是你Dateable?

方法列表去一点点地了解自己, 让你“洛塔位”更dateable

这个错误让许多人在他们的生活中的约会是没有的谁是一个好主意,他们, 他们自己, 是. It may seem counterintuitive, 但是当你正在积极试图找到一个合作伙伴是最好的时期之一,以专注于自己,是什么让你 “蜱”. 妇女, 多于男性, 容易发生 “我喜欢任何你喜欢”-综合征 (可能是由于挥之不去的文化期望,女性应该是灵活的, 非晶那些缺乏自己的利益), 最终导致的不理想,不过瘾的关系最好; 和惊喜, 浪费时间和愤怒,有其他人 “变”, 在最坏的情况.

我最喜欢的格言是这样的–怎么别人应该知道,爱你, 如果你不知道爱你? Investing in knowing yourself allows you to know exactly what you bring to the table, 并使其更容易为你和你正确的认识对方,被吸引到品质,都不会改变你的公司或与年.

由于谢尔·希尔弗斯坦写在他的诗, “口罩”:

她有蓝色的皮肤
所以没有他
他便躲进
和她一样
他们搜查蓝色
通过他们的整个生活
然后右键过去了–
而从来不知道

这里有一些方法来了解和爱你, 让别人可以, 太!

1. Take Yourself Out

这一个是由各种和无数身边扔 “自救” 大师, 书籍, and women’s groups. People usually think about it in terms of dinner, which can be intimidating and awkward if you have not dined in public alone before. So it can be any significant outing, 只要它是乐趣和自己喜欢的事情–电影 (一旦灯光下去, 没有人集中在谁是独自一人坐在), 一场球赛, 也或许是一日游的地方新.

2. What Do YOU Want To Do Today?

有空闲的时间? Stop for a minute and blatantly ask yourself what would make you happy right then and there–然后再去办呢! This is one of the most simple and effective ways to tune out the noise of life and stop wasting time by being sucked into Facebook or television. It also opens you up to that many more random, 神奇曲折, 和满足,很多比你更多的人将有, thoughtlessly and unconsciously killing time. In the process, 你会发现,你不需要别人一起快乐–你可以快乐,放纵通过被有目的的与你的选择.

3. Ask Your Friends

This is kind of an elaboration of the popular Facebook activity asking people to comment to the post with a word that describes the poster. But you can learn about yourself, 或者至少对公众想象和自己的印象, by asking your friends how they would describe you. This will help to illuminate the “你” 您呈现给世界, and therefore dates. 可能是, 和最有可能, this matches with what you believe is your genuine self. But if you are unwittingly perceived as having a different character than what you know is true about you–这可以表现为不成功的字符串, 混乱关系.

4. Try New Things

This is kind of the opposite of #2. Instead of treating yourself to something you know you’ll like doing, 做一些全新的! Never ridden a horse before? Find a company that offers easy trail rides. I wouldn’t advocate doing anything that frightens the pants off of you, 因为–而这可能吸引日期–your fear may distract from being able to enjoy a new experience. At the end of the day, 你会孤立另一种生活体验,帮助定义你和你的利益, 你可能有另一个技巧和谈话点带来的表.

Having a confident sense of self is attractive. By cultivating your sense of self, 你会更快乐, 更加充实的人,你将有更多的提供给有关系; 并在此期间, 你将有很多的乐趣去了解,你是所有关于YOU.


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