Ngaba Dateable?

ukubuyekezwa: Mar. 28 2020 | 3 min ukufunda

Uluhlu iindlela ukwazi wena kancinci ngcono, ukwenza ukuba 'kancinci luninzi "dateable ngaphezulu

Eyona mpazamo abantu abaninzi benze ebomini babo ukuthandana ungenaye asiyongcamango ilungileyo ngubani na, ngokwabo, zezi. Kungase kubonakale counterintuitive, kodwa xa bethatha uzama ukufumana iqabane yenye amaxesha yokugxila wena yaye yintoni eyenza ukuba “ikhalane”. Women, ngakumbi kunamadoda, ziyathanda “Ndiyayithanda kukufunayo”-syndrome (mhlawumbi ngenxa kokulibazisa kokulindelekileyo kwinkcubeko ukuba abafazi ebekumele ukuba bhetyebhetye, abo amorphous oswele iimfuno zabo), ekugqibeleni kuzakuphuma kulwalamano enganelisiyo kwaye onganelisekanga okubhetele; thusayo, bachitha ixesha kunye nomsindo omnye umntu ukuba “yatshintsha”, ingathethekiyo.

Enye amazwi endizithandayo uya into enjengale–ngumntu ebekumele ukuba umntu ukwazi yaye ndiyakuthanda, Ukuba awuyazi kwaye ndiyakuthanda? Ukutyala ekwazini wena ikuvumela ukuba ukwazi kakuhle oko uyizise itafile, kwaye kwenza kube lula kuwe nokunene wenu ukuqonda omnye komnye yaye nom- iimpawu Asizi ukuba sitshintshe kwinkampani yakho okanye iminyaka.

Njengoko kaShelemiya Silverstein ubhala kumbongo wakhe, “imaski”:

Yena ye nolusu blue
, Wenjenjalo
Wakugcina ndabusithelisa
Kwaye ngoko ke wa
A khangela blue
ubomi babo bonke ngenxa
Zigqithiselwe kanye–
Kwaye babengazi

Nazi ezinye iindlela bamazi kwaye ndiyakuthanda, ukuze umntu ongomnye, kakhulu!

1. Thatha Yourself Out

Lo luntsileka uzijikelezise ezahlukeneyo ngeenkalo “self-uncedo” kwiiguru, iincwadi, kunye amaqela abafazi. Abantu badla ucinga ngayo ngokwemigaqo isidlo, leyo kunokoyikisa kwaye nzima ukuba ubedla esidlangalaleni kuphela ngaphambi kokuba. Ngoko inokuba yiyo nayiphi ihamba ezibalulekileyo, ixesha elide kangangoko Kuyonwabisa kwaye uyayonwabela into–imovie (Kanye izibane kuhla, akukho mntu swi ohleli yedwa), umdlalo ibhola, okanye mhlawumbi lokuya ngosuku kwindawo entsha.

2. Yintoni ofuna ukuyenza Namhlanje?

Yiba ixesha ivideo? Yeka umzuzu kwaye zibhekiswa zibuze yintoni kukwenza wonwabe ngoko nangoko–uze uye kwenza! Le yenye yeendlela ezininzi elula nesebenzayo ziyeke ingxolo yobomi siyeke ukuchitha isikhathi ngokuthi ukusivumela Facebook okanye umabonakude. Kuvula kwakhona nani ukuya abaninzi random ngakumbi, gwenxa bomlingo noza, kwaye yokuhlangana ukuba abantu abaninzi kunawe bekuya kuba, ungacinganga kwaye isole ebulala ixesha. Kule nkqubo, uya kufumanisa ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba umntu kunye wonwabe–unako ukonwaba kunye wabanyamezela ngokuba nenjongo ngenketho zakho.

3. Buza Friends zakho

Olu hlobo i lokufundiswa umsebenzi Facebook ethandwayo ucela abantu ukuba umbono iposi igama elichaza le powusta. Kodwa uyakwazi ukufunda ngokwakho, okanye ubuncinane malunga uluntu cinga neya- wena, ngokubuza abahlobo bakho baza bachaza indlela. Oku kuya kunceda kukhanyisa “nina” ukuba okusondeza ihlabathi, kanti ke imihla. Ingayiyo, kwaye mhlawumbi, oku kufana noko enicinga self yakho yokwenene. Kodwa ukuba uye zibonwa njengokuba umlinganiswa eyahlukileyo into oyaziyo ukuba kuyinyaniso ngawe–oku kube yingxaki umtya bengafumenanga, ubudlelwane edidayo.

4. Zama Izinto New

Olu hlobo isichasi #2. Esikhundleni sokuphatha wena into oyaziyo uya ungathanda ukwenza, kwenza into entsha ngokupheleleyo! Ungaze dlaka ziimposiso ihashe phambi? Fumana inkampani elibonelela ekhwela nokuhamba lula. Bendingayi ligqwetha ukwenza nantoni na uyothuka iblukhwe off kuwe, kuba–ngeli ukuba ukutsala imihla–Ukoyika kwakho unokubadida ekubeni bakwazi ukunandipha ngamava amatsha. Ekupheleni kosuku, uya susa omnye amava obomi kunceda ukuchaza wena umdla yakho, kwaye usenokuba enye ubuchule kunye incoko zalatha ukuba siwazise itafile.

Ukuba nemvo siqiniseke self omthandayo. Ngokuba umbono kwenu ukuzibamba, uya kuba ngakumbi, ngaphezulu kuzaliseka umntu uya kuba ukuba okuninzi sisenzela ubudlelwane; kwaye okwangoku, uya kuba mnandi kakhulu ukwazi ukuba wena ukuba zonke.


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