Bwanji Mng'oma Long-Distance Ubale Ntchito

Kusintha komaliza: Nov. 23 2020 | 4 Mph kuwerenga

Pamene Cupid ndi muvi yagunda pa malo pomwe, ngakhale mtunda sizingafanane ndi chikondi. ubale ochiritsira kulola maphwando kuonananso pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kapena wamng'ono kwambiri pa kumapeto kwa sabata pamene aliyense ali kuntchito.

Osati kwambiri chifukwa maubwenzi wautali.

Akudabwa chimene chiri kutali ubwenzi? A ubwenzi wautali angakhale pamene abwenzi awiri mu ubale ndi m'malo osiyanasiyana thupi kotero kuti nkhabe kuonananso zifuna akanafuna.

Nthawi zambiri, abwenzi kungakhale mayiko awiri osiyana kapena m'mayiko. Ngakhale kosatheka, ubale wautali kungabweretse kovuta kuti mitima iwiri wachikondi. Njira yokhayo angapo kupulumuka kutali ubwenzi ndi kukhala chikugwirizana maganizo. Kwa nthawi yaitali kuti kugwirizana maganizo kumeneko, chiyembekezo chichuluka. Nawa ochepa nsonga amene angathandize mwamuna ndi mkazi amasangalala wautali awo ubwenzi ndi chikondi chaubale amphamvu.

1. Ndondomeko olimba bwanji kukhala pamodzi

Kuti anthu awiri amene amakondana ndiponso kukhala pamodzi, wautali kungakhale vuto kuti ayenera kugonjetsa kuti tikhale pamodzi. Mtunda akhoza zinangochitika chifukwa cha kudzipereka ntchito kapena wina kupita kwa maphunziro kunja. Nthawi zina, munthu ayenera kuti anali pa ulendo wopita kudziko lina ndipo anatumizidwa kupeza 'chimodzi’ koma chifukwa chakuti kubwerera kunyumba, yakutali chibwenzi kunabwera.

The chochitika umene wautali chikondi chichitike akhoza zosiyanasiyana. Kodi adzakhala nthawi zonse Komabe ndi mfundo zimene wautali chibwenzi akhoza sunakhazikike muyaya. Ndipo chifukwa chake, banja ngati zofuna vuto kuti mtundu wa ndondomeko chiyenera kukhala pamodzi ndi kuthetsa mtunda. Iwo ayenera kukhala wololera kumatanthauza kutalika kwa nthawi imene zikugwirizana ndi chikonzero kukhala pamodzi. Pamene dongosolo ndi kumatanthauza kutalika kwa nthawi pali, ndiye basi amakhala funso chosatha mtunda koma podziwa mapeto pamaso. Planning ndi wamphamvu ndi kulimbitsa ubwenzi ngakhale mtunda kwa kanthawi.

2. kawirikawiri

Communication ubwenzi n'kofunika ngakhale ubale zachilendo pamene chikondi mbalame kuonananso kangapo pa mlungu. Kulankhulana ndi kofunika kwambiri mu ubwenzi wautali chifukwa umathandiza munthu kukhala moyandikana. Kungomva anthu ena mawu, momwe iwo aliri ndipo chikuchitika ndichiyani nawo kaya ntchito kapena sukulu moyo wawo akhoza kukhala zokwanira zina. Zinthu zofunika zikutanthauza kwambiri pa ubwenzi wautali.

3. Musamatchule kaŵirikaŵiri

Nthawi zambiri, ena, mwamuna angafune kuthetsa tsiku mtunda ndi kuyitana kochuluka kwambiri kawirikawiri. Koma choonadi zilibe kuthandiza gulu kapena angathe kusiya E kumverera wotopa mkati nthawi yochepa. Perekani mpata mzake ndi kuitana zambiri koma osati pafupipafupi kwambiri. Communication masiku ano angakhale kudzera meseji m'mawa ndi wina usiku.

4. Kuyala malire

A angapo wautali ayenera omasuka ndi mzake pankhani kumene iwo kuima ndi msinkhu wawo kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli pachibwenzi mzake yekha ndiye kuti ayenera Zikuvumbulutsidwa osati ankaganiza. Chifukwa cha kukhulupirika, mwamuna ndi mkazi ayenera kudziwa zimene ena amayamikira kapena kuti sayamikira. Ngati wina ati kwa usiku ndi bwenzi, tiyeni mnzake kudziwa pasadakhale kotero amaona anatsimikizira zotsutsana ndi iwo kupeza kunja kupyolera mu njira zina zithunzi ngati pa chikhalidwe TV kwa abwenzi mangawawo.

5. Konzani kuonananso pa oyambirira

Kupanga dongosolo pamene kuwona aliyense wotsatira ena. Lingaliro ndi chidziwitso cha powona wina posachedwapa ena amphamvu ndi kusunga banja kukondana wina ndi mnzake monga iwo amayembekezera kuti mwezi ndi tsiku pamene iwo akhoza kuona ena, akunenera nkhope kwa nkhope ndi gawo limodzi chakudya. Kudziwa pamene adzakhala kuona munthu amakonda zingalimbitse ubwenzi wa awiriwa ndi thandizo iwo pamwamba kakasi kuti zambiri kuzunza ubwenzi wautali.

6. Ndi yaitali foni kapena magawo Skype

Chimodzi cha zinthu yovuta kwambiri za ubale kutali ndi wosanyengereredwa pokambirana awo amene nthawi zambiri lache. Achikondi mphindi monga kuyenda Lamlungu madzulo pa paki ndi kuyankhula za chirichonse ndi chirichonse akhoza msanga. Pa ubwenzi wautali, banja adzaupeza achire m'malo kuti kutembenuka yaitali mosadodometsedwa kumene angawamasule mitima yawo kwa wina ndi mnzake, Anaseka, kulira ndi kungokhala. Zimenezi zingakhale pa foni kapena Skype kamodzi sabata pa nthawi imene onsewo ali omasuka ndiponso ndi nthawi yochuluka mnzake.

7. Lembani kwa wina ndi mnzake

Kuwonjezera pa kuyitana foni, mauthenga ndi Skype, patulani nthawi kulemba kwa wina ndi mnzake. Izi chabe kumawonjezera kuyankhulana pakati pa awiri. Ngati wina sadalembe thupi chikondi kalata ndi bwenzi, ndiye wabwino nthawi iliyonse. Lembani kwa iye kapena chikondi makalata pa onse imelo ndi nkhono-mail. Pamene ubale wautali, aliyense amene kudabwa momwe wapatali kalata thupi ndi chikondi wina akhoza kukhala.

Mapeto

ubale wautali mungathe kupirira ndi kupulumuka kokha ngati banjalo ali woona kotheratu ndi mnzake msinkhu wawo kudzipereka kwa wina. Ndiye iwo ndi mwayi wabwino wa kukwera pamwamba vuto mtunda. nsonga zonse tatchulazi adzatumikira kusunga chaubale, kukonda, ndi ubwenzi ndi moyo monga iwo kuyenda mmene kenako kukhala pamodzi ndi kumanga tsogolo.


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