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Air ùrachadh mu dheireadh: Jan. 12 2021 | 3 min leughadh

Tha sinn beò ann an saoghal far a bheil cion-cosnaidh àrd ann an uimhir de dhùthchannan air feadh an t-saoghail. And yet even with this quite universal problem in the lives of people there sadly still exists an ignorance and prejudice towards people who are out of work especially those who have been out of work for a while. Agus seo claon-bhreith agus dìth tuigse urrainn a bhith mhòr thrioblaid nuair a thig e gu de 'dol air ais an t-saoghail.

Impressing is a keyword in the world of dating after all and that is what we are all trying to do in one way or another on a date whether it is by using our natural wit, dressing a particular way, or talking about our employment history but the trouble with this in our current economic climate is that we will get people who think we are “Spongers” or “Lazy” because we may not have had the luck they have had in finding a job. Bidh iad ag argamaid gu dearbh gu bheil iad ag obair gu cruaidh gus an obair seo fhaighinn ach tha a 'phuing sin tha thu mar sin tha ea' tighinn sìos don fhortan a bheil an neach-fastaidh a tha thu a 'smaoineachadh air an làimh dheis tagraiche no nach eil. Chan eil an còrr na sin. Dìreach aon neach beachd.

Bha mi gun chosnadh airson ceithir bliadhna ann an cruaidh-suidheachadh eaconamach a tha an Èirinn anns a 'bhad agus bha mi eagal air neach sam bith ag innse Chòrd e rium gun robh mi gun obair airson an t-eagal air na bhiodh iad a' smaoineachadh orm. But despite our fears, there are people out there who do understand what the world is like. Tha cuimhn 'agam a Guy ag innse gu bheil gràdh agam gun robh mi air a bhith gun chosnadh airson ceithir bliadhna, agus bha e dha-rìribh fionnar le e. Leis an fhìrinn innse, he never even batted an eyelid about it and that was one of the many reasons why I fell in love with him. Bha e coibhneil, tuigse agus cha robh e bhreithneachail.

Gu dearbh, not all guys are like this and I wish for all men and women out there that they were. Choinnich mi a Guy Chòrd e rium agus tha mi a chuala e a 'bruidhinn mu dhaoine gun chosnadh ann an dòigh unflattering. Fhios agad àbhaisteach snobbish beachdan mar "Sponger". Mar sin, tha an fhìrinn fhad 'sa thogras sinn a' smaoineachadh an-mhath a 'coimhead an fheadhainn a bhios an-còmhnaidh a bhith neo-bhreithneachail chan eil e daonnan fìor. Agus tha e doirbh nuair a tha iad cho freagarrach iad cha mhòr a leaghadh an caol Jeans!

Ma tha thu 'tuiteam ann an gaol le cuideigin aig a bheil sònraichte dochann a bheachd mu dhaoine gun chosnadh agus sibh fhèin no a tha air a bhith gun chosnadh Faodaidh ea bhith gu math iom-fhillte suidheachadh a lorg aon fèin ann. Ach feumaidh tu cuimhnich a bhith mothachail fhèin. Tha an dearbh gu bheil thu no a bha gun obair a tha a-mhàin mar phàirt de tha thu. Chan eil ea 'mìneachadh thu. Chan eil fàilligeadh ann cho fada 'sa tha fios agad gu bheil thu a' feuchainn as fheàrr agad.

When I got my course it helped me to feel a lot more comfortable in situations where I would have to state what I do but when you have been a long time unemployed that feeling of will ask what I was doing before that does still haunt you and the truth is that it shouldn’t.

Feumaidh tu a dhol dhan cheann-là sin le do cheann a chumail àrd. Gum biodh ea 'obair. Chan fhaod thu. Tha e a dh'fhaodadh a bhith ag obair fad a bheatha, dh'fhaodadh a bhith agaibh nach eil. Tha ea 'ciallachadh dad. 'S e dìreach duine agus tha thu dìreach fear no bean agus feumaidh tu uiread ceart a ràdh dè a thogras tu agus gu obrachadh mar a thogras tu (Fhad 'e modhail gu dearbh!) agus a 'faireachdainn a cheart cho cudromach mar a tha ea' dèanamh oir tha mi ag innse dhuibh gu bheil Mister agus Missus tha thu!


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