Jinsi ya Tarehe Wakati Ajira

Sasisho: Jan. 20 2021 | 3 min kusoma

Sisi kuishi katika ulimwengu ambapo ukosefu wa ajira ni ya juu katika nchi nyingi kote duniani. And yet even with this quite universal problem in the lives of people there sadly still exists an ignorance and prejudice towards people who are out of work especially those who have been out of work for a while. Na chuki hii na ukosefu wa ufahamu inaweza kuwa tatizo kubwa linapokuja suala la ulimwengu wa dating.

Impressing is a keyword in the world of dating after all and that is what we are all trying to do in one way or another on a date whether it is by using our natural wit, dressing a particular way, or talking about our employment history but the trouble with this in our current economic climate is that we will get people who think we are “Spongers” or “Lazy” because we may not have had the luck they have had in finding a job. Wao wanasema bila shaka kwamba wao kazi kwa bidii ili kupata kazi lakini uhakika ni hivyo na wewe hivyo hana kuja chini ya bahati kama mwajiri anadhani wewe ni mgombea haki au si. Hakuna zaidi ya kuwa. Maoni ya mtu mmoja tu.

Mimi nilikuwa ajira kwa miaka minne katika kali ya hali ya hewa ya kiuchumi ambayo ni Ireland haki sasa na mimi alikuwa na hofu ya kuwaambia mtu yeyote mimi walipenda kwamba nilikuwa ajira kwa hofu ya nini wangeweza kufikiria mimi. But despite our fears, there are people out there who do understand what the world is like. Nakumbuka nilimwambia guy kwamba mimi kupendwa kwamba mimi alikuwa ajira kwa miaka minne na alikuwa kweli baridi na ni. Kwa kweli, he never even batted an eyelid about it and that was one of the many reasons why I fell in love with him. Alikuwa aina, ufahamu na hakuwa judgmental.

Bila shaka, not all guys are like this and I wish for all men and women out there that they were. Nilikutana guy mimi walipenda na Niliwasikia yake kuzungumza juu ya watu wasio na ajira katika njia unflattering. Unajua kawaida snobbish maoni kama "mdoea". Hivyo ukweli ni wakati sisi kama kufikiri ndio wema kuangalia daima kuwa zisizo judgmental ni si kweli daima. Na ni vigumu wakati wao ni hivyo fit wao karibu kuyeyuka skinny jeans yao!

Kama kuanguka katika upendo na mtu ambaye ana hasa ubaguzi maoni kuhusu watu wasio na ajira na wewe mwenyewe ni au wamekuwa ajira inaweza kuwa hali ngumu sana kupata mtu binafsi katika. Lakini una kukumbuka kuheshimu mwenyewe. ukweli kwamba wewe ni au walikuwa hawana ajira ni sehemu tu ya wewe. Ni haina kufafanua wewe. Hakuna kushindwa katika ni muda mrefu kama unajua kwamba wewe ni kujaribu bora yako.

When I got my course it helped me to feel a lot more comfortable in situations where I would have to state what I do but when you have been a long time unemployed that feeling of will ask what I was doing before that does still haunt you and the truth is that it shouldn’t.

Unahitaji kwenda katika tarehe hiyo kwa kichwa yako uliofanyika juu. Yeye anaweza kuwa na kazi. Wewe huweza si. Apate kuwa na kazi katika maisha yake yote, unaweza kuwa si. Ina maana chochote. Yeye ni mtu na wewe ni tu mtu au mwanamke na una haki kama mengi ya kusema nini kama na kutenda jinsi wewe kama (Zinazotolewa ni heshima ya shaka!) na kujisikia muhimu kama yeye hana sababu mimi nawaambia kwamba Mister na missus wewe ni!


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