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Last updated: Jan. 28 2020 | 6 Maminitsi verenga

Makore gumi adarika, hakuna munhu angadai akafunga kuti chakanakisisa uye nyore nzira kunosangana vanhu vaizova achishandisa kombiyuta. tsime, fembera chii? Zviri. Ndira 2002: vanhu mamiriyoni gumi neimwe akashanyira paIndaneti kufambidzana Websites. Chikunguru 2002: vanhu mamiriyoni gumi akashanyira paIndaneti kufambidzana Websites. Zvita 2002: Makumi matatu nemashanu mamiriyoni akashanyira paIndaneti kufambidzana Websites. Chivabvu 2003: makumi mana nezvishanu mamiriyoni akashanyira paIndaneti kufambidzana Websites (comScore Media Metrix, New York Times, Chikumi 30, 2003). Ndizvo pamusoro 40 muzana chete zvose vakuru vaiva America. Uye pasinei nemaonero omumwe kuti uyu wechiduku svikiro, kumusoro zera boka tichitarisa kuwedzera kuri vakadzi, Makumi matatu nemashanu kusvika makumi mana nemana, achiteverwa nevanhu, Makumi matatu nemashanu kusvika makumi mana nemana. Rinotevera zvikuru boka? Varume nevakadzi, makumi mana nemashanu kusvika makumi mashanu nemana (Yahoo, Inc., Gunyana 2002).

Zvikonzero kuti Indaneti kudanana skews mukuru Internet uchitamba mutambo wacho zviri pachena. Single somethings matatu sokunongoitika busier uye akachengeteka zvikuru mari, izvo zvinoreva kuti basa iri rinokosha, asi ndizvo rudo, ndokusaka kubhadharwa basa hakusi nyaya. Plus, vanhu kusvitsa thirties vari kunzwa kumanikidzwa kuroorwa uye kuva nevana. The rokuwedzera repakati kwemauto hakufaniri zvakawanda vaizoshamiswa kana. Kune divorcees anopfuura mamiriyoni makumi maviri ikoko, uye ndine zvokufungidzira kuti kubhawa Chiitiko ari kure zvishoma inofadza apo ungatobvumirana párty dzikaipedza nevana vako’ shamwari.

Izvi sezvaraiita Chinoramba?
Sezvo ubiquitous sezvo Internet razova, kudanana paIndaneti kuchiri ushingiwo danho muzvizvarwa vanhu vakajaira zvikuru chinyakare nzira rokusangana. Asi chokwadi chokuti dzimwe nzira rokusangana vanonyanya yakasimbiswa hakuiti kuti vave akangosikwa mukuru. Zvifunge. Ko vanhu anowanzoita kusangana vavakaroorana navo?

Bars? Hongu, iwe Zvechokwadi une mukana nani rokusangana “one” kana uri akadhakwa. Uye munhu wose anoziva kuti chemhando yepamusoro vanhu kutamba nguva dzose nembariro. (Kusamborerutsa chero kubva dzokubhejera uye dzepfambi zvorudzi yedu huru.)

mapato? Kufanana nembariro kunze vakasununguka booze uye hanyanisi Dip. Asi kana uri chaizvo anoyevedza, oneka, kana chechetere, kunhonga mumwe kumusoro mumaawa mashomanana kupati haisi nguva dzose nyore chinhu chokuita. Kukwanisa kubvunza, “Unoziva sei hondo?” anopa mapato zvishomanana mucheto pamusoro nembariro.

basa? chokwadi: vachiputsa aine waaishanda ichakanganisa chero shoma kufadzwa ungave kare vaiva pabasa. Mune ongororo kuti ini chete angorukwa mumusoro wangu, 86 muzana yevagari nani kuva rovha pane basa muhofisi chete sechinhu Genesi. Ndizvo zvimwe hunogutsa hwokuti pamusoro interoffice kufambidzana ipapo chaipo.

chechi? Unofunga kuva kumeso mubhawa? Edza kuwana digits munhu Mumba Mwari, kunyanya kana mangwanani uye Baba vari agere pedyo wauchazoroorana naye akaronga. Zvibvunze: chii Jesu aizoitei? Ndiri guessing vaizoenda yakarova Internet uyewo.

akaronga muchato? A wedzeredzei echinyakare, zvichida, asi dzichibvisa chinhu chisarudzo zvechokwadi anoita kudanana nyore rose mujenya. Big ndinoiitawo. Ngatitorei kuchengeta ichi sezvo “funga.”

Blind mazuva? Ndichaenda sanangurai vakundwa yangu, wazviita.

Zvakanaka, saka chii chatinacho pano? Akaronga muchato kana Indaneti? A nokukurumidza taridzai maoko kunoratidza kuti vakawanda America achiri anovimba yavo kutadza kufambidzana zvaisazogona kupfuura vabereki vavo’ kukwenezverwa kufambidzana zvaisazogona. saka, akaronga kuroorana uye Internet kufambidzana Unobata.

zvinoshamisa, ichi hwoutongi redu.
majee All parutivi, kufambidzana paIndaneti iri kure nyore uye isingadhuri kupfuura ose pamusoro nzira. Easy uye zvakachipa havasi mashoko maviri muchida kushandisa kutsanangura pachako, asi vari vakakwana nokuda kwedu paIndaneti kufambidzana zvinangwa. Nokuti zvakafanana makumi mashanu emadhora iwe ingavhuvhuta kunwa munharaunda pakapuranga musi woMugovera manheru apo kusvika zvachose hapana, unogona kuva mwedzi risingaperi emailing matanhatu AmericanSingles.com. Plus, tinosvika zviri nyore (haufaniri kuva suave pick-kukwira mutsetse), Kurambwa zviri nyore (yekare zvinobata-mu-the-chiso chinhu hazvisi kushanda pamusoro kombiyuta), uye mwero wokubudirira rakareba (nokuti munhu wose ari nzvimbo idzi kuroorwa, vachiramba vakawanda bär vanoitisana vari bedzi kuti unakirwe neshamwari dzavo).

zvisinei, huru mukana Internet kudanana ichi: uri kuziva ramangwana naye / mukomana / nechisimba runhare yako pamberi pako kuzosangana naye / her. Izvi zvinokosha uye akakodzera mamwe ubanguranyika.
Tose tinoziva kukosha kukwezvwa muukama. Ndine shamwari nhatu ane mhenyu-muukama zvakakomba vakawira voga nokuda kwokushayiwa vaviri zvepabonde kufarira. Saka handisi vachiramba kuti dzisingaiti sesasaradzi kuti isu kufona zvose “kemesitiri” chinhu chinokosha chezvinhu kune budding ukama. Ndiri kutaura, zvisinei, kuti nzira ukasangana nomunhu anogona kudzora upenyu hwako hwose kutanga kukurukura, wauchazoroorana Kutaurirana kwavatori, uye saka, kwoupenyu hwako upenyu.

chinyorwa: “Mhoro, Ndiri Fred.” Subtext: “Ndinogona Tozoonana Naked?”

Ndine pfungwa iyi kuti nei zvakadaro chinopa zvakaoma kusangana vanhu panguva mbariro uye mapati. Zvinoshanda chinhu chakadai:

Ndiyo Mugovera usiku. Boys’ usiku kubva. Girls’ usiku kubva. Munhu wese ane kwokuvandudza zvinangwa(munhu) ti kutamba neshamwari uye (b) undosangana munhu wechirume. Kana uri mukomana, nguva ukaenda kumba chinhu. Pamwe iwe akataura munhu, pamwe kwete, asi zvimwe Yaunenge usiku hwakapedzerwa kutaura nadzo kumadhindindi vako sei kupisa uye dzisingambosvikiki vakadzi vose vakatarira uye sei incredible kudai wanga ushingi kutaura mumwe chete wavo. Kana uri mukadzi, waita pamwe akapedza usiku kuzvitarisira kubvisa unzenza matanhatu slimiest nevakomana zvenyika, vari saka haugoni kuramba kuti, pashure imwe kubva kwamuri, Ivo pakarepo vakaenda tsoka shanu pasi kubhawa kuti varove Fume mukadzi chinonyanya kukwezva vaikwanisa kuwana. Hongu, zviri pamusika kunze uko, asi vanhu vashoma vari kuita chero unhu musangano. Pano ndipo dzidziso yangu kubanha muna.

Pachivanhu, zviri munhu basa kuswedera kumukadzi ari mubhawa kana bato. Anogona kuita izvi munzira dzakawanda. Kazhinji Pick-up mitsetse ndiwo mavambo akanaka. Mumwe anogona edzai surefire vakundi izvi:

“Ndinoziva mukaka anoita muviri wakanaka, asi mwana, zvakadini imwi kunwa?”

“Unotenda murudo pakutanga kuona, kana ndirege kufamba zvakare?”

“Ndinogona vane mufananidzo wenyu, saka ndinogona Santa zvandinoda nokuti Christmas? “

“Nice shangu. Wanna pabonde?”

Asi kunyange kana uri sezvo anokwezva uye vepachokwadi sezvo pamusoro mitsetse avaratidze, somunhu, uri kubvira rokubvisa nechinzvimbo. Kunyange kana ukati chinhu nyore uye zvakananga kufanana, “Mhoro, Ndiri Evan,” chete yokutaura mukadzi, uri kuita chimwe chinhu pachena chaizvo: Unoda kuwana kwake bhurukwa. Iye anochiziva. Unozviziva. Hazvinei sei iwe mubhedha naro, chokwadi izvi ndizvo akakubudisai pamusoro kwaari pakutanga.

Zvino kana uchida extrapolate zvinhu kunyange mberi, imi vangatoti kuti wechipiri iwe kusvika mukadzi, iye aigona chaizvo zvakanaka kukurukura kana uchizopa kuva baba vevana vake. Rega kuseka. Ichokwadi. Uye ndizvo chaizvo kumanikidzwa kuti mukomana. Kunyanya kana uchitenda fabled factoid kuti mukadzi anoita pfungwa dzake mukati mumasekonzi mashanu kana akanga kuda kurara newe. In chokwadi, mukomana haana kutaura nyaya yacho. Asi kuti havamurambidzi kuedza. Semagumo, zviuru kugadzikana kukurukurirana atore nzvimbo rimwe zuva pakunwa establishments mhiri America, izvo zvakashatirisa vose mapato zvinobatanidzwa, kunze bartenders, uyo nomufaro achinyudza kutambudzika wose mune dzinodhura pamusoro-sherefu doro.

Ehe saizvozvo, hapana uyu murume / mukadzi / pabonde / muchato subtext unogona kukurukurwa. Asi isu vanomanikidzwa kutamba kuberekesana ichi vasinganzwisisike kutamba chaitika kwezviuru zvemakore, kana kubva kwatombova pamatanda Chiitiko. Sei dzisinganyatsooneki Ungava mukuita hurukuro duku ine wausingatombozivi? For vanhu vakawanda, mhinduro iri “kwete chaizvo.”

Izvo nei ainhonga munhu ari mubhawa kana bato haibvi pane chinhu pane imwe kuororwa zvakawanda. Ndeupi Ndokusaka chaiye nyika kufambidzana sucks uye paIndaneti kufambidzana mitemo. Ndokusaka uri kuverenga bhuku rino pakutanga. Asi waiziva kuti.

anosiyanisa “nhonga” pamwechete wononokera, zvikuru nzira pachedu paIndaneti kudanana uye iwewo rekugadzirisa sezvinoitwa shamwari yangu Teresa (mutsva Internet kufambidzana Exchange), uyo achangobva akati kwandiri pafoni: “Kare ndingadai kupinda ukama uye tobva kuziva munhu ndakanga naye. Zvino ndava kuziva munhu ndisati kutanga kufambidzana naye pavo.” Trite, asi chokwadi. Kangani Iwe vakasangana munhu ari mubhawa, yakawanikwa foni nhamba uye nekumutsvoda, uye akabva atanga vachidzidzana munguva kwakatevedzana rokutanga musi? Kangani mune dived kuva ukama nokuti munhu akanga rikwezve pasina achitoona kana vaviri venyu vaiva enderana? Kuti ariise zvikuru akabudira pachena, Ndiani pakati pedu asina zvepabonde nemunhu vasingazivi noruvara meso ake? Kana iye ane varumudzani? Kana vana vakura? Kana refu sei ave panze pamusoro Chamba?

Usanyara. Zvakanyorwa kunzi munhu hunhu. Asi nokuti zvakajairika kuti kuda kusvetukira kupinda saga ane akanaka mweni, Kufunga hunorayira kuti maitiro akadaro haagoni nguva dzose kuvaka hwaro kupfuura hwakasimba kuti ukama hwenguva refu. Uye ndizvo zvatiri zvose pashure, hazvisiri? tsime, hazvisiri?

naka, hamupinduri kuti.


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