NTHAWI "Yake" Kuti Titsatire Latsopano Ubwenzi?

Kusintha komaliza: Jan. 19 2021 | 3 Mph kuwerenga

Breakups ndi lolimba. Kaya amene umatha ubwenzi kapena chifukwa chake inatha, zingakhale maganizo nthawi yotsatira mapeto a mgwirizano. Kotero inu nokha limodzi kachiwiri ndi chibwenzi lonse lapansi amamva pang'ono othetsa poyamba.

Nthawi zina mungadabwe pamene muyenera kuyamba kuyamba chibwenzi kachiwiri ndipo mwachisoni, apo si njira yothetsera vuto. Everyone deals with breakups at their own pace so there is no specific timeline to follow in regard to pursuing a new relationship after a breakup.

Choncho ndinu wokonzeka kuyamba latsopano ubwenzi, samathanso kuyamba chibwenzi? Nawa ochepa nsonga kukuthandizani kudziwa ngati muli pa njira yoyenera:

Dziperekeni nthawi

Ine sindiri adza bodza-breakups akuyamwitsa. You might want to curl up into the fetal position on your couch with a pint of ice cream and Netflix for the company for a while. Kupatula nthawi chisoni mapeto a ubwenzi yachibadwa. Pankhani lolemera Zinthu monga mavuto, zingatenge nthawi kuchiritsa mabala akowo. Kulimbana ndi kutha mu wathanzi ndi mwauchikulire ndi njira yabwino yothetsera ndi vutolo ndi moyo wanu.

Ntchito nokha

Nthawi zambiri pamene ubale kuthetsa inu otsalafe mafunso chirichonse. Kodi chinalakwika? Kunali kulakwitsa kwanga? Kodi ndachita mosiyana? Lekani chilango nokha wanu analephera ubwenzi ndi kusiya kusewera chala masewera, ngati izo siziti inu kumverera bwino mulimonse. Kulandira kuti ubwenzi sizinatero osati achezera pa chisoni kungakuthandizeni kupitiriza. Kuphunzira kuchokera zolakwa ndi njira yabwino mukudziwa chimene inu mukufuna kuchokera paubale ndi zimene inu simutero.

Tenga nthawi kusintha nokha ndi kuyesa zinthu zatsopano. Anayamba wakhalapo ndi chizolowezi munali chidwi koma anayesetsa? Now is a perfect time! Kutenga chinenero, volunteer at a charity event, or even run a marathon. Njira osatha. Try something new that makes you happy and just focus on yourself.

Dulani onse chikondi kugwirizana ndi wanu wakale

Anthu ena amatha kukhala mabwenzi pambuyo kutha, koma ngati inu kuti inu simungakhoze pa iwo ndi kusunga kugwirira ntchito zinthu, mukhoza kudula kulankhula nawo, ngakhale basi osakhalitsa. N'zovuta tichoke ngati mupitirizabe chodzipereka chiyembekezo chabodza kuti pali mwayi kudzutsanso ubale. Pali nthawi msewu kukhala mabwenzi, koma pamene kutha akadali mwatsopano mu malingaliro anu, mwina basi savuta musamayandikire.

Pewani wathawa rebound

The rebound ubwenzi mawonedwe ndi chizolowezi kuti ayenera kuphwanya mwamsanga. Inu angakuuze nokha chibwenzi sadzakhala lililonse rebound, koma izo zikhoza zidzayenda choncho mulimonse, ngakhale mutayesetsa. Inu nkukhalabe kuzezedeka anu otsiriza ubwenzi ndi onse lolemera maganizo nawo, kotero mwina zosokoneza pobweretsa zakale maganizo atsopano ubwenzi.

Pankhani rebound flings (I.E. kugonana ndi okondedwa mwachisawawa, abwenzi opeza cholowa, etc.), iwo ayenera kupewedwa. A cholumikizira mwamsanga amaoneka ngati lingaliro labwino, koma iwo basi sali. Kugwiritsa ntchito kugonana ngati njira malingaliro wosapukwirapo pambuyo kutha Amayamba ndi ufalikire; inu kuposa amaganiza kwambiri pambuyo zonse anati nachita. Dzipulumutse amawaika mavuto ndi pochitika pa rebound ubwenzi / flings.

Inu tikumva okonzeka kupita chitsogolo

Pamene inu alibenso achezera mmene chikondi ndi imfa kwa wanu wakale, anasiya Anenanso matenda kuona awo Facebook tsamba (Osamanamizira inu mulibe), ndipo anasiya chodzipereka amayembekezera chiyanjanitso mukhale okonzeka kupita chitsogolo.

Musamvere anthu ena amene ndikuuzeni inu pamene muyenera kuyamba chibwenzi chifukwa chisankho ndi kwenikweni kwa inu. Pamene inu potsiriza wokonzeka kukumana wina watsopano ndi pamene muyenera kuyamba chibwenzi. This is your life, izi zili choncho, so don’t try to appease your friends and family by hopping back into the dating game when you are just not ready yet.


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