5 Actionable Kōkua ia,ʻo ka Woman No kou Dreams
hōʻano hopeʻia: Sep. 12 2019 | 3 min heluhelu
Anei oe haha shy imua o na wahine, ae ole ia,ʻo ia lakou?
Aole anei oukou e ae mai lalo hilinai ma mua o ia mau?
, He mea maikai no oukou. O oe no anei ka mea wale no mea nana Kahalaopuna ka ia. E like me ka'ōlelo kaulana hele
“ua like me mazes wahine, ina oukou hoomaopopo ia mau mea, oukou i hoomaopopo i ka ao”.
Koʻu moʻolelo me na wahine:
I ua mau i kekahi o ia mau lanky a me ka uala iʻolua a pau ma na makahiki koʻu mau kula kiʻekiʻe. Aole au i ike i ka mea e olelo aku ai e hana aku ai e kaulana me na wahine.
Ka ninau wale i mau Haunted mai iaʻu he pehea ia,ʻo nā wāhine? O na makamaka puni mai iaʻu i keia manawa oiai au hiki loa i ka neʻe mua i noi i kekahi kaikamahine mai.
Initially au i ae mai ka makau o ka rejection. Ma hope mai, ua loaʻa i ka hapa nui o na kaikamahine puni mai iaʻu, ua hana mua, a me keia wahi aku au i loko o nā koho.
Keia mau e hiki mai no ka hala loa kekahi manawa, a hiki kaikuaana kuu kaikunane i haawi mai iaʻu i kekahi mau kōkua. I hahai iā lākou, a me koke loaa kaulana i waena kaikamahine.
i keia la, I loaa i ka wahine, a ua hana ia kela wahine. Koʻu hoao ana me ka wahine lawelawe ana, ua hoolilo mai iaʻu i kanaka akamai loa i ke akamai o Kaʻahumanu na wahine. Kekahi o kēia mau kōkua i hiki no hoi e kokua mai ia oukou ma keia manao, he penei.
1. e paulele:
Paulele ua pili aloha a me ka mahaloʻia e nā wāhine. Oe e hele hala kela wahine, me ka paulele e pili ana.
A pessimisticʻano o ka mea proves ia oe e ae mai inferiority luna 'ka mea, he nui huli aku no ka wahine.
Na wahine e like me na kanaka e hiki ai ia lakou hilinai maluna o. pela, mau ho'āʻo e mālama pono ana i na wahine e, e ike i ka oukou poe ikaika, a me dependable. A wahi iho e hoolea ana i ke hoi kōkua ia,ʻo wahine.
2. Compliment i na wahine:
Wahine loa aloha compliments. He mea paha i ka hana maikaʻi, a me ka hapanui hoʻomano hoao ia,ʻo nā wāhine.
Oe ke compliment ia ma ke ala āna i oi, ma ke ala āna i hele, i mea kamaʻilio, lole, a me ka minoʻaka. Basically, i kekahi mea ia oukou compliment ia no e hana i kona hauoli.
A hailona o na wahine e pāpā ikaika aloha i na compliments e pili ana i kona pā nani. Pela no oukou e hiki wale hoao complimenting wahine maluna o ko lakou palupalu, a alohaʻano, mālama naau, a me na na mea a koke loaa i ko lakou noonoo.
3. He lohe pono:
Hookahi kumu likeʻole i waena o nā kānaka, a me nā wāhine, he, i ka wa na kanaka e hai aku ia oukou i ka pilikia, lakou manao nei e hele mai me ka hiki pāʻoihana.
nae, i ka wa nā wāhine hai aku ia oukou i ka pilikia, lakou wale makemake nei au e hoolohe mai i ka pilikia, a sulk pu ia.
Na wahine i uuku paha aole panee e pili ana i ka pāʻoihana i na pilikia. keia wahi aku, aole e hiki ia,ʻo ia mau mea nui ma ka pono oia i ka lohe maikaʻi, a me lending ko oukou mau pepeiao, i nā mea a pau a lakou i hele mai nei. I keia, e hoolilo ia lakou manao ia oukou io aloha, ae mālama ana ia lakou.
4. Haawi ia lakou makana:
Makana i nā wāhine loa hauʻoli. Hana nui ka pane i ka ninau ana ia,ʻo nā wāhine o ka mea, e haawi aku i na makana ma kela hiki i ka manawa maopopo. E like me na wahine, i mea e like me ka mea e like me ka mua nano pono e hookahakaha.
No ia mea,, oe i ka manao e malama i diary e paipai aku i ka lā, no ka mea uuku o na hanana. E hāʻawi aku i nā wāhine makana e hoʻolauleʻa pule, a malama anniversaries o ia mau hanana ia,ʻo ia lakou nei.
5. e hoʻomaʻamaʻa kauaʻana:
Kaua'ē aʻe, ua pili kēia kuaiia ma nā wāhine a pau ma luna o ka. E hōʻoia i ka mea aʻoukou i hoopoina i na lāliʻi iki o ke kaua'ē aʻe e like me ka weheʻana o ke kaʻa puka no ia a kali a hiki i kona noho ana e Hawaii ia,ʻo ia. Ole hooho ia ia, aole hoi kekahi wahine ma kona alo. Keia e kokua ia oe, e loaa i ka loa ikaikaʻia ma luna o ka wahine a oukou e makemake ai e kii ai.
Panina:
Hana i manao ai manaʻo ma luna o ka ia,ʻo nā wāhine, he e hoike mai ia lakou i ko oukou 'ehaʻeha aoao. Wahine make-ikaika a me ka emotionless kanaka, he he nā kaʻao.
Kela wahine like ke kanaka nana e kahea ma luna o kona poʻohiwi. No ia mea,, Ina hiki, hoike ia ko oukou 'ehaʻeha aoao.
Lawe ia i pilialoha kiʻiʻoniʻoni, kukui malamalama Lokomaikaʻi. I ka hoao ana o na mea a pau o keia a loaa he nui nā lā a pau, ina paha koʻu ola.
nae, nā kiʻina hana a wooing a Kaʻahumanu wāhine oko mai kekahi wahine i kekahi. Kupono hoakaka e kokua mai oe iaʻu alakai ia oukou maikai i keia manao pela haha noa e noi hou nīnau.
a laila, Best o Kahalewai!
