Yappily Ever After: Ingabe Wena Ukulungele for a 'Family ezihlangene'?

Igcine ukubuyekezwa: May. 18 2018 | 3 imiz ufunde

Uma uke waqala nithandana isilwane lover nabo, usuvele ninento ebalulekile in common: uthando lwakho izilwane. Pets ziyingxenye yomkhaya wakho. Cishe uzizwa nezilwane zakho deal iphakethe; uma usuku lwakho ngeke uthole kanye nezilwane ezifuyiwe, sekuyisikhathi ukubheka kwenye.

Uma ezifuywayo bezé kuqala njalo, kanjani wena sihlanganise ubuhlobo uthando entsha empilweni yakho? Uye usuku lwakho wahlangana nezilwane ezifuyiwe? Like abazali abangabodwa, abanye abanikazi bezilwane alinde ukubona indlela ubuhlobo uya ngaphambi ngokuletha uthando lwabo nesithakazelo ekhaya ukuhlangabezana “the ezifuywayo.” Ingabe like the way usuku lwakho baxhumana isilwane sakho? Ingabe umngane wakho omusha enze umzamo ukuze uthole ukwazi isilwane sakho? Ngezwa of wendoda eyayinesihlahla upholi, futhi yafuna behaviorist bird ukusiza inyoni yakhe amukele intombi yakhe entsha zibe zabo “bathutheleka.” Isikhathi, umzamo, nothando intombi izimali inyoni yakhe wayengomunye izinto okwamqinisekisa lo wesifazane “iyona yodwa.” Bashada, inyoni wakujabulela.

Ingabe usuku lwakho uthole kanye olukhulu izilwane, kodwa aphathe kini like a ezigugile inja toy? Nakuba I kholwa thanda for izilwane inkomba of ikhono ukuthanda in general, ngezinye izikhathi omunye angase azizwe “lesibili class” nezilwane omunye. Kubalulekile ukuba balance lapha. I once wayazi ngendoda lavished uthando mnene futhi upscale deli awukudla on inja yakhe, kodwa basishaye bahlukunyezwe intombi yakhe siqu.

Wake akakhethe phakathi umsizi isilwane? Impendulo ngokuvamile ukugcina isilwane, futhi ukuvumela umlingane go. A uhlobo, umlingani onothando bangabaze ukukunika enjalo ultimatum. (Uma umlingani wakho ine komzimba okukhulu noma ukwesaba sokugembula of isilwane sakho, lezi zimpikiswano ngokuvamile ixazululwe ngosizo lochwepheshe, uma bobabili ophathina abazimisele.) Ngokuvamile abantu abafuna ngenkani ukhetha kukhona bengalondekile futhi nokulawula, futhi ngeke ume “ukwabelana” wena nge isilwane. Kungukuthi ecabangela imizwa YAKHO; kuphela awabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho uma akazange athi Some isilwane sakho, umlingani wakho kulindeleke ukuba uthole nomhawu of ezinye izinto: isikhathi sakho nabangani noma nomndeni, ukusebenzisa kwakho, ukuzilibazisa, ngisho okungenzeka umsebenzi wakho. Ngakho xwayani uma ucelwa ukuba wenze isinqumo esinjalo.

Imibuzo the Two of You:
– Ingabe yanele ukuze isekele ubuhlobo eceleni othandweni lwakho mutual izilwane?
– Kanjani nezilwane ezifuyiwe uthole kanye nomunye? Ingabe omunye une cats, ezinye izinyoni? Ungakwazi yini ukuxazulula izingozi ezingabangela ezifuywayo ezibonakala akuhambisani?
– Ingabe nobabili banemibono engafani mayelana nezilwane ezifuyiwe’ yokuphila? Ngokwesibonelo, Uzizwa cat yakhe kufanele ahlale ngaphakathi endlini futhi alale naye embhedeni, kodwa yena ngokuqinile okholwa ukuthi cats ne ngaphandle? Uma enendawo bird and phikelela ube imifino organic futhi full-spectrum ukukhanyisa, akasho cabanga lokhu kusaphaza overindulgent imali? Uma noma nini lapho ushayela uthatha inja yakhe naye, Uyithola Angikuthandi inja nomoya endlebeni yakhe?
– Hlala phansi futhi ukhulume nomunye ngezinto ezikukhathazayo. Kungase bazizwe okuyingozi, kodwa kungcono ukwenza lokhu ngokushesha kunokuba kamuva, futhi ungathola ezibalulekile mayelana usuku lwakho phakathi nengxoxo: ukuthi yena abhekana ngayo izifundo engase okunamathelayo. Amandla ukuxazulula ukungaboni ngaso linye kuba inkomba sobuhlobo obuhlala.

Uma ungumuntu kokubili abathandi pet, usuvele abe nesiqalo esihle. Gcina imizila yokukhulumisana ivulekile futhi uthathe isikhathi sokujabulela nomunye (futhi ngaphandle nezilwane ezifuyiwe). Zinike isikhathi ukuhamba izizinda, ehogela iphunga, namagxolo, MEOW, Squawk, futhi klwiklwiza izinhliziyo zenu’ kokuqukethwe!


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