Xa Ngaba "Kanye Ixesha" Ukuze Phuthumani Ulwalamano Entsha?

Nokwahlukana omelele. Nokuba ngubani eluphelisa ulwalamano okanye kutheni ophele, oko kuba lixesha elibuhlungu zilandelayo ekupheleni wothelelwano. Ngoko uzufumana kwakhona enye yaye ukuthandana ihlabathi liphela uve kunzima ekuqaleni.

Kukho amaxesha usenokuzibuza xa kufuneka uqalise uqalise ukuthandana kwakhona kwaye ngelishwa, akukho sicombululo kulula ukuba le ngxaki. Bonke bephela kunye nokwahlukana ngesantya zabo ngoko ke akukho elithe ngqo ukulandela malunga ekulandeleni ulwalamano entsha emva kokuba bohlukene.

Ngoko ngaba ukulungele ukuqalisa ulwalamano olutsha, andisathethi athandane? Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa ukukunceda ukwazi ukuba ukwi endleleni:

Zinike ixesha

Mna nabanyisayo ukuba uza kulala-hlukana. Ungafuna ikheli kwisikhundla foetal phezu kwesingqengqelo yakho iponti ice cream kunye Netflix kwinkampani okwethutyana. Ukuthatha ixesha lokulila ekupheleni ulwalamano eqhelekileyo. Xa kuziwa neemvakalelo ezinzima ezifana ebuhlungu, kungathatha ixesha ndiyipholise imivumbo yakho. Ukumelana sahlukene ngendlela esempilweni noqolileyo yeyona ndlela ibhetele ukujongana kwaye phambili nobomi bakho.

Sebenza wena

Amaxesha amaninzi xa ubudlelwane kuphela ukuba ekhohlo bebuzana yonke. Yintoni ephosakeleyo? Ngaba ndim? Yintoni endiyenzileyo ngokwahlukileyo? Yeka ukohlwaya wena ulwalamano lwakho ayiphumelelanga kwaye bayeke ukudlala umdlalo ityala, njengoko na oza kukwenza ukuba uzive ngcono na. Ukwamkela ukuba ubudlelwane azizange zihambe hayi besazilazila phezu solayo kuya kukunceda ukuba uqhubeke. Ukufunda kwiimpazamo yeyona ndlela ibhetele uyazi into oyifunayo ubudlelwane kwaye yintoni na.

Thatha eli xesha ukuzama ukuphucula ngokwakho kwaye bazame izinto ezintsha. Wakha ikuba ube nomdla kodwa wazama? Ngoku lixesha ogqibeleleyo! Thabatha ikhosi ulwimi, anikela ngexesha isiganeko yesisa okanye ukubaleka ugqatso. Iinketho ezininzi. Zama into entsha ekwenza wonwabe kwaye kugxininisa nje kuwe.

Sika yonke amaqhina ngokuthandana ex yakho

Abanye abantu bayakwazi ukuba ahlale ngabahlobo emva kokuba bohlukene, kodwa ukuba ufumanisa ukuba nje awukwazi ukufumana phezu kwabo ugcine uzama ukwenza izinto, ungafuna ukugawula bonke ukunxibelelana nabo, nokuba yinto nje yexeshana. Kunzima ukudlulela xa uqhubeka uzinikela ithemba lobuxoki ukuba kukho ithuba ababenawo ubudlelwane. Kukho ixesha kamva ezantsi endleleni ukuba babe ngabahlobo, kodwa xa Ukwahlukana nangoku isentsha engqondweni yakho, kusenokuba nje lula ukugcina umgama wakho.

Ziphephe buya soyikekayo

Kwinguqulo ubudlelwane buya ngumkhwa ekufuneka kwaphulwa ngokukhawuleza. ngamana uzixelela ulwalamano akayi kuba buya eqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuze zihambe ngaloo ndlela kakade, nangona iinzame. Ukuba ungaqhuba ube baxhalatyiswa kulwalamano lwakho lokugqibela zonke iimvakalelo enzima inxaxheba, ngoko ube edidayo ngokuzisa ezo mvakalelo ubudala ibe nolwalamano olutsha.

Xa kufikwa zingahambi flings (i.e. neentlobano zesini kunye namaqabane random, abahlobo abanokuxhamla, njalo), kufuneka nje iphetshwe. A abangama ngokukhawuleza kunokubonakala ngathi asiyongcamango ilungileyo, kodwa nje. Ukusebenzisa nomntu ongathandani naye njengendlela uziva ngaphantsi ndililolo emva kokuba nahlukene ithande ukuba isiphumo esahlukileyo; wena ngaphezu kusenokwenzeka uya kuziva kubi kakhulu emva yonke kuthiwa kwaye kwenziwa. Zisindise ukuzifaka engaphezulu niwele ngolwalamano buya / flings.

Uzive ukulungele ukuya phambili ngokwenene

Xa akasayi ecaphukile iimvakalelo uthando kunye nelahleko ukuya ex yakho, baye bayeka obsessively lopelo page yabo Facebook (musa ukwenza ngathi wena a) kwaye ziyamiseka uzinikela nethemba uxolelaniso nibe senilungile ukuya phambili.

Musa ukuphulaphula kwabo ngeenxa nina kukuxelela xa kufuneka uqalise ukuthandana kwakhona ngenxa yokuba isigqibo ekugqibeleni phezulu kuwe. Xa ekugqibeleni uzive ukulungele ukuhlangabezana umntu omtsha xa kufuneka uqalise ukuthandana. Obu ubomi bakho emva zonke, ngoko musani ukuzama ukungxengxeza abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho ngokuthi engcileza kwi umdlalo ukuthandana xa kanye abakakulungeli yakho noko.


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