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Ever kwadingeka lezo zikhathi lapho abangane bakho noma umndeni, bemagange ukusetha wena up on date nomuntu bayazi, cela onjani uya for?

Cishe wonke umuntu unecala it-wayothi ukuthi babe uhlobo oluthile uhlobo noma preference of umlingani.

I ukuzwa abantu ukuxoxa ngaso sonke isikhathi: "I date wobuciko-type abantu ngoba mina artist nje" noma "ngikhetha abantu date in career efanayo njengoba mina."

Kodwa kuthiwani uma elibheke catch enkulu ngoba zehlukile "uhlobo ekahle" wakho?

Lokhu kungenzeka angabacwasi ngokuvamile, ikakhulukazi ukuphola online. Uhlangabezana profile ukuthi abambe iso lakho You, kodwa ngemva kokufunda izibalo zabo ngokushesha qhubeka ngoba angahambisani ekahle oshade naye checklist. Ngakho uhlobo yakho mude, Amadoda kwemisipha kodwa profile yakhe uthi yena 5'6 kuphela "futhi ngokulinganisela kuphela nesithakazelo umsebenzi noma uhlobo lwakho kuba blonde, Abesifazane European Eastern futhi uneminyaka a Brunette Australian. Musa ngokuzenzakalelayo ukubhala umuntu off ngoba abazi ngokushesha abonakale match.

Kungani uzizwa udinga ukuba uphole uhlobo oluthile lwabantu?

Kufanele usungule uxhumano umuntu okusekelwe izithakazelo ezifanayo, izinkolelo kanye nemigomo. Uma ugxile kakhulu ukuthola othile ukuba uvumelane iziqondiso ezithile ufuna ukulandela lapho nithandana, ungase balimaze amathuba akho at okunamandla ekwakheni ubuhlobo enkulu.

Uma nje uvumele ukuphola uhlobo lwakho, ungase nje kokuphindaphinda emaphethini ezindala. Uma uke libhalwe uhlobo olufanayo kumuntu kuleminyaka eyishumi edlule futhi akekho ubudlelwano ziye zasebenza out, mhlawumbe kufanele uhlaziye kuphela nje nithandana uhlobo oluthandayo. Uma uphola uhlobo olufanayo umuntu ngokuphindaphindiwe, ubuhlobo ngokuvamile ofanayo ekupheleni imiphumela.

Yabhalwa uhlobo oluthile bangaba ukhululekile futhi nkomoni. Nothile ongeyena uhlobo yakho, umuntu ezahlukene, kungavumela wena ithuba ukuzama izinto ezintsha futhi athole nakho new ukuphila. Uma uzama ukuthandana nomuntu has ukuzilibazisa ezahlukene kunalokho wena, wena uyakwazi ukuzama izinto ezintsha ungase ujabulele ngempela. Nothile kusuka amagugu ehlukile kunaleyo ngelakho kungakunikeza ithuba ukuzwa ukudla namasiko amasha.

Ukuze sibe kucace, I am esikisela uzama nithandana abantu abanombono onjengowakho okunye okucishe kufane core yangaphakathi amagugu kuwe (ezifana ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka noma umoya wokupha), njengoba kuqhathaniswa ngokukhetha abanye okusekelwe izici zangaphandle (ezifana ukubukeka, uhlanga noma isimo senhlalo). Kufanele unamathele ukuphishekela partners ababelana efanayo core values. Uma ufuna ukuba ngizinze eminyakeni embalwa nomndeni, ungaqali nithandana abantu abangenalo ukuvelela ukuqala umndeni. Nokho, uma uthola nomuntu angeke uvumelane uhlobo yakho ekahle of umlingani ngokomzimba, kodwa uke emigomweni yesikhathi eside kanye nezinkolelo, mhlawumbe kufanele uzinike ithuba.

Phela, wena nje ngeke wazi ukuthi ngubani umdlalo wakho ephelele kungenzeka.


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