是你Dateable?

方法列表去一點點地了解自己, 讓你“洛塔位”更dateable

這個錯誤讓許多人在他們的生活中的約會是沒有的誰是一個好主意,他們, 他們自己, 是. It may seem counterintuitive, 但是當你正在積極試圖找到一個合作夥伴是最好的時期之一,以專注於自己,是什麼讓你 “蜱”. 婦女, 多於男性, 容易發生 “我喜歡任何你喜歡”-綜合徵 (可能是由於揮之不去的文化期望,女性應該是靈活的, 非晶那些缺乏自己的利益), 最終導致的不理想,不過癮的關係最好; 和驚喜, 浪費時間和憤怒,有其他人 “變”, 在最壞的情況.

我最喜歡的格言是這樣的–怎麼別人應該知道,愛你, 如果你不知道愛你? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, 並使其更容易為你和你正確的認識對方,被吸引到品質,都不會改變你的公司或與年.

由於謝爾·希爾弗斯坦寫在他的詩, “口罩”:

她有藍色的皮膚
所以沒有他
他便躲進
和她一樣
他們搜查藍色
通過他們的整個生活
然後右鍵過去了–
而從來不知道

這裡有一些方法來了解和愛你, 讓別人可以, 太!

1. Take Yourself Out

這一個是由各種和無數身邊扔 “自救” 大師, 書籍, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, 只要它是樂趣和自己喜歡的事情–電影 (一旦燈光下去, 沒有人集中在誰是獨自一人坐在), 一場球賽, 也或許是一日遊的地方新.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

有空閒的時間? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–然後再去辦呢! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, 神奇曲折, 和滿足,很多比你更多的人將有, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, 你會發現,你不需要別人一起快樂–你可以快樂,放縱通過被有目的的與你的選擇.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, 或者至少對公眾想像和自己的印象, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “你” 您呈現給世界, and therefore dates. 可能是, 和最有可能, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–這可以表現為不成功的字符串, 混亂關係.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, 做一些全新的! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, 因為–而這可能吸引日期–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, 你會孤立另一種生活體驗,幫助定義你和你的利益, 你可能有另一個技巧和談話點帶來的表.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, 你會更快樂, 更加充實的人,你將有更多的提供給有關係; 並在此期間, 你將有很多的樂趣去了解,你是所有關於YOU.


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