Kodi Kuti Chibwenzi Ngakhale Akusowa Ntchito
Kusintha komaliza: Jan. 20 2021 | 3 Mph kuwerenga
Tikukhala m'dziko limene ulova ndi mkulu mu ambiri m'mayiko onse padziko lonse. And yet even with this quite universal problem in the lives of people there sadly still exists an ignorance and prejudice towards people who are out of work especially those who have been out of work for a while. Ndipo izi tsankho ndi kusazindikira kungakhale yaikulu vuto pankhani dziko pachibwenzi.
Impressing is a keyword in the world of dating after all and that is what we are all trying to do in one way or another on a date whether it is by using our natural wit, dressing a particular way, or talking about our employment history but the trouble with this in our current economic climate is that we will get people who think we are “Spongers” or “Lazy” because we may not have had the luck they have had in finding a job. Iwo amati kumene kuti iwo anayesetsa kupeza ntchito koma Mfundo zimenezi ndi inu motero watsikira kwa mwayi wa kaya abwana akuganiza ndinu woyenera phungu kapena ayi. No kuposa. Monga munthu kuganiza.
Ndinali pantchito kwa zaka zinayi mu zachuma nyengo kuti ndi Ireland pompano ndipo Ndinkaopa Kuuza aliyense Ndinasangalala kuti ndinali pantchito poopa zimene ena angaganize za ine. But despite our fears, there are people out there who do understand what the world is like. Ndikukumbukira kuuza munthu kuti ndimakonda kuti ndinali pantchito kwa zaka zinayi ndipo iye anali kwenikweni yozizira iyo. Pamenepo, he never even batted an eyelid about it and that was one of the many reasons why I fell in love with him. Anali wokoma, luntha ndi iye anali moweruza.
Kumene, not all guys are like this and I wish for all men and women out there that they were. Ndinakumana ndi mnyamata Ndinasangalala ndipo ndinamva iye akulankhula za anthu omwe ali paulova mu njira unflattering. Inu mukudziwa alipidwa snobbish ndemanga ngati "Sponger". Choncho choonadi pamene ife timakonda kuganiza za okongola adzakhala nthawi zonse si kuweruza nthawi woona. Ndipo n'zovuta pamene iwo ali oyenera iwo pafupifupi kusungunula awo othina jinzi!
Ngati inu amam'konda munthu amene inayake watsankho maganizo pantchito anthu ndi iweyo kapena akhala pantchito zingakhale zovuta kwambiri zinthu kupeza munthu kudziona mu. Koma muyenera kukumbukira kuti mumadzilemekeza. Chakuti ali kapena anali ulova ndi mbali chabe inu. Zilibe chimatanthauza inu. Palibe kulephera mu izo malingana ngati inu mukudziwa kuti mukuyesetsa bwino.
When I got my course it helped me to feel a lot more comfortable in situations where I would have to state what I do but when you have been a long time unemployed that feeling of will ask what I was doing before that does still haunt you and the truth is that it shouldn’t.
Muyenera kupita mu tsiku ndi mutu wanu unachitikira mkulu. Mwina ndi ntchito. Musachite. Mwina ntchito moyo wake wonse, mwina alibe. Zikutanthauza kanthu. Iye ndi munthu chabe ndipo ndiwe mwamuna kapena mkazi ndipo muli ndi ufulu wochuluka kunena zimene mungakonde ndi kuchita mmene mungakonde (Anamutonthoza ndi aulemu kumene!) ndi kuti lofunika kwambiri monganso mmene amachitira chifukwa ine ndikukuuzani inu kuti Bambo ndi Missus ndinu!