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Apo Ko "Nguva Right" Kuti Tevera A New Ukama?

Last updated: Jan. 12 2021 | 3 Maminitsi verenga

Kurambana chaiko vari oma. Pasinei nokuti ndiani inoguma ukama kana nei ndokuguma, inogona kuva nguva pfungwa dzinotevera kuguma kudyidzana. Saka ukaona kuroorwa zvakare uye vanogona kunzwa kudanana yose ine hwavairarama pakutanga.

Pane nguva ungabvunza kana uchifanira kutanga kutanga kufambidzana zvakare uye zvinosuruvarisa, hakuna mushonga nyore dambudziko iri. Everyone deals with breakups at their own pace so there is no specific timeline to follow in regard to pursuing a new relationship after a breakup.

Saka wagadzirira kutanga ukama hutsva, ndoda kutanga kufambidzana? Heino mazano mashoma kukubatsira kuziva kana muri mugwara:

Zvipe nguva

Handina gonna nhema-kurambana chaiko muchayamwa. You might want to curl up into the fetal position on your couch with a pint of ice cream and Netflix for the company for a while. Kutora nguva yokuchema kuguma noukama romuzvarirwo. Panyaya rinorema nemanzwiro akafanana zvinozokurwadza, zvingatora nguva yokuporesa maronda ako. Kutsungirira aine Kurambana munzira yakadzikama uye vakura ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yokubata uye kuenderera mberi noupenyu hwako.

Kushandira pachako

Kazhinji kana Ukama vanoguma wakasiya kuzobvunzurudzwa zvose zviri. Chii chakakanganisika? Zvakanga mhosva yangu? Chii chandingadai ndakaita zvakasiyana? Regai kuranga pachako nokuda kwenyu vakakundikana ukama uye kumisa kutamba mhosva mutambo, sezvo zviri haana kuenda unzwe nani. Kubvuma kuti ukama haana kushanda kunze uye kwete vanoswerera manzwiro okuzvidemba kuchakubatsira kupfuurira. Kudzidza kubva muzvikanganiso ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yokuziva zvaunoda kubva ukama uye zvaunoita kwete.

Tora nguva ino kuedza kuvandudza pachako uye edza zvinhu zvitsva. Ever aiva koshesa imi vaifarira asi kumboedza? Now is a perfect time! Tora kosi mutauro, volunteer at a charity event, or even run a marathon. Nzira hazviperi. Try something new that makes you happy and just focus on yourself.

Cheka zvose kudanana ukama Eks

Vamwe vanhu vanokwanisa kuramba shamwari pashure pokurambwa, asi kana ukaona kuti iwe chete havagoni kuwana pamusoro pavo uye kuramba uchiedza kugadzirisa zvinhu, yaungada kutema kuonana zvose navo, kunyange kana pfupi. Zvakaoma kutama kana muchiramba nokuzvipa tariro yenhema kuti pachine mukana kumutsidzira ukama. Pane nguva gare gare mumugwagwa kuti vave shamwari, asi kana marambana achiri manyoro mupfungwa dzako, zvingava kungova nyore musaswedera.

Dzivisa nokukarudza rebound

The rebound Ukama paradigm ndiyo tsika rinoda kuputsika pakarepo. Unogona kuudza pachako ukama uyu haangazorori nezvaiitwa rebound, asi titsauke kuti nzira racho, pasinei nezvaunoedza kuita. Unogona achiri kushushikana ukama hwako rokupedzisira uye vose inorema manzwiro zvinobatanidzwa, saka zvinogona kuva dzinovhiringidza nokuunza manzwiro iwayo ekare noukama hutsva.

Kana totaura rebound flings (i.e. kurara anongoitika ishamwari, shamwari zvakanakira, etc.), vanofanira chete kudziviswa. A nokukurumidza hookup zvingaita sokuti pfungwa yakanaka, asi havaiti. Achishandisa zvepabonde senzira kunzwa zvishoma vakasurukirwa pashure kurambana ruchigona kuva vanetsane; iwe uchava kupfuura zvimwe vanofunga rinokanganisa pashure zvose izvi. Zviponese yokuwedzera zvinozokurwadza uye zvakaitika rebound ukama / flings.

Iwe zvechokwadi ndagadzirira kuenderera mberi

Paunenge hadzichina vanoswerera manzwiro rudo uye kurasikirwa vakananga Eks, vasingachaiti obsessively vachiongorora peji yavo Facebook (regai kunyepedzera hamuna), uye akarega kupa pachako tariro kuyananiswa muve makagadzirira kuenda mberi.

Regai kuteerera avo kumativi imi kukuudzai kana uchifanira kutanga kufambidzana zvakare nokuti ichocho ndicho pakupedzisira kwamuri. Paunenge pakupedzisira kunzwa kuzochingurana munhu mutsva kana uchifanira kutanga kufambidzana nomumwe munhu. This is your life, shure kwezvose, so don’t try to appease your friends and family by hopping back into the dating game when you are just not ready yet.


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