Leej twg them rau cov A Thawj Hnub?

Xeem tshiab: Nov. 15 2019 | 3 min nyeem

Tsis txhob hu rau kuv “Qab Zib”


Ib tug ob peb xyoos dhau los, Kuv txawm tawm mus nrog ib tug poj niam peb lub sij hawm nyob rau hauv ib tug ob peb lub lis piam. Kuv twb them nyiaj rau txhua yam, nrog rau ib tug kaum os cov Bagels ib hnub Sunday thaum sawv ntxov thaum nws pom tau hais tias nws tau tsis nco qab lawm nws lub hnab nyiaj. Nws generously muaj tuaj tos tom ntej no hnub.


Nws hu ua rau kuv ntawm ua hauj lwm hnub tom ntej qhia rau kuv hais tias nws hnov ​​txog ib tug ua si uas tsis nyuaj zoo li kev lom zem. Nws hais tias nws yog tibneeg hu tauj coob thiab nug yog hais tias kuv yuav nrhiav tau tawm yog hais tias muaj daim pib muaj. Tsis muaj teeb meem. Kuv hu ua tus ua yeeb yam thiab kawm tau muaj tsuas rau sab laug. Yuav ua li cas yog ib tug txiv leej tub yuav ua li cas? Tsis muaj big deal, Kuv yuav ib khub daim pib thiab xam nws yuav tuaj tos noj hmo ua ntej peb mus tawm.


Tom qab peb $40 noj mov, nws muab cia nws credit card thiab tau mus rau lub chav da dej. Thaum nws tuaj rov qab, nws pom tias kuv tsis tau muab tso rau hauv kuv credit card tuaj tos los yog phua lub check. Raws li qhov uas nws glared kuv thiab hais tias, nrog ib tug ton ntawm venom thiab tsis yog ib tug shred ntawm irony: 'Yuav ua li cas yog kuv, koj qab zib niam?!’

Hmoob, ua ib tug txiv leej tub yog tsis ib txwm tshaj plaws nqi tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb no. Tab sis yog dab tsi koj yuav ua? Kuv twb tsis xav txog dab tsi “ncaj ncees” thiab tau txiav txim siab los puag tus system kuv twb pub. Nyob rau hauv no system, ib tug txiv leej tub them indisputable, thiab yog hais tias ib tug poj niam muaj them, nws yuav tsum hais tias tsis muaj. Tsawg kawg yog nyob rau thawj ob peb hnub. Los yog raws li ntev raws li nws tau courted. Los yog tej zaum ib txwm. Nws nyob ntawm tus poj niam. Peb yuav tsis paub tshwj tsis yog tias peb cia peb tej ceev xwm thiab tso cai rau nws tuaj tos ib daim tshev. Thiab los ntawm ces, nws yog feem ntau lig dhau lawm los txhawb koj cov egalitarian tus cwj pwm.

Qhov no yog ib quandary tag nrho cov cai thiab tsis muaj ib tug cai cov lus teb. Raws li ib tug txiv leej tub uas tau nyob deb dhau lawm ntau hnub, Kuv twb hnov ​​tag nrho cov dab neeg los ntawm ob sab thiab txhua txhua lub. Tab sis txij thaum logic tsis zoo li yuav tau txais ntau ua si nyob rau hauv no realm, Kuv yuav muab nws ib co ntsej muag lub sij hawm.

DAB TSI NEEG HAIS:

HAWJ: Nws yuav tsum XAV mus them rau kuv.

Yog, thiab, feem ntau, tias yog cov ntaub. Ua lub siab dawb siab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau ib tug neeg koj tu txog, yog ib qho zoo kawg nkaus – txoj cai muaj, Kuv hais rau, nrog muaj txhua yam them rau los ntawm lwm tus neeg.

NWS: Nws xav kom kuv mus them rau txhua yam.

Yog, thiab hais tias yog lub precedent uas yog tsim los pab txoj kev ua ntej koj tau yug los. Tsis tua nws, cia li ua nws nrog ib tug luag, ua yog tias koj ua tsis, koj yog tsis tau txais lwm hnub.

HAWJ: Nws YUAV TSUM them, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum pib.

Qhov no logic yog ib tug me ntsis dicier. Yog vim li cas yuav tsum yog ib tug txiv neej them? Vim hais tias nws yog chivalrous? Yuav tau uas chivalry pib ntawm ib lub sij hawm thaum cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam ua hauj lwm tsis tau. Cov poj niam, cia, yuav tsis them. Yog li, cov txiv neej tuaj tos ntawm daim tshev sprung tawm ntawm yuav tsum, tsis tawm ntawm kev siab zoo. Nws tau txij tau codified rau hauv ib tug txiv neej tus code, uas yog xam nyob rau hauv heev neeg pluag saj rau lo lus nug. Kuv tsis questioning, tab sis saib yuav ua li cas npau taws koj yog tias kuv txawm coj nws mus?

NWS: Tab sis NWS nug kuv hais tias tawm.

Yog li ntawd yog dab tsi? Yog hais tias cov lus qhia kom hais tias koj them rau thawj lub hnub, thiab nws xav kom koj them rau thawj hnub, thiab koj yuav them taus los them rau cov thawj hnub, ces them rau cov damn thawj hnub.

HAWJ: Nws tsis yog dab tsi nws ua rau. Ib tug txiv neej yeej ib txwm them.

Yog hais tias ib tug txiv leej tub ua ib tug ton ntawm cov nyiaj, Kuv yeej paub tseeb tias koj, nws yog nws meej kev xyiv fab thiab Library rau caij nplooj ntoos hlav rau txhua lub xeem haus thiab spa kev kho mob thiab kho koj zoo li tus ntxhais fuabtais koj undoubtedly yog. Tab sis muaj ib tug loj sib txawv ntawm ua pheej yig thiab ua cov neeg pluag. Pheej yig txhais tau tias cov txiv leej tub nug nws hnub mus them rau cov ntses thaum nws kom cov tsis tshua kim nqaij qaib. Cov neeg pluag txhais tau tias lub txiv leej tub tau teeb meem ua tus nqi xauj tsev yog hais tias nws muaj them rau tsib hnub nyob rau hauv ib lub hlis. Muab koj tus kheej nyob rau hauv nws txoj hauj lwm: nws yog ib qho nyuaj mus blame nws xav lwm cov tshev mis.

Kuv daws yog, tsis ceeb, ib tug equivocation. Cia tag nrho sim kom to taub ib leeg. Hais mav, yuav raws li lub siab dawb siab li sai tau, tsis tsuas yog vim hais tias nws xav kom koj mus, tab sis vim hais tias nws yog genuinely nqi rau “yog tus txiv leej tub” thiab ua lub neej yooj yim dua rau nws. Cov poj niam, yuav sympathetic rau lub GRAD menyuam kawm ntawv lossis ntawv uas tsis muaj cov txhais tau tias yuav tsum tau raws li chivalrous raws li nws xav tau. Tej zaum koj yuav tsis tau peb qab zib mamas, tab sis thov tsis txhob siv sij hawm nws rau pom zoo hais tias peb yog koj ATM lub, cas?


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