ʻaʻole Hiki iaʻu ke manaoio nei au kūʻai i kēia pukem

hōʻano hopeʻia: Nov. 18 2019 | 6 min heluhelu

He umi makahiki aku nei, aole kekahi ina ua manao ia o ka aoao maikai a me ka easiest e hālāwai kanaka e noho ma ke kamepiula. pono, e koho ʻoe? ʻo ia. Ianuali 2002: he umikumamakahi miliona kanaka kipa online no ka launa pū punaewele. Iulai 2002: he umikumamawalu miliona kanaka kipa online no ka launa pū punaewele. Kekemapa 2002: kanakolu-kumamalima miliona kipa online no ka launa pū punaewele. Mei 2003: he kanaha-kumamalima miliona kipa online no ka launa pū punaewele (comScore Media Metrix, New York Times, Iune 30, 2003). A ma luna o 40 pakeneka o na mea a pau i ka hookahi nā mākua maʻAmelika. A I loko nō o ka pokole ana o keia mea, he'ōpiopio kanaka ka meakino, ka luna makahiki pūʻulu ma ka olelo o? anoe? ua wahine, kanakolu-kumamalima i hookahi kanaha-eha, ukali ia e na kanaka, kanakolu-kumamalima i hookahi kanaha-eha. Ka aʻe nui hui? E na kanaka a me na wahine, kanaha-kumamalima i kanalima-eha (Yahoo, Inc., Kepakemapa 2002).

Na kumu i Internet ka launa pū skews kahiko ma mua Internet gaming, ua ike. ahupapa a Single kanakolu Hoʻohana i kahi e noho busier a oi financially ka makau ole, ka mea o ia hoʻi, ka hana, ua nui, aka, pela no ke aloha, nona wale no ke aha ka uku no ka oihana ka mea, aole he mea hilo. eia, poe kanaka iloko o ko lakou mau hopena o ke kanakolu ua e manao ana i ka puʻe e mare, a he keiki. Ke anoe o ka wati waena,ʻelemakule kaiaulu aole e hele mai me ka nui o ka kähähä kekahi. He nui maluna o iwakalua miliona divorcees mai laila, a I mea e koho i ka noho hookolokolo loa, ua oki loa hoopii ae i ko oukou loaa ia oe partying ia ia me ko oukou mau kao keiki’ makamaka.

Keia ua like kona maikai e like me It loaʻa?
E like me ubiquitous e like me ka Internet ua lilo, online no ka launa pū, ua mālie, he kāʻeʻaʻeʻaʻanuʻu no ka hanauna o ka poe kanaka i maʻa i ka nui kuʻuna aoao o ke anaina. Aka, o ka mea e kūpale 'ia e ke anaina, ua oi aku hoʻokumu aole e hana ia lakou inherently i oi. Manao e pili ana ia. Kahi e poʻe maʻamau hālāwai me ko lakou mau mālama moku i?

lāʻau kī? yeah, oukou maopopo leʻa i ka maikai wale no ka ke anaina “ka mea” ina oe makemake e inu. A me ka mea ike i ka maikai loa na kanaka, ke kau mai mau i kī. (Aole e lawe i kekahi mea, mai ka casinos a me na brothels o ko kakou lahuikanaka nui.)

aoao? Like kī, koe wale me ka manuahi booze a me ka onion hou iho. Aka, ke ole oe'āina uʻi, wiwo, ai ole ia i laumania, lalau aku kekahi kanaka i loko o kekahi mau hora ma ka aoao ka mea e mau loa ana ka easiest mea e hana. I hiki iā ia ke noi, “Pehea la oukou e ike ai i ka puali?” haawi aoao i slight kae ma luna o kī.

hana? mea: wawahi ae la me ka coworker, eʻana i kekahi o ka minimal lealea oukou i ua muaʻia ma luna o ka 'oihana. Ma ke kino a pau aʻu wale fabricated i loko o koʻu poʻo, 86 pakeneka o ka heluna kanaka e aho e unemployed ma mua o ka hana ma ka oihana hookahi e like me ka Aqua. A kekahi hoomaopopo ana hoike ku e interoffice ka launa pū pono laila.

Church? Oukou manao oukou pono e lilo i laumania, ma ka hookolokolo? E ho'āʻo noho kekahi kanaka i ka huahelu i loko o ka hale o ke Akua,, oi loa aku hoi, ina Morn, a me Pāpā e noho pono e hiki mai ana i ko oukou manao mua wahine. noi aku ia oe iho: ka mea e Iesu e hana? Ke koho koke ihola nōʻo ia Ke Kuahiwi ku like me ka Internet.

hoʻonohonoho mare? A iki antiquated, paha, aka, wehe i ka hehee ai o ka poʻe uʻi a maopopo leʻaʻo ia ka launa pū i ka pau hailona hiki pono. Big hoʻohui. E mālamaʻoukou i kēia me ka “noʻonoʻo.”

makapo e ka lā? I e lawe aku i kuu mau hope, mahalo iā ʻoe.

Ka Moana, pela aha la kakou iʻaneʻi? Hoʻonohonoho mare ana, a me ka Internet? A ola hoike mai o na lima hōʻike mai i ka hapanui o America nae paulele i ko lakou mau flawed ka launa pū instincts oi aku mamua o ko lakou mau makua’ flawed ka launa pū instincts. No ia mea,, hoʻonohonoho mare, ua mai a me ka Internet ka launa pū Amelika Huipû.

kupaianaha, keia aupuni manaʻo kaʻina o kākou.
AllʻApelila ia ae, ka launa pū online no ka maʻalahi loa, a cheaper mamua o na mea a pau o ka poe maluna koho. Oluolu a me ka nike he ole na olelo elua oukou makemake e hoʻohana i ka hōʻike iho, aka, aole lakou makemake e hemolele no ko kakou online no ka launa pū hana. No ka mea, ka mea ia he kanalima dala ia oe ke puhi inu i ka kūloko ki ma ka Poaono ka po i holo mai loa he mea, oe hiki ke loaa i na malama eono o limitless emailing ma AmericanSingles.com. eia, ke kokoke loa i kahi hiki ('aʻole' oe e loaa i kekahi suave mau hoewaa-up laina), ka rejection hiki (ke kahiko inu-i-ka-maka mea pono, aole ia e hana ma luna o ke kamepiula), a me ka pomaikai ana ua kiekie ae (no ka mea, kela mea keia mea maluna o keia mau kahua, he hookahi, e like me kue i na ki Kau waihona ka poe pono aku, e loaa leʻaleʻa me ko lakou mau makamaka).

nae, i ka papa kuhikuhiE pomaikai o ka Internet ka launa pū, oia keia: āu e noho ai e ike i ko oukou mua wahine / boyfriend / waiwai pio kahea mai imua o oukou halawai me ia / ia. Keia mea nui, a ua pono ka hou exploration.
Makou a pau ike i ka nui o ke kino attraction i loko o ka pilina. I Fashion he ekolu makamaka nona ka hoʻoponopono ulia pōpilikia 'ola-ma kona piko a haule kaʻawale ma muli o ka nele o ka ae moe hoihoi. Pela no au i hoole ana i ka intangible hunaahi ia makou a pau kahea “kemika” ka mea, he nui ke keʻena i ka opuu ae pili. I au i ka i ana, nae, i ke ala oukou hālāwai kekahi ke dictate i ke ala o ko oukou holoʻokoʻa loiloi mua noho, koʻoukou wā e hiki mai hana kūleʻa, a nolaila,, ke koena o ko oukou ola.

kikokikona: “Hui, I Like Fred.” Subtext: “Hiki I E nana You kapa?”

I loaa i keia kumumanaʻo no ke aha ka mea, pela incredibly paʻakikī e halawai poʻe kānaka ma nā kaola a me na poe. It hana i kekahi mea e like me keia:

It Ka Poaono po. Boys’ po aku. Girls’ po aku. Ua noa i ka pālua purpose-(he) līʻia aku me na makamaka, a me (b.) halawai pu me kekahi o ka poe ku pono ke keka. Ina oe he kanaka, ka hapa nui o ka manawa a oukou e hele i ka hale nele-hema. Malia o oukou kamailio i kekahi, paha, aole, aka, paha, ua lilo ka hapa nui o ko oukou po e kamailio pu ana i ko oukou mau buddies no ka wela a me ka inaccessible na wahine a pau i nana aku ai i ka mea hiki ole ia e ia, ina oe i ka ikaika, e hookokoke mai i hookahi i kekahi o ia mau mea. Ina oe he wahine, au i paha malaila i ka po pale aku i na hana 'ia he o ko ke ao nei i eono slimiest aku, ka poe i immune i ka rejection i, mahope iho o kekahi, mai o oukou, lakou i koke aku la elima kapuai iho o ka noho hookolokolo, e ku ma ke aʻe loa uʻi wahine ia lakou ke loaa ia. Yep, ka mea, he mōhai market mai laila, aka, kakaikahi na kanaka e hana i kekahi mea e like ai halawai. Eia kahi koʻu kumumanaʻo e keʻehi aku iloko o.

Traditionally, ka mea, he kanaka i ka hana e hoʻokokoke i kekahi wahine ma ka hookolokolo a me ka 'aoʻao. He hiki ke hana i kēia ma loko o ka nui o na aoao. E koho-i laina he ana, he hoʻomaka maikai. Hana e hiki mau ho'āʻo mau surefire Winners:

“I ike waiu hana, he kino maikai, aka, pēpē, pehea la ka nui aku nei oe e inu?”

“Anei oe manaÿoÿiÿo nei käkou i ke aloha ma mua maka, ai ole ia e au e hele ma ka hou?”

“E hiki anei au i kekahi kiʻi o oukou, pela no wau e hiki hoike aku Santa ka mea aʻu i makemake ai Kalikimaka? “

“Nice kamaa. Wanna e anal?”

Aka, ina oe e like me onaona a me ka oiaio, e like me ia maluna laina me ka e hoike, e like me ke kanaka, makou e hoʻomaka ana mai ka uaua wahi. A ina oe e olelo aku i kekahi mea, a straightforward e like me, “Hui, I Like Evan,” wale ma ka holo mai i ka wahine, oukou e hana i kekahi mea loa ole: Makemakeʻoe e komo i loko o kona mau kuko. Ua ike ia. Oukou ike ia. No ka mea, pehea la oukou wahi moe ia, keia mea no ka mea i lawe mai ia oukou ma ia ia, e hoʻomaka me.

Ano, ina oe e makemake, e extrapolate na mea a hiki hou, oe ke hiki e olelo aku ai i ka lua o oe a kokoke i ka wahine, ua hiki pono no e noonoo ina pahaʻoukou e hele aku ai e lilo i ka makua kāne o kana mau keiki. Mai akaaka. ʻoiaʻiʻo. A o ka mea ka i ka puu o ka puʻe no ka mea, he kanaka. No ka mea, ina e manaoio oukou i ka fabled factoid i ka wahine mea i kona manao maloko o elima kekona, ina ua Kuahiwi makemake ai e moe pu me oe. ma ka oiaio, he kanaka,ʻaʻole olelo ma o ka mea. Aka, e haku i hooki aku ia ia mai ka ho'āʻo. Ma ka hopena, na tausani o ke koikoi i kamaʻilio e wahi la kela mea keia mea i ka inu hooponopono ma Amerika, nui i ka chagrin o na aoao 'ole, koe wale no na bartenders, ka mea hauʻoli mokuhia e pau ka ehaeha ma pipiʻi luna-holopapa waiona.

ʻoia, kekahi o keia kanaka / wahine / ke keka / mare subtext hiki ke kūkā mai. Aole hoi makou, ua pio e hula i keia ōlaʻi penei kekahi hula e ua lawe wahi no na tausani o na makahiki, ai ole ia, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, mai ka Hekikai o ka hookolokolo loa. Pehea maalea e hiki ia oukou ma ka mea uuku kamailio me ka huina malihini? No ka mea, nui na kanaka, ka pane, ua “Aole loa.”

I mea no ke aha la mau hoewaa i kekahi ma ka hookolokolo a me ka aoao, aole nānā 'ana i kekahi mea oi aku mamua o keʻia mua. Oia no ke aha maoli ao ka launa pū e hānai a me ka online no ka launa pū rula. I mea no ke aha la oukou i kēia puke, e hoʻomaka me ka huli heluhelu. Aka oukou ike ia.

Akä naÿe i ka “ʻohi aʻe” me ka kua'āina o, oi aku ka hana o ka online no ka launa pū, a me oukou hoi ke pau i like me koʻu hoaaloha Teresa (he hou Internet ka launa pū ho ololi), i nei olelo mai ai iaʻu ma ke kelepona: “I ka hala aʻu e ee iluna o ka piko, a laila e hele e ike i ka mea aʻu i ka launa pū. Ano, ua loaa e ike i ka mea mua aʻu i hoʻomaka ka launa pū iā lākou.” Trite, aka, oiaio. Pehea pinepine hoi oe i halawai KoʻOlau ma ka hookolokolo, loaʻa i ka helu kelepona, a me ka honi, a laila, hoʻomaka i ka hookuku mua la aʻo 'ana kekahi i kekahi? Ehia na manawa a oukou luʻu i loko o ka pilina, no ka mea, ua uʻi ole o ka noonoo paha ka elua o oukou, he hana maʻalahi? E waiho ia aku bluntly, ka mea iwaena o kakou i, aole i keka me ka mea ma waho o ke ahiahi ike ana i ke ano o kona mau maka? Ai ole ia, ina paha he mea pōkiʻi? A nui laua keiki? Ai ole ia, Pehea la ka loihi oia Ka i waho ma Parole?

Mai e hilahila. He hana kapaia kanaka. Aka, pono no ka mea, ka maʻamau e makemake ai e lele me ka nani malihini i loko o ka eke, kūpili dictates i ka lakou hana ana, aole ia e mau kukulu i ka mea paa kahua no ka mea, he lōʻihi-kau pili. A o ka mea ka mea a kākou a pau ma hope o, ka mea, aole ia? pono, ka mea, aole ia?

Nice, i pane ia.


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