Lub Bedlam ua liaj ua teb Ntawv txheeb Rau yav tom ntej Aub tswv

Xeem tshiab: Dec. 05 2019 | 7 min nyeem

* Tau tus aub koj xav.

Kev tsim txom ntawm cov tsiaj nyob rau hauv kev, thiab dev nyob rau hauv particular, muaj coj ntau ntau ntawm cov tswv rau txoj kev ntseeg tias tsuas yog kev ncaj ncees kev xaiv yog txuag ib tug aub los ntawm ib tug phaus, qhov chaw uas nws ntsib euthanasia. Nws yuav ua tau ib tug zoo kawg nkaus kev cawm ib tug dev (kuv cawm nej dim ciam teb Collie Orson yog dag hauv qab kuv lub rooj), tab sis, zoo li aub tswv nws tus kheej, nws tsis yog rau txhua leej txhua tus. Nws kuj yuav yog ib tug zoo kawg nkaus kev mus nrhiav ib tug zoo aub los ntawm ib tug zoo breeder. Kuv muaj ob tug ntawm cov neeg, raws li zoo: ib herds yaj thiab sau kuv ua liaj ua teb, thiab lub newest, Clem, suffuses kuv lub tsev thiab lub neej nrog qab zib khub. Kuv luag nyav yuav luag txhua txhua lub sij hawm kuv saib nws. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav hais kuv sau zoo li cas ntawm cov dev koj yuav tsum tau, yeej tsis kuv. Koj twb tau txais los saib xyuas nws, li ntawd nrhiav ib tug uas koj yuav hlub.

Tab sis ua rau koj tus kheej. Txawm nrog forethought, nws tseem ib yam dab tsi ntawm ib tug crapshoot. Dev yuav nyob rau hauv khw muag khoom cov tsiaj yuav tuaj los ntawm dev mills high-volume chaw ua taus zes ua hauj lwm qhov twg inbreeding tsim thiab noj qab haus huv thiab perpetuates li cas cov teeb meem. Raws li cov kev tshawb fawb raug nplua los ntawm editor James Serpell thiab nws colleague J. A. Jagoe nyob rau hauv Lub nyeg Aub, dev tau los ntawm tus tsiaj lub khw muag khoom muaj ntau ntau yuav muaj kev ntshai thiab dominance-hom aggression tshaj dev los ntawm breeders los yog Cross. Ntau cawm thiab chaw nyob dev muaj tus cwj pwm teeb meem, los ntawm tsis muaj kev txhaum ntawm lawv tus kheej. Lawv twb raug tsim txom, traumatized, los yog pheej rov homed, mus rau lub point uas, raws li lub tsev kawm ntawv ntawm Pennsylvania tsev kawm ntawv ntawm Veterinary tshuaj, tsuav ntau npaum li cas yuav muaj teeb meem zoo li compulsive chewing, aggression, tsem, overeating, thiab yog dab tsi tib neeg hu “sib cais ntxhov siab vim,” tshaj purebreds los ntawm zoo breeders.

Lub luag hauj lwm cawm pawg thiab chaw nyob neeg ua hauj lwm tsis tsuas lees paub no tab sis nco ntsoov adopters to taub nws, yog li ntawd cov dev tsis rov los rov qab los yog, zuj zus, raug kev txom nyem los yog raug mob rau lwm tus neeg mistreatment. Tab sis kuv twb ntsib ib co neeg ua hauj lwm cawm suffused nrog passion rau thiab fij tseg rau cov txom nyem dev uas yog heev xav xav kom tsausmuag los yog troubled dev rau hauv mainstream tsev. Thiab txawm dev los ntawm conscientious breeders yog zoo li tus ntawm lawv niam thiab cov nus muag, yog li ntawd ib txhia yog puas, fearful, thiab cowering, thaum lwm tus neeg tau kawm kom paub tias muaj kev nyab xeeb thiab trusting. Txaus unscrupulous los sis cuaj khaum breeders loj-tsim dev rau kom hniav zoo nkauj los yog coj mus muag yog vim li cas, tsis hais txog kev noj qab nyob los yog li cas keeb kwm. Txij li thaum tus dev ntug yog yuav luag tag unmonitored thiab unregulated los ntawm pomzoo, underfunded tseemfwv hauv nroog, cov neeg uas xav dev yog tiag tiag rau lawv tus kheej. Yog vim li cas nws yog ib tug tswv yim zoo mus nug breeders thiab cawm pawg rau chiv keeb, li ntawd koj yuav saib tau npaum li cas lawv lwm cov dev tau ua hauj lwm tawm.

Nws yog dicey kom aub xaiv ib lub koob los yog kev nom kev tswv ua. Paub hais tias yog koj xaiv ib tug cawm aub, nws los yog nws yuav tsum tau kev siab ntev thiab txawj. Feem ntau cov dev yuav tau kawm los yog retrained, txawm nyob rau cov muaj hnub nyoog, tab sis yog hais tias koj tsis txaus siab los yog muaj peev xwm ua kom lub yeej kev cog lus ntawm lub sij hawm thiab ua hauj lwm, ib tug txawv tsi ntawm cov dev yuav nplua koj zoo. Tau txais ib tug purebred aub thaum muaj ntau cov txom nyem dev nyob rau hauv Cross yog tseem, rau kuv lub siab, ib txig siv tau xaiv, thiab tej zaum yuav zoo dua ib tug.

* Impulsiveness yog koj phem tshaj yeeb ncuab thaum nws tawm mus nqa ib tug dev mus rau hauv koj lub tsev.

Siv koj lub sijhawm. Tsis txiav txim siab rau ib tug aub vim hais tias koj pom ib tug koj nyiam nyob rau hauv ib tug TV qhia tau los yog taug txoj kev. Los yog mus rau surprise koj tus me nyuam, los yog koj npliag ua zes cov niam txiv, los yog vim hais tias koj hnov ​​ib tug tsiaj yog ntse. Ciam teb collies yog ntse, tab sis lawv ua unspeakably ruam yam, zoo li ua rau Pab tsiaj khib nyiab cov tsheb thauj khoom. Ib tug ntse aub yog tsis tau ib tug tsiaj zoo, rau nkawv noj. Kuv yog tsis yog tus twg amused tsis philosophical thaum Orson xam tau tawm li cas mus qhib lub tub yees thiab tshem tawm ib tug tag nrho cov nqaij qaib.

* Txo koj cov miv nyuas.

Lub pups frolicking rau lawns nyob rau hauv aub-zaub mov commercials yog zoo nkauj, tab sis yuav muaj tseeb yog koj yuav tau ib tug tiag tiag aub. Tiag tiag cov me nyuam aub muaj xwm txheej thaum lub sij hawm housebreaking kev kawm, yuam kev pua rau lawns, zom tej yam uas koj khaws. Tiag tiag dev yob nyob rau hauv mos lwj scat thiab ces dhia mus rau lub rooj zaum. Lawv yuav tsum txhaj tshuaj thiab tshuaj; lawv muaj mob.

Tiag tiag cov dev yuav tsis tau npaum li cas ntawm ib lub caij nyoog rau txhua yam alongside koj los ntawm lub tiaj ua si. Vim hais tias yog li ntawd ntau dev thiaj li phem heev kawm, lawv ua tsis yog cov dev lovers nce tsis yooj yim. Tub ceev xwm thoob plaws lub teb chaws sau daim pib rau cov neeg uas taug kev dev unleashed. Aub tswv tau sued rau lawv cov tsiaj’ tom, txawm rau menacing tus cwj pwm. Kev tuav pov hwm tuam txhab uas muag nce xyuas seb uas tsiaj ntawm cov dev koj muaj, thiab rho cov kev cai yog hais tias lawv tsis pom zoo. Ib co tsiaj-cai pab pawg ntseeg cov dev yuav tsum tau muab ntau dua kev cai lij choj txheej xwm, yuav luag sib npaug nrog tib neeg '. Ib co tsis ntseeg hais tias tib neeg yuav tsum tau tso cai rau “tus kheej” ib tug dev nyob rau tag nrho. Tab sis lub Meej pem Theory ntawm Aub kev kawm qhia txog cov dej num ntawm cov tswv cuab.

* Thiab tej hauj lwm no yuav zoo li unremitting.

Dev yuav tsum tawm mus txawm tias thaum nws pouring thiab khov. Lawv yuav tsum saib xyuas, hlub, stimulation, thiab qoj ib ce, txawm thaum koj nyob nraum nkees, tibneeg hu tauj coob, los yog tsis nyob rau hauv lub mus ob peb vas. Lawv xav tau kev pab tsis abate thaum koj xav tau ib tug weekend tawm los yog hais tias koj nyob twj ywm lig nyob rau ntawm lub chaw ua hauj lwm.

Paub aub lovers xav tias yuav muaj cov teeb meem thiab next lawv nrog kev lom zem thiab ua siab ntev. Nyob rau hauv rov qab, lawv tau ntau txoj kev hlub, kev lom zem, thiab kev ua khub. Muaj kev tsis sib haum thiab ntshaw nyob rau hauv tej kev sib raug zoo, tib neeg los yog canine. Kuv ntseeg tias nyob rau hauv kev noj ib tug ntev saib thaum nws mus dev. Koj yuav tsum tau saib tshaj lub caij, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum twg koj muaj rau hauv pem teb ntawm peb A.M. dabbing nyob rau ntaub pua nrog Xwm 's Miracle, sim tshem tawm cov tsw. Qhov ntev saib xwb los nrog to taub qhov xwm ntawm cov tsiaj, thiab txais tau hais tias txawm nrog zoo siab lawv yuav tsis yeej ib txwm ntxaij nrog peb.

* Ua zoo dev tom cov kev tsim txom kev zam txim.

Cia li ib xyoo caum dhau los, dev tseem “saws,” tsis “rescued,” ib tug txawm ntau xav them notion. Ntau aub tswv tshaj Kuv yeej suav tam sim no qhia los yog piav qhia txog lawv cov dev nrog cov kab lus: “Nws tej zaum phem.”Thaum kuv nug seb lawv paub, lub pov thawj yog feem ntau tsis tseem ceeb, nyob zoo.

Yuav ceev faj yog hais tias tus lub siab xav mus txuag ib tug aub los ntawm kev tsim txom yog thawj yog vim li cas koj xav kom ib tug. Muaj ntau ntau txoj kev los qhia tib neeg thiab nrog, rau cov neeg los yog tsiaj, tab sis qhov no particular tsiaj yog tsiv mus rau hauv koj lub tsev. Yog hais tias koj misread koj tus kheej lub hom phiaj los yog ua erroneous xav, neb ob leeg yuav tau daws cov aftermath rau xyoo.

Steven R. Lindsay, nyob rau hauv nws seminal ob-volume Phau ntawv no ntawm Applied Aub cwj pwm thiab kev kawm, txog kev xav tau hais txog kev tsim txom nyob rau hauv tus nrhiav tau ntawm cov dev. Ntshai ntawm tib neeg kev sib cuag thiab lwm yam avoidance cwj pwm tau tej zaum kuj yuav twb tsis siv rau yav dhau los mistreatment, Lindsay lees paub. Tab sis chaw ua hauj lwm yog ceev li yuav ua tau uas piav thaum lawv tham mus ua adopters, tsis paub txog seb nws yog tseeb. “Tseeg, lub cev thiab lub siab lub ntsws kev tsim txom tshwm sim thiab tej zaum yuav ib tug tseem ceeb ua ntawm kev ntshai,” Lindsay sau. “Txawm li cas los, nws tej zaum tshwm sim deb tsawg feem ntau tshaj ib tug tej zaum xav tias yuav los ntawm lub zaus ntawm yam lus ceeb toom.”

Txij li thaum dev yuav tsis kho peb, los yog tsis txaus siab txog lawv niam lawv txiv, nws yog yooj yim los mus xav tias tsuav cov neeg raug ntawm tib neeg kev phem heev, ib lub tswv yim uas feem ntau kuj fits peb tus kheej lub siab lub ntsws xav tau kev pab thiab keebkwm. Tab sis noob caj noob ces, inbreeding, thiab tej yam kev mob nyob rau hauv ib tug litter, cov lwm yam, kuj profoundly hloov ib tug dev. Feem ntau ntawm cov sij hawm, peb yuav tsis paub ib tug kev muaj tiag uas yuav ua pov thawj tsis tshua txaus siab dua ib tug cawm fantasy. Koj yuav hlub no aub ntau li ntau, yog hais tias koj paub hais tias nws yog fearful vim hais tias nws yog insufficiently socialized raws li ib tug me nyuam aub?

* Yuav tsis ntseeg ntawm koj tus kheej thiab xav tias yuav tsis ntseeg tau pib nyob rau hauv cov neeg uas koj nyob nraum tau ib tug dev los ntawm.

Zoo breeders thiab conscientious cawm thiab chaw nyob neeg ua hauj lwm yuav tsum ceev faj ntawm koj xav rau ib tug dev, txawm mus rau lub point ntawm obnoxiousness. Lawv mam li nug txog koj lub sij hawm, vaj, laj kab, cov me nyuam, aub-owning kev kawm txawj thiab lawv yuav tsum. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, yog hais tias lawv ua tsis tau, noj raws li ib tug ceeb toom tias tej zaum koj yuav tsum tau nrhiav ib tug dev nyob rau hauv lub qhov chaw tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Yog li ntawd muaj coob tus neeg paub li ntawd me ntsis txog cov dev thaum lawv tau txais ib los yog muaj xws unrealistic kev ntshaw uas lab ntawm cov dev yog raug tej kev phem, rov qab, los yog tso tseg txhua txhua xyoo. Cov neeg uas faib rau lawv tau pom ib tug ntau, ntau heev tej zaum kuj. Koj tsis xav kom ib tug aub los ntawm ib tug neeg xav kom muab los yog muag koj ib tsis tau nug ib co lus nug nyuaj.

* Paub koj tus kheej.

Cov neeg yuav liam dev thaum muaj teeb meem tshwm sim, tab sis lawv yog yuav luag ib txwm peb txhaum. Yog peb tau ib tug ruam xaiv (nqa ib tug huskie mus rau ib tug condo nyob rau hauv Boca Raton), los yog peb tsis tshua muaj lub sij hawm thiab cwm pwm rau cob qhia ib tug aub, los yog peb coj qhov chaw nkaum hauv u. Feem ntau yuav, koj nyob nraum tau ib tug dev vim hais tias koj xav tau ib yam dab tsi los yog xav hlub, los yog lwm yam kev hlub, los yog vim hais tias koj xav hloov tej yam uas koj hlub uas ploj mus. Muaj tsis muaj dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm los yog troubling txog hais tias, tab sis nws tsis yog ib tug aub tsis muaj kev pab rau tsuj los yog tsis muab nws los ntawm insisting, “Kuv tau txais ib tug dev rau cov me nyuam” los yog “Kuv cia li tau txais nws kom neeg tub sab tam sim ntawd.”

Thiab tsis muaj lub siab xav hlub outweigh lwm yam ntxwv? Yog koj tus neeg mob? Koj puas muaj ib tug siab siab tev taus rau suab nrov, teeb meem, thiab tumult? Ua koj nqi zog huv si khaub hlab thiab rooj tog zaum? Los yog pw lig hnub Sunday? Koj puas chim siab yooj yim? Tau txais ib tug dev yog ib tug loj, kim, lub neej-Process txiav txim siab uas muaj feem xyuam rau koj rau lub xyoo.

* Dev yog tsis yog tib neeg, nco ntsoov. Lawv tsis xav hais tias nyob rau hauv tib neeg cov lus los yog cov nqe lus.

Lawv yuav qhia tsis dab neeg, raws li piav, nyeem peb cov minds (txawm hais tias lawv ua paub peb moods). Lawv yog cov tsis “cov me nyuam nrog plaub,” los yog cov me nyuam ntawm tag nrho cov. Tej zaum peb yuav hlub lawv kom tuag, tab sis hais tias tsis yog lawv zoo li peb. Nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb, feem ntau aub tswv hlub lawv vim hais tias lawv nyob nraum tsis nyiam peb. Tsis kam lees lawv cov dogness yog ib tug disservice rau ob leeg hom. Kom nco hais tias lawv yog cov tsiaj, uas tau tsav lom zem ntau los ntawm instinctual siab nyiam rau txhua lwm yam thiab rau cov zaub mov, nrog txiv neej pw, thiab mloog, yog hloov nws txoj kev muaj tiag ntawm lawv natures, thiab phomsij lawv.

* Dev tsis therapists, yog.

Koj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus aub yuav muaj cuam tshuam thiab zoo li tus los ntawm koj tus kheej tsev neeg keeb kwm thiab kev xav yav dhau los, tab sis tus aub tus muaj peev xwm yuav kho laus traumas los yog sau voids xwb. Cov neeg yuav qhia rau koj hais tias lawv cov dev to taub lawv siab kev xav thiab paub lawv deepest secrets, tiam sis tsis txhob pov tseg koj txoj kev xav hnab nqa taug kev rau ib tug tsiaj. Yog hais tias koj xav tau kev pab nrog cov teeb meem, loj los yog me, tau txais nws. Yog hais tias koj tus dev to taub koj zoo dua koj tus txiv los yog tus poj niam, muab tus aub ib tug pob txha, ces mus ntsib ib tug counselor sib yuav, los yog nyob rau ntawm lub heev tsawg muaj ib co kev sib tham nrog koj tus txij nkawm. Tsis txhob nug koj tus dev yuav ua rau koj zoo siab los yog kho koj kev nyuaj siab. Koj tus dev xav tej zaum center nyob rau hauv thaum koj yuav tau tawm koj lub taub qab thiab pub nws.

* Dev yog nce tau pom raws li sagacious dab thiab prescient ntsuj plig.

Lub Meej pem Theory tsis yuav nws. Lub yooj yim koj kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug dev, zoo, vim hais tias cov dev yog yooj yim. Lawv hlub cai, niaj hnub thiab clarity, coj noj coj ua, intriguing ntxhiab tsw, lwm cov dev, thiab, ntawm chav kawm, khoom noj khoom haus thiab tus neeg uas muab nws. Ib tug ntawm cov cornerstones ntawm lub Meej pem Theory: Koj tus dev yog vwm txog koj, tab sis nws kuj kawm tau mus hlub luag lwm tus tuav ib tug hamburger.

* Ib tug bedrock notion ntawm kuv mus kom ze rau nyob nrog dev yog hais tias peb yuav tsum tau tseeb, saj zawg zog, thiab muaj tswv yim, nyuaj rau cov neeg tab sis yooj yim rau cov dev.

Cia siab tias ib tug ntau ntawm koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm lub siab ntev, kev txiav txim, thiab sib xws. Raws li koj, tus aub yuav ua raws li nplua. Tsis txhob xav hais tias nyob rau hauv cov nqe lus ntawm “zoo” thiab “phem” dev. Cov no yog cov tib neeg notions uas tsis thov kev pab rau cov tsiaj. Muaj, es tsis txhob, dev uas to taub yuav ua li cas nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no thiab dev uas ua tsis. Qee zaus, dev yog inherently tsausmuag, txhob kaw puas, los yog raug tej kev phem tshaj kho. Kaj siab lug, tsuav tsawg.


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