Ngubani Kuyazuzisa On A Usuku Lokuqala?

Musa Call Me “Sugar”


Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, Ngaya nowesifazane izikhathi ezintathu kwamasonto ambalwa out. I ngabe khokhela everything, kuhlanganise a bagels kweshumi one Sunday ekuseni lapho ebona yena ngabe ukhohliwe wallet yakhe. Yena generously wanikela eyolanda usuku olulandelayo.


Yaybizwa ngokuthi me emsebenzini ngosuku olulandelayo ukungitshela ukuthi bezwa play ukuthi linjengezwi fun. Uthe wayematasa futhi ngacela ukuthola uma kwakukhona amathikithi ayatholakala. Ayikho inkinga. I wabiza yemidlalo futhi wafunda kwakukhona kwesokunxele eziyisithupha kuphela. Yini a guy ukwenza? No deal big, Ngathenga pair of amathikithi futhi waphetha yena ngisendleleni pick up dinner ngaphambi saphumela.


Ngemuva yethu $40 kokudla, wabeka phansi phansi kwakhe credit card waya yokugezela. Uma wabuya, wabona ukuthi angizange wafaka credit card yami ukuze ayothatha noma esehlukanisa isheke. Phezu kwayo Wangigqolozela wathi, nge ton of shevu hhayi kokwenekela kombhinqo: 'Yini engizimisele, ushukela wakho mama?!’

Yeah, ngokuba a guy akuyona into evuza kakhulu emhlabeni njalo. Kodwa uyini gonna do? Ngiye wayeka ezibuza ngalokho yini “fair” futhi iye yanquma ukuba amukele uhlelo Ngiye ngofuzo. Kulesi uhlelo, a guy ukhokha Ngokungangabazeki, futhi uma owesifazane unikeza ukukhokha, okufanele ukusho no. Okungenani on the dates ezimbalwa zokuqala. Noma njengoba nje kade kokuba courted. Noma mhlawumbe njalo. It kuncike wesifazane. Asisoze sazi ngaphandle sivumela phansi siqaphile futhi amvumele ukuba ayothatha isheke. Futhi ngaleso sikhathi, ngokuvamile sekwephuzile bathethelele ukuziphatha kwakho olinganayo.

Lena baxakekile Kulungile futhi akukho impendulo elungile. Njengoba umfana ebikade ngubani ngezinsuku abaningi kakhulu, Ngalalela zonke izindaba ezivela nhlangothi zombili futhi zonke angle. Kodwa kusukela logic akubonakali uthole play okuningi lo mbuso, I ngingowakho ayinike esithile face.

OKUSHIWO ABANTU:

YAKHE: Kufanele BAFUNA ukukhokhela kimi.

Yebo, futhi, ngokuvamile, ukuthi icala. Ukupha, ikakhulukazi umuntu obakhathalelayo, kuba kwangijabulisa – kuze khona, Ngithathe utshele, kanye kokuphunyuka konke kukhokhelwe omunye umuntu.

HIM: Akufunako me ukukhokhela konke.

Yebo, futhi lokho isibonelo ukuthi yasungulwa indlela wena ungakazalwa. Musa ukulwa it, nje ukukwenza emomotheka, kubangele uma ungathandi, wena awutholi ngolunye usuku.

YAKHE: Ilikhokhe, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni.

Le logic kancane dicier. Kungani umuntu kufanele akhokhe? Ngoba kungcono chivalrous? Cabanga ukuthi Chivalry waqala ngesikhathi amadoda ayesebenza nabesifazane benza hhayi. Women, nezwi, ukukhokha. Ngakho, Amadoda ngiphakamisa isheke ivele ngenxa yesidingo, hhayi out of umusa. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi liye eyabekwa ibe ikhodi a wekhasi, okuyinto kubhekwa Akunambitheki kakhulu ekungabazeni. Angikho ngemibuzo, kodwa sibone indlela angry wena ukuthi ngisho Ngithathe beletha it up?

HIM: Kodwa SHE wangibuza out.

Manje? Uma etiquette uthi ukhokhela usuku lokuqala, futhi akufunako kini ukukhokhela usuku lokuqala, futhi ungakwazi ukukhokhela usuku lokuqala, ke ukukhokhela usuku lokuqala Day.

YAKHE: Akunandaba lokho kwenza. A umnumzana ukhokha njalo.

Uma umfana kwenza ton of imali, Angikwazi kumane, kungcono injabulo lakhe eliphelele ubumnandi ibangelwe yonke nokuphuza spa last ukwelashwa thokozisa you like the princess ngokungangabazeki wena. Kodwa kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokuba eshibhile futhi nokuba mpofu. Cheap kusho umfana ucela usuku lwakhe ukukhokhela izinhlanzi lapho eyala inkukhu engabizi. Poor kusho ukuthi guy uye enkingeni okwenza intela uma ukhokhe for dates emihlanu ngenyanga. Zibeke esimweni sakhe: kunzima ukuba bayamsola zokufuna amasheke alternate.

Isixazululo My kuba, hhayi Akumangazi, i equivocation. Ake konke zama ukuqonda omunye nomunye. Guys, kube njengoba ophanayo ngangokunokwenzeka, hhayi kuphela ngoba akufunako kini ukuba, kodwa ngoba Kuyavuza ngempela “kube guy” futhi kube lula ukuphila kwakhe. Women, nozwela umfundi Grad noma kuthisha ukuthi akanawo izindlela ukuba njengoba chivalrous njengoba uthanda ukuba. Ungase ungabi ushukela yethu Mamas, kodwa sicela musa ukuthathe kalula ukuthi thina uku ATM yakho, kulungile?


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