa siyazi bebalisa oko kuthi imbuyekezo.

Le ukukholisa kudla ngokusisulu izinja kwiimfuno zethu yaye ufuna. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngoku, wanga kube ezothusayo nkqu isizukulwana eyadlulayo, ukuze beve abantu bathi ngaphandle uxolo okanye ukuphoxeka ukuba bathanda izinja zabo ngaphezu kokuba bethanda abantu abaninzi, bangaboni izinja zabo njengoko amalungu osapho lwabo, ukuba igila iingxaki zabo eyona lichazele imfihlo izinja zabo, abanyanisekileyo ngaphezulu nokuqonda ngaphezu nabazali, amaqabane, abathandi, okanye abahlobo. Kokuchitha iintsuku ezimbalwa kwiofisi vet njengenxalenye yophando yam incwadi, Ndamangaliswa ukuva nomfazi omnye emva komnye umnqweno, “khangela, ugqirha, Ndingahlala ngaphandle umyeni wam, kodwa umelwe ukugcina le nja!” Kodwa oogqirha ndixelele bakuliva lonke ixesha.

Hayi nje abafazi. uphando zokuziphatha lubonisa ukuba abafazi bathande izinja ngokuyinxenye kuba bekhangeleka inkxaso ngokweemvakalelo kanti entsonkothileyo, bakwazi ukuqonda abanini yabo enkulu nangona ngendlela iNcwadana. Ngelo, abantu bathanda izinja kuba kween- egqibeleleyo, kukuvuyela ukuya kwiindawo kwenza izinto, kodwa akakwazi ukubamba okanye iincoko imfuno. Kanye okanye hayi, izinja zethu’ upbringings ezibonakalisa yethu. Sithanda ukunyanga izinja bethu ngendlela baphathwa, okanye indlela esinqwenela ukuba amahla. Ngolunye uhlobo, pasts zethu kakhulu ukubumba izimo ngayo izinja kunye neendlela thina kuqeqesha ukunxibelelana nabo.

Oku kudla yinkqubo zingqondweni. Zimbalwa abanini kuzisa self-ulwazi kubudlelwane babo Canine okanye bacinge iintsapho zabo xa bayangxolisana izinja zabo ukuza, okanye kweGosa kubo ngokungathi babeyiqonda. Omnye umongikazi yesikolo ndiyazi hlasi inja yakhe ngeendlebe qho ebusuku xa kufika ekhaya, ngxolela, “Uyandithanda? Ngaba umama wakho elithozamisayo?” Wazibuza ukuba kutheni inja wazama wayebaleke ngexesha nithathe.

Ngoko ke iinjongo yokufumana inja ibaluleke, Ukuba ngaba uyakhathazeka ntle yayo nokufuna nolwalamano oluhle. Ingaba impendulo yakho kumbuzo kutheni-a-inja ukuba kube lula ukuba ngumhlobo ukusuka isilwanyana ixhomekeke kunokuba ngumntu? Ingaba ufuna inja ngenxa imiyalezo ngokugqithisileyo ukusuka neemovie zi-? Ngaba kusondela ngakumbi yokuhlangula izidalwa kunokuba kuqeqesho ohlala kunye nabo?

Ngaba siziqeqeshela ngeendlela thina siyaqeqeshwa, cela amanqanaba lokuthobela kunye nemfezeko kufunwa kuthi, bagxeke kubo amazwi namazwi saweva? Ngaba enzeke imidlalo osapho endala, ezama ukunyanga singabala? Ngaba ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba okanye omnye umntu ekhaya ukulungele ukuthatha uxanduva ngokweemvakalelo ngokuba inja, onothando kuphela kodwa ngoqeqesho nokunyamekela kuba?

Umfazi USusan wandixelela wayefuna inja kuba waziva ayikhuselekanga kwindawo eziphuma, ebumelwaneni zihlwempuzekileyo Elizabeth, Enew Jersey. Ngoko ndafumana yasekhompyutheni ഇവന്റ് IsiNgesi omkhulu ukuze umnini wakhe kungekudala eyayimenza amnike kude, ngoko umalusi waseJamani ogama beNdudumo. Inja njani ngempumelelo ukukhusela indlu, bamthethela kumnyango wangaphambili xa abasemzini beze. Kodwa ukusukela Susan, osebenza njenge umqhubi New Jersey Transit, ivuma ngaba umqeqeshi abaziintsizana umdla encinane ekusebenzeni inja, analo ukutshixa beNdudumo kwigumbi elingaphantsi xa abahlobo okanye izalamane ndwendwela. Yena 's ukuza ekhaya ukufumana amaqhekeza enyakazela imeyile ngokushiyanayo; inja kuyaqondakala ubona Iimvulophu esiza kumnyango slot njengoko andiloncedo. Yena 's kwakufuneka endaweni iingcango phina iifestile ezaphukileyo.

Okwangoku, BeNdudumo ubunzima ngeekhilogram ezingamashumi notsalo Susan phezu yonke esecaleni xa amshenxise. Abamelwane kunye nabantwana babo umoyika, Nangona azange okunene alunywe okanye onzakaliswe nabani. akafuni kubonakala inja ukuzilwela kakhulu ukuze yokungavumi; uyawusebenza umsebenzi yena yaqeshwa ukwenza, lixhoba impumelelo yakhe. kodwa Susan, lowo uthi uthanda beNdudumo, evuma ukuba akazange wayefuna ngokwenene inja ngenxa yayo. mhlawumbi kufuneka baye kwikhosi yokuzikhusela okanye ebizwa inkampani yokhuseleko-alam endaweni. “Kuya kuba bhetele ekuhambeni kwexesha, kwaye lula.”

Ukuqonda izizathu sifuna inja ngundoqo ukukhetha abo ekunene, ukubaqeqesha kakuhle, ohlala kunye nabo ngokonwaba. Okukhona siziqonda ngathi, ukhetho ngcono thina kusenokwenzeka ukuba zombini iintlobo zezi.

Xa ucinga ngayo, mhlawumbi uyazi Baninzi abantu bambombozelayo ukuba izinja zabo esebenzayo kakhulu okanye ungenzi kakhulu, unomdla kakhulu nokusukelana oonomatse okanye asikhumbule ukuza xa ebizwa, kakhulu olukhuselayo yendlu okanye azive bangamkhupha ukunceda ukwenza izinto ezixabisekileyo. Nangona inja uqhele ityala, ngokufuthi kangangoko hayi umnini wenza ukhetho Ilusizi okanye ukuphathwa ezetyisiweyo. Ngenxa yoko, wenja iphantsi koxinzelelo into ngaphandle ukuba yintoni na, ngoxa abantu izandla zabo ngokupheleleyo. Kunye nokucinga kunye nophando, ubomi izinja kunye nabantu babo kunokuba kakhulu lula kwaye eyanelisa. Kodwa oko kufuna ukuqonda kukabani sengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, ziingcinga siye phi ebomini bethu kwaye nendlela izinja bethu wamkeleke. jim, njengomzingeli ohlala kufuphi nam okumantla eNew York, ogcina beagles ezintathu yenja elikhulu 360 iintsuku ngonyaka. Zivela iiyure kusasa ezimbalwa ngezinye iintsuku ezintlanu ukulandelela umdlalo. Bachitha ixesha elininzi silinde, kodwa xa ixesha lifika, Bamtola ngaphandle yenja kwaye ehlathini. “Zizinja kakhulu,” UJim uthi, lowo ongazanga ukhankanywe kubo.

Ngaba ungathanda ukuba nabo? Ndambuza kanye. “Xa besenza imisebenzi yabo ndiya kwenza,” yaba impendulo yakhe. Ndiziva singabe nosizi izinja xa iphulo, ingakumbi xa sicinga izinja zam’ ubomi tofo, kodwa izinja kaJim, xa sele elikhulu, ayibakhathazi ukwazi ukuba ndihluthwe. Asingabo bonke izinja ukuba baphile ngaloo ndlela. Kodwa beagles UJim balubonisa kulwamkelo othusayo lwezinja. Bona sele kukho kuzingela, ixesha. UJim unomfazi nabantwana abane kubo uye phantsi, yena ixakeke ngokuqinileyo wakhe wokwakha; ke akuyomfuneko izinja ukuba abe uyithandayo okanye abanokuzityand bakhe. Kanye ngosuku, yena aye waya yenja kunye emele inyama okuseleyo kutosiwe imixholo kwi yenja. ngeKrismesi, wongezelela ibhakethi iibhisikithi. Bathi bonke badubule zabo, kwaye ubone ugqirha ukuba akuhambi abagulayo. Ezi beagles abangazange baye ngaphakathi ekhayeni lakhe. Lowo uthetha ngabo ngeqhayiya encumile, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo izixhobo, ifana drill okanye umpu olutsha, abantu encinane, na ngokwenene nezilwanyana ngengqiqo lwanamhlanje. Kuba neenjana ngathi umxholo kunye nempilo. UJim uyazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni ufuna kubo. Bayayiqonda imithetho elula, kuba izinja abaswele ukuqonda kwabantu ngokuhamba kwexesha, andazi ukuba aye ixesha elingakanani phakathi izingela. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abaninzi bethu indlela abanqwenela ukuba izinja, kodwa ecacileyo yakhe malunga iintlobo ufuna izinja yaye kutheni kubonakala ukusebenza kakuhle wonke umntu obandakanyekayo.

Ngoko kukho Andrea, ligcisa ohlala kwifama-akile amahlanu Vermont. Ngenxa yezizathu ezinzima ezahlukeneyo, yena umnike phezu ingcamango yabantu, umtshato, nosapho; endaweni, yena wafuna phandle iqela shaggy lokuhlangula. yena, kakhulu, ayeyazi kakuhle ukuba kutheni efuna inja, nabangamakhoboka yena wayila kunye zayo ibonakala kubenza bobabini konwaba.

“Mna khange nethamsanqa kunye nobudlelwane, ubuncinane kodwa,” uthi. “Kodwa Sebeza kwaye ndiyamhlonela omnye komnye. Ndonwaba kangaka naye, yaye indinika ngokonwabela nokuthanda kangaka. Ndiyathemba 's ibhulorho kwenye ubudlelwane, kodwa ukuba akukho, Ndiza okay.”

Asinto kum ukuthi, nangenyaniso andinako ngokwenene isigqibo sokuba Andrea wenza ukhetho lobulumko okanye impilo. Kodwa wacinga malunga neenjongo zakhe, malunga nendlela inja anjengeli ebomini bakhe, kwaye wenza isigqibo ingqalelo.

“Ngenxa kid yam sele engqiba enye” na, kwelinye icala, ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu umrhanelwa ukufumana isilwanyana. Yinto simbonono eqhelekileyo, kodwa izinja bathenga njengoko ukothuswa iKrismesi kuba befuna abantwana baqhele ukuba babe xesha linzima ngayo. Izithembiso umntu wenza kaLujaca; umdla iincopho ngoThandeka, ke asilele.

hayi kusoloko. A ummelwane oneminyaka elishumi ubudala sam wacela Golden Retriever kunyaka ophelileyo lweKrismesi nabazali bakhe bavuma, phantsi komqathango wokuba nekaJeremy athathele kuye uxanduva lwalo. Mhlawumbi wayeqinisekile ukuba okunene kuba ndina wazingqina wayezibandakanya ngokondla iintlanzi yakhe etshayela ngezindlu ucwethe.

Xa nasiphi na isiganeko, Jeremy uthatha unonophelo Clancy. Ehamba phambi nasemva kwesikolo, uyawondla kuye, iibrashi kuye, lithatha ukuba iiklasi zoqeqesho qho ngeMigqibelo. ngosuku ngalunye emva kwesikolo, NekaJeremy kunye Clancy ukuqeqesha kunye. Inja uye wafunda ukuza xa ebizwa, ukuhlala, ukuhlala, kulala phantsi umyalelo. Abantu kwiindawo zasemaphandleni eziqhelekileyo kunye neenkqubo-4 H uyazi ukuba usempilweni ngayo kuba abantwana ukuthatha uxanduva izilwanyana. Abantu e umntwana- nenja-sisini namadlelo apho ulawulo kujongelwa, ncinane i eyadini, ezikhulu inja uyazi ukuba engaqhelekanga ngayo. kuba Jeremy, kubonakala ukuba inja ngathi yinto entle; ke ilizwi lakhe, okanye mhlawumbi ngabazali bakhe wathabatha inyathelo engaqhelekanga ngengqindi ukuba awugcine. Ngolunye uhlobo, Ndiye ndadibana kids ezimbalwa unjengaye. abazali, lumka: umntu kwikhaya kufuneka athathe uxanduva oluphambili ngokuba inja, kwaye ukuba abantwana musa, UMama okanye uTata kufuneka ungenelele.

Abazali baye abantwana babo izinto ukuzikhangelela okulungileyo kubo phones cell, iikhompyutha, izinja ngaphandle abazikhathazi siya kusetyenziswa njani na ezi zinto okanye ukuphathwa emva ukuthengwa.

Ngoko kutheni na ukuba ufuna inja?

Ukuba impendulo, ngokuyinxenye, ubangelwa kwimbali entsonkothileyo ngokweemvakalelo (njengoko Ngokuqinisekileyo kunjalo nam), qiniseka ukuba baqonde baze bacinge kanye ukuba yintoni na oyicelayo nesilwanyana. Nangona umkhwa wethu izinja anthropomorphizing, ke musa ukuqonda ukuba 'ucinga ntoni kwaye ngeke kuzazi sokuva iindima ngokweemvakalelo amaxesha sicela ukuba ukuzalisa. Abakwazi nokuba siziphathe amiably yi iinkcazelo zethu ukuba akhethwe kakuhle, lisetyenziswe, nabaqeqeshiweyo. Ekubeni ulindelo zethu badla buphezulu kakhulu, sibe lula kudana okanye nomsindo. Kukho ubungqina emandla siya ukudala ingxaki Izinja abasebezi, zetyisa, abanezinja, neurotics ezifuna noxinezeleko. Oku kwenzeka ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yokuba abantu abaninzi kangaka ukufumana izinja engalunganga ngamaxesha engalunganga ngenxa yezizathu engalunganga. Kukho icandelo yokuziphatha ekuthatheni inja. Nangona abanako iinkqubo zokucinga-kwinqanaba eliphezulu, izinja Ngokuqinisekileyo iimvakalelo. Ba yayiva intlungu nelahleko, kuloyiko kunye nomsa. Oku ubanike nezinye izilwanyana Kwabemiyo yokuziphatha phakathi kwabantu yesazela. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ndiwenze olingana abantwana, kodwa zanyanzela ukuba sicinge ngendlela sibaphatha. Kodwa yonke inja ingengabo bonke. Andamkeli elandayo, iqhutywa ngokwezopolitiko ingcamango ukuba inja ufanelwe ngokulinganayo yokuhlangula, ukuba zonke izinja ncakasana nqwa bhetyebhetye zabo langoku yethu, ezixineneyo, imeko yoluntu owokumangalela. Andiyi kufumana ukuba kuyinyaniso. Izinja nanini idiosyncratic, eyohlukeneyo ngamandla ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo, imfuza, amava inkunkuma, impatho, kunye nokusingqongileyo. Ezinye genial yaye ezolile, zazifuyelwa iyachatshazelwa, kwaye ezinye ugonyamelo, yabola kwaye baqeqeshwe ukuzingela okanye ukulwa. Bambalwa kuthi izakhono uqeqesho okanye ixesha ukutshintsha zonke ezo zenzo. Ukhetho oluphosakeleyo inja angabonisa neshologu kuwe, usapho lwakho, noluntu yakho; omnye ekunene, kuluvuyo.

Ezinye izinja kufuneka basebenze, abanye musa; abanye Asinakukufihla iindudumo ngoxa abanye abayi nokungayiqapheli; abanye intiyo abantu iminqwazi umsukele bikes nabanye. Awukwazi usoloko ukuba ezi engaziqhelanga kwangaphambili; yonke isizathu ukuyihamba ngobulumko.


Buyela Phezulu ↑

© Copyright 2017 Umhla My Pet. yenziwe ngokuthi 8bhubhane Studio

Funda ngokugqithisileyo:
Indlela yokuba Umhla Amazing First

Umhla wokuqala inokuba lixesha langoku omabini amaqela. Kananjalo uyakwazi ukulindela, nokuba unayo ...

Vala